Do you get suspicious if you s/o changes their sexual technique, and does something new?

[Meta_Conscious]

I dont know... thus I'd b suspicious until it was cleared up...

it could go either way, u just choosing to take the "oh she just all of a sudden feels comfortable"...

so really you'd be suspicious too, u'd just convince yourself of the positive first...

I don't "convince" myself of anything, I remain in the presence of us and what we've become until this moment of said "suspicion" arising. Automatically assuming the worst would be bringing other elements into our relationship thus I am projecting from my past or others opinions or experiences with this matter.

I get where this suspicion derives from however if this is all you got when all else is blissful, you're searching to find and so you shall. It is not you or your mind which is disturbed by it, your mind IS the distubrance

I know u think you're profound, but stopitfive....

u making this into something its not...

if a bitch make my eggs different than she made them the other 1 million times, I'm gonna raise an eyebrow...

I'm not gonna yell at her... or accuse her of anything... but I will make a mental note of the fact that she switched up the eggs bruh... no harm no foul...

if you're not gonna say or do anything, what's the point of making a mental note?

future reference my nigga... is this that foreign to y'all? I've had women accuse me of all types of shit when i deviated from the script, so I know its not uncommon to take note of things ppl do...

This is beyond wack.

Sounds like those women who get mad at their man, he asks "Is everything ok?", she responds "Yes" but she keeps it in and allows it to fester until 2 weeks later when he does something totally irrelevant and she snaps because of something she got mad about weeks prior.

Passive aggressiveness and fronting on your own self, just turrible.

Be observant, yes, but to just let that thought chill in your mind seems heavy. Too much energy trying to hold that against someone.

nah... u just added all that shit... I didnt say anything like that... there is no deeper meaning to my post...

no where did I express anything about anger...

when I see something I remember it... has nothing to do with emotions...

 

This is one of those things all will have to agree to disagree

Exactly my point.

Don't get me wrong, I completely understand your perception, just don't see why you'll sit there being suspicious for the sake of it. Let it go or be proactive.

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

This is one of those things all will have to agree to disagree

Exactly my point.

Don't get me wrong, I completely understand your perception, just don't see why you'll sit there being suspicious for the sake of it. Let it go or be proactive.

I think its more of noticing the change n takin note thean being suspicious...

 

I dont know... thus I'd b suspicious until it was cleared up...

it could go either way, u just choosing to take the "oh she just all of a sudden feels comfortable"...

so really you'd be suspicious too, u'd just convince yourself of the positive first...

I don't "convince" myself of anything, I remain in the presence of us and what we've become until this moment of said "suspicion" arising. Automatically assuming the worst would be bringing other elements into our relationship thus I am projecting from my past or others opinions or experiences with this matter.

I get where this suspicion derives from however if this is all you got when all else is blissful, you're searching to find and so you shall. It is not you or your mind which is disturbed by it, your mind IS the distubrance

I know u think you're profound, but stopitfive....

u making this into something its not...

if a bitch make my eggs different than she made them the other 1 million times, I'm gonna raise an eyebrow...

I'm not gonna yell at her... or accuse her of anything... but I will make a mental note of the fact that she switched up the eggs bruh... no harm no foul...

if you're not gonna say or do anything, what's the point of making a mental note?

future reference my nigga... is this that foreign to y'all? I've had women accuse me of all types of shit when i deviated from the script, so I know its not uncommon to take note of things ppl do...

This is beyond wack.

Sounds like those women who get mad at their man, he asks "Is everything ok?", she responds "Yes" but she keeps it in and allows it to fester until 2 weeks later when he does something totally irrelevant and she snaps because of something she got mad about weeks prior.

Passive aggressiveness and fronting on your own self, just turrible.

Be observant, yes, but to just let that thought chill in your mind seems heavy. Too much energy trying to hold that against someone.

nah... u just added all that shit... I didnt say anything like that... there is no deeper meaning to my post...

no where did I express anything about anger...

when I see something I remember it... has nothing to do with emotions...

My dear I never said you said anything like that, it was a loosely based example of keeping tabs and keeping things in, nothing more, nothing less.

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

Some women do get suspicious tho. The instant that man deviates from that pattern, assumptions occur.

Almost always

 

This is one of those things all will have to agree to disagree

Exactly my point.

Don't get me wrong, I completely understand your perception, just don't see why you'll sit there being suspicious for the sake of it. Let it go or be proactive.

I think its more of noticing the change n takin note thean being suspicious...

Now this I can certainly agree with. Being observant and paying attention to your s/o is important. The message you have conveyed and being "suspicious" are not one in the same.

 

[Trollio]

shoutout to all the fellas who girl came home with no gag reflex

 

[Meta_Conscious]

semantics...

 

[Trollio]

nigga doing the propeller on yo girl

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

This is one of those things all will have to agree to disagree

Exactly my point.

Don't get me wrong, I completely understand your perception, just don't see why you'll sit there being suspicious for the sake of it. Let it go or be proactive.

I think its more of noticing the change n takin note thean being suspicious...

Now this I can certainly agree with. Being observant and paying attention to your s/o is important. The message you have conveyed and being "suspicious" are not one in the same.

As I said the question of "where did that come from" would come to mind....maybe even asked, but I'm not gon automatically assume she been takin lessons from the nigga down the street when I'm not around

 

[S2J]

lol I've heard my boys become suspicious of their hoes over some weird shit. Not new fuck skills, though

Lmao

one of my homies said he think his girl cheating cuz her pussy smell like condoms even though she bathe every night.

I had to laugh at this dude, muhfuka is super suspicious.

lol Ok i read this like on sitcoms where somebody goes too far with the joke and there's just silence

If that bytch puss smellin like latex that aint no 'chuckle it up' moment! Lol

 

[S2J]

Fellas do not let these women on here gas you. Lol

There is nothing wrong with bein perceptive when it comes to your chick.