Do you have or think you have cool Parents ?

[SolemnSauce]

Nah, my moms from old school NY. So she always tryna pull the jux instead of acting like a normal person. Like this still 1985 and shit. Like she'll hit me up.."I called so and so and they said they would do this, so all you gotta do is let me do this, that way we can do that"..

And you hit up the person she reference and they'll be like.."nah I haven't spoken to her about that at all"

Shit be mad unnecessary, gets to the point ion wanna have contact wit her at all. Like Ma, you birth me. We got damn near the same level of intelligence...you can't G me fam.

My pops, .....that dude nutso from above the rim

 

[808HiLife808]

my dad is...for the most part...one minute hes on some furious styles shit, the next hes asking me about if i heard some trash ass mumble rap song

 

[MsSouthern]

I grew up in 2 fun and loving houses.

Not because they let us drink and smoke or anything like that. They are just good people.

My mom always had a soft spot and her house was where my friends went when they were kicked out or having family drama. She would make sure they were fed and had a place to stay..... Even if they were in the wrong. She makes baby blankets for everyone of my bff and my brothers friends kids too. She'll make soup if someone is sick. Just has a good heart

My dad is the BEST . You know when your friends want to spend Father's Day celebrating with my dad and not theirs...you got a good one. And not just like 1 or 2. But several...every year. Even at work there are coworkers who want him to be their dad. We have an on going joke cause he takes me to lunch weekly. He's changed tires for folks ....built a fence ..loaned money ... paid bills .... bought gifts ... been the voice of reason a million times....and loves music and going to see it live. He's played in a blues band and travels all over the world for music festivals. Every loves him.

I'm very fortunate

That's my definition of cool

My son tells me I'm the cool mom everyone loves but fears

I feel good about that

Lol

 

[AggieLean.]

My pop has always been super duper strict, but even with that he's always been a cool dad to me. Super chill & laid back, he was the neighborhood dad and all my friends used to ask him for advice. He used to come home from work at 5:30 every day...my friends and I would be playing outside and he'd gather us all around and tell us "knowledge is power, the more you know the further you go" Seems like he told us that always. My friends to this day still bring that up. He's also always gave help when needed; whether advice, a room to stay in, money, etc. I remember there was this baseball camp that both me and my boy attended. Shit was expensive and my boy couldn't get the money. Pops paid for it, and even gave him some spending money since we were out of town. He's always done stuff like that. As for music, he was a huge Pac fan. That was always blasting in his truck and when we ride on our enemies and dear mama was his favorite songs. Also became a huge Jeezy fan and can recite 101 word for word.

My mom is cool and kinda lame at the same time lol. She's the older person that's on Facebook and will go through all your friends and request their friendship. I be having to tell her to chill sometimes lol

 

[Trollio]

I grew up in 2 fun and loving houses.

Not because they let us drink and smoke or anything like that. They are just good people.

My mom always had a soft spot and her house was where my friends went when they were kicked out or having family drama. She would make sure they were fed and had a place to stay..... Even if they were in the wrong. She makes baby blankets for everyone of my bff and my brothers friends kids too. She'll make soup if someone is sick. Just has a good heart

My dad is the BEST . You know when your friends want to spend Father's Day celebrating with my dad and not theirs...you got a good one. And not just like 1 or 2. But several...every year. Even at work there are coworkers who want him to be their dad. We have an on going joke cause he takes me to lunch weekly. He's changed tires for folks ....built a fence ..loaned money ... paid bills .... bought gifts ... been the voice of reason a million times....and loves music and going to see it live. He's played in a blues band and travels all over the world for music festivals. Every loves him.

I'm very fortunate

That's my definition of cool

My son tells me I'm the cool mom everyone loves but fears

I feel good about that

Lol

Texas

 

[jono]

No. My parents were parents. They wasn't my old buddies. My dad was a dad, was he a strict asshole? No. But was I allowed to be in his face while he doing grown shit? NO.

Mom was the same. Kids had a place and they stayed in it.

 

[Shizlansky]

No. My parents were parents. They wasn't my old buddies. My dad was a dad, was he a strict asshole? No. But was I allowed to be in his face while he doing grown shit? NO.

Mom was the same. Kids had a place and they stayed in it.

What that have to do with being "cool"

My mom and dad did not play games with me and my sister but they were hella cool bruh.

 

[jono]

No. My parents were parents. They wasn't my old buddies. My dad was a dad, was he a strict asshole? No. But was I allowed to be in his face while he doing grown shit? NO.

Mom was the same. Kids had a place and they stayed in it.

What that have to do with being "cool"

My mom and dad did not play games with me and my sister but they were hella cool bruh.

Define cool.

 

[Shizlansky]

No. My parents were parents. They wasn't my old buddies. My dad was a dad, was he a strict asshole? No. But was I allowed to be in his face while he doing grown shit? NO.

Mom was the same. Kids had a place and they stayed in it.

What that have to do with being "cool"

My mom and dad did not play games with me and my sister but they were hella cool bruh.

Define cool.

An understanding parent that guides you to be the best person you can be and let you be you at the same time.

And have fun and not always being a fucking asshole

 

[yellowtapesport]

My moms was cool for her generation, but not so much for mine...like alot of the shit she was in to (Black power, African culture) was new and poppin in her 'time' but me and my friends wasn't into that shit

Not into black excellence eh?

Just dont make sense to sell crack in a dashiki bro

 

[jono]

No. My parents were parents. They wasn't my old buddies. My dad was a dad, was he a strict asshole? No. But was I allowed to be in his face while he doing grown shit? NO.

Mom was the same. Kids had a place and they stayed in it.

What that have to do with being "cool"

My mom and dad did not play games with me and my sister but they were hella cool bruh.

Define cool.

An understanding parent that guides you to be the best person you can be and let you be you at the same time.

And have fun and not always being a fucking asshole

Bolded is just plan parenting. That's the basics.

The other part of this equation is vague though. All that family vacations and stuff, might be one person's definition of fun.

 

[Shizlansky]

No. My parents were parents. They wasn't my old buddies. My dad was a dad, was he a strict asshole? No. But was I allowed to be in his face while he doing grown shit? NO.

Mom was the same. Kids had a place and they stayed in it.

What that have to do with being "cool"

My mom and dad did not play games with me and my sister but they were hella cool bruh.

Define cool.

An understanding parent that guides you to be the best person you can be and let you be you at the same time.

And have fun and not always being a fucking asshole

Bolded is just plan parenting. That's the basics.

The other part of this equation is vague though. All that family vacations and stuff, might be one person's definition of fun.

Parenting ain't easy. Nothing basic about it.

Look at all these fucked up individuals in the world and you can most of the time point to parenting.

 

[blackgod813]

Yeah my mom use to pick up my hoes ...longest im in side. She was happy

 

[blackrain]

My dad is. I've said it before but he's a musician and also a serious hip-hop head. Growing up I've seen this dude argue with me and my brothers friends about rappers, cadences, melodies, showing them how to play music on the guitar and what sounds were what...that opened up a door for my friends to feel comfortable and like he was cool as hell because even though he was an adult the fact that he liked what we liked and didn't dismiss it as just noise made us feel like he wasn't always judging us like kids can feel like alot of adults do. They'd stay coming over unannounced and shit trying to talk his ears off about music. Not only that but he became like a defacto father figure to most of me and my brother's friends. Hell he took more than a few of my female friends growing up to Father/Daughter dances because their dad's weren't around. He's just always been real approachable and social like that.

 

[Stew]

My pops is the furthest thing from a "Hip Hop" head, hes a straight RnB/Soul/Funk kinda guy but he straight up bought The Chronic, Doggystyle and All Eyez On Me when they first came out. Nigga was rockin that shit at the crib when I was 10+ :joy: He knew I didnt know what the hell they were talkin about so it was all good, all I heard was the beat and the cuss words that came out of my parents and their friends mouths lol

 

[Lefty_]

Thank god my grandma was there to put that discipline in me. Pops was around, and mommy adored me too much to hold the line. My mom used to go to bed early when I brought lil hoes over and not come out the room so I could front like her condo was mine. Shit like that.

 

[Will Munny]

I didn't get a long with my parents most my life. They were really over bearing and strict growing up. I was in full blown rebellion mode from 18 through my early 20s. I think they got better at being parents as they got older, but I became a better person as well. I wouldn't consider them "cool" but I guess putting up with my ass in my early 20's flunking out of college twice was a pretty cool thing to do.

As I've gotten older, I've realized that my parents really do love me, and probably more than anyone else on planet earth ever will. I get incredibly sad and depressed to think they aren't always going to be there for me because inevitably they are going to get old and die. This is one of my biggest fears in life and almost paralyzing at times. The past few years I've made a conscious effort to let my parents know how much I care about the them, which has always been really hard for me to do with my parents for some reason.

Fuck its dusty in here all of sudden.

 

[Kai]

i got the typical african parents, so no they're not cool at all lol. my mom is super smart, but so strict growing up. she's eased up on my younger siblings tho cuz she realizes that's what pushed me to move out so soon. my dad was strict too, but he was more laid back about it. my mother is the queen of guilt trips and to this day she will trip if she finds out i had some wine at dinner or some shit. that's how she was raised tho, and she's set in her ways no used trying to change her thinking

 

[numbaz...80's baby]

Nah, I have 7 Aunts and all 63 of my cousins say my mamma is the 3rd meanest one.

 

[Lefty_]

Nah, I have 7 Aunts and all 63 of my cousins say my mamma is the 3rd meanest one.

This nigga used to be the one to leave early and be like, i'll be right back... but all the homies knew you wasn't comin back. I can't have company, not one leaf on it ass nigga. But real talk, all my niggas wit the strict parents are better off in life than me lol. Salute.

Fun fact: Niggas with the meanest moms in the hood always had the best Christmases.