Do you get suspicious if you s/o changes their sexual technique, and does something new?

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If its something we've discussed or that I've hinted on, no, but other than that it depends. If she a regular porn watcher, no, it may have been something she's seen n wanted to try, other than that...the question of "where that come from..." Would b in the back of my mind
 
kai_valya;5757395 said:
Stopitfive;5757358 said:
kai_valya;5757322 said:
Stopitfive;5757298 said:
kai_valya;5757280 said:
Stopitfive;5757259 said:
u naive if u think your bitch just all of a sudden gonna become Ice La Fox out of nowhere...

women aint that creative and adventurous...

but we know the IC ladies r sex goddesses who do everything to plz they men... lololololololololololol

lol @ the bolded, what kind of lazy ass, lay in the bed like a fish type hoes are y'all fucking?

if you're chick isn't on a porno star level, it's your fault for not teaching or bringing that out of her

if you men want a freak, make a freak

what is the point of sex if it's boring and bland? i don't get it

in reality, every chick aint into all of that... just like every dude aint into all of that...

y'all acting like every bitch is a freak... that is not the case...

so if a chick is a freak, but with a guy that isn't and as the relationship goes on, she starts to express her freaky desires slowly, why would you assume she is cheating/learned it from someone else instead of just thinking she's getting comfortable enough with u to express herself sexually?

who said they would jump the gun like that?

not every new thing will set off an alarm... and not all alarms r major...

if the bitch do something suspicious, I'mma b suspicious...

suspicious connotes that you believe something is happen. if i'm suspicious about where some money i had disappeared to, that means i must think someone stole it. if you are suspicious about her new moves, that indicates that you believe she achieved this knowledge in an unscrupulous manner, the only way this could be a suspicion is if you think she learned it from someone else. otherwise you just notice she has new moves without it rousing any suspicious feelings

nah... cautious distrust doesnt have lead to all out allegations... it's just like "word, u blowing bubbles with my jizz now? ok..."

u blowing it out of proportion...
 
kai_valya;5757434 said:
@stopitfive, how can you be suspicious yet not think anything is going on? what are you suspicious about? what are these suspicious feelings telling you?

Empress_;5757419 said:
If your woman has sexual relations with you on Mondays, be suspicious.

lol, this shit is hilarious and ridiculous

Not as hilarious as her giving fellatio on a work night.

If she does that, dump the garden tool.

#Dealbreaker
 
Mr.Audigier216;5757414 said:
If its something we've discussed or that I've hinted on, no, but other than that it depends. If she a regular porn watcher, no, it may have been something she's seen n wanted to try, other than that...the question of "where that come from..." Would b in the back of my mind

and thats not a weird thought at all... especially if u KNOW your chick...

if she do something out of character of course u gonna raise an eyebrow...

@kai_valya

so when pppl u know act out of character, u just ignore it? keep it real...
 
It's like you can't b a chick who doesn't watch porn, n then one day want to try some BDSM shit with me n I never mentioned it...that's suspicious as fuck lol
 
Stopitfive;5757441 said:
Mr.Audigier216;5757414 said:
If its something we've discussed or that I've hinted on, no, but other than that it depends. If she a regular porn watcher, no, it may have been something she's seen n wanted to try, other than that...the question of "where that come from..." Would b in the back of my mind

and thats not a weird thought at all... especially if u KNOW your chick...

if she do something out of character of course u gonna raise an eyebrow...

@kai_valya

so when pppl u know act out of character, u just ignore it? keep it real...

Is it fair to jump to conclusions and assume the worst of someone you have built some form of a trusting foundation the moment they show a little more interest in venturing out with you sexually? All else just flies out the window?

Not every woman pulls their tricks out all at once. Perhaps over time they become so comfortable with you that they step outside their norm, this is nothing brand new. Not every man gets the same treatment and sexual growth is no different than mental, it is constantly evolving for many.

Some believe in keeping things spicy and fresh, it may be just be that simple.
 
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I dont know... thus I'd b suspicious until it was cleared up...

it could go either way, u just choosing to take the "oh she just all of a sudden feels comfortable"...

so really you'd be suspicious too, u'd just convince yourself of the positive first...
 
s2jepeka;5757216 said:
It all depends on her baseline characteristics. If she's always been a lil freak in the sheets, aggressive type, no worries.

but if your lil shy submissive chick is all of a sudden tryna toss salads?? Lmao You might have a problem

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
 
Stopitfive;5757473 said:
I dont know... thus I'd b suspicious until it was cleared up...

it could go either way, u just choosing to take the "oh she just all of a sudden feels comfortable"...

so really you'd be suspicious too, u'd just convince yourself of the positive first...

I don't "convince" myself of anything, I remain in the presence of us and what we've become until this moment of said "suspicion" arising. Automatically assuming the worst would be bringing other elements into our relationship thus I am projecting from my past or others opinions or experiences with this matter.

I get where this suspicion derives from however if this is all you got when all else is blissful, you're searching to find and so you shall. It is not you or your mind which is disturbed by it, your mind IS the distubrance

 
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Empress_;5757497 said:
Stopitfive;5757473 said:
I dont know... thus I'd b suspicious until it was cleared up...

it could go either way, u just choosing to take the "oh she just all of a sudden feels comfortable"...

so really you'd be suspicious too, u'd just convince yourself of the positive first...

I don't "convince" myself of anything, I remain in the presence of us and what we've become until this moment of said "suspicion" arising. Automatically assuming the worst would be bringing other elements into our relationship thus I am projecting from my past or others opinions or experiences with this matter.

I get where this suspicion derives from however if this is all you got when all else is blissful, you're searching to find and so you shall. It is not you or your mind which is disturbed by it, your mind IS the distubrance

I know u think you're profound, but stopitfive....

u making this into something its not...

if a bitch make my eggs different than she made them the other 1 million times, I'm gonna raise an eyebrow...

I'm not gonna yell at her... or accuse her of anything... but I will make a mental note of the fact that she switched up the eggs bruh... no harm no foul...
 
if my girl doesn't swallow and this morn decide to let it drip down her throat. why would I not be initially suspicious, am i really supposed to believe she just got sooo comfy with me that she gonna dive in TODAY...who and what motivated that is a legitimate first thought
 
Stopitfive;5757522 said:
Empress_;5757497 said:
Stopitfive;5757473 said:
I dont know... thus I'd b suspicious until it was cleared up...

it could go either way, u just choosing to take the "oh she just all of a sudden feels comfortable"...

so really you'd be suspicious too, u'd just convince yourself of the positive first...

I don't "convince" myself of anything, I remain in the presence of us and what we've become until this moment of said "suspicion" arising. Automatically assuming the worst would be bringing other elements into our relationship thus I am projecting from my past or others opinions or experiences with this matter.

I get where this suspicion derives from however if this is all you got when all else is blissful, you're searching to find and so you shall. It is not you or your mind which is disturbed by it, your mind IS the distubrance

I know u think you're profound, but stopitfive....

u making this into something its not...

if a bitch make my eggs different than she made them the other 1 million times, I'm gonna raise an eyebrow...

I'm not gonna yell at her... or accuse her of anything... but I will make a mental note of the fact that she switched up the eggs bruh... no harm no foul...

No my dear, y'all are making it way too serious.

Gosh dang a woman can't make you some scrambled eggs instead of sunny side up every once in a blue? Kinda tight shift you running over there, Captain?

Variety is the spice of life, some of us take longer to learn this.

I digress though, my o/p even stated that this is way too much of a gray area topic, too general.
 
kai_valya;5757536 said:
Stopitfive;5757522 said:
Empress_;5757497 said:
Stopitfive;5757473 said:
I dont know... thus I'd b suspicious until it was cleared up...

it could go either way, u just choosing to take the "oh she just all of a sudden feels comfortable"...

so really you'd be suspicious too, u'd just convince yourself of the positive first...

I don't "convince" myself of anything, I remain in the presence of us and what we've become until this moment of said "suspicion" arising. Automatically assuming the worst would be bringing other elements into our relationship thus I am projecting from my past or others opinions or experiences with this matter.

I get where this suspicion derives from however if this is all you got when all else is blissful, you're searching to find and so you shall. It is not you or your mind which is disturbed by it, your mind IS the distubrance

I know u think you're profound, but stopitfive....

u making this into something its not...

if a bitch make my eggs different than she made them the other 1 million times, I'm gonna raise an eyebrow...

I'm not gonna yell at her... or accuse her of anything... but I will make a mental note of the fact that she switched up the eggs bruh... no harm no foul...

if you're not gonna say or do anything, what's the point of making a mental note?

future reference my nigga... is this that foreign to y'all? I've had women accuse me of all types of shit when i deviated from the script, so I know its not uncommon to take note of things ppl do...
 
aka_OG;5757544 said:
if my girl doesn't swallow and this morn decide to let it drip down her throat. why would I not be initially suspicious, am i really supposed to believe she just got sooo comfy with me that she gonna dive in TODAY...who and what motivated that is a legitimate first thought

Understandable.

Your next move?

Go!
 
Stopitfive;5757555 said:
kai_valya;5757536 said:
Stopitfive;5757522 said:
Empress_;5757497 said:
Stopitfive;5757473 said:
I dont know... thus I'd b suspicious until it was cleared up...

it could go either way, u just choosing to take the "oh she just all of a sudden feels comfortable"...

so really you'd be suspicious too, u'd just convince yourself of the positive first...

I don't "convince" myself of anything, I remain in the presence of us and what we've become until this moment of said "suspicion" arising. Automatically assuming the worst would be bringing other elements into our relationship thus I am projecting from my past or others opinions or experiences with this matter.

I get where this suspicion derives from however if this is all you got when all else is blissful, you're searching to find and so you shall. It is not you or your mind which is disturbed by it, your mind IS the distubrance

I know u think you're profound, but stopitfive....

u making this into something its not...

if a bitch make my eggs different than she made them the other 1 million times, I'm gonna raise an eyebrow...

I'm not gonna yell at her... or accuse her of anything... but I will make a mental note of the fact that she switched up the eggs bruh... no harm no foul...

if you're not gonna say or do anything, what's the point of making a mental note?

future reference my nigga... is this that foreign to y'all? I've had women accuse me of all types of shit when i deviated from the script, so I know its not uncommon to take note of things ppl do...

Sounds like those women who get mad at their man, he asks "Is everything ok?", she responds "Yes" but she keeps it in and allows it to fester until 2 weeks later when he does something totally irrelevant and she snaps because of something she got mad about weeks prior.

Passive aggressiveness and fronting on your own self, just turrible.

Be observant, yes, but to just let that thought chill in your mind waiting for something else suspicious seems heavy. Too much energy trying to hold that against someone.
 
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Went all out today, bought some handcuffs, body chocolate and panties made out of sweets

Bout to switch the game allll the way the fuck up
 

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