Do You Ever Give Up On A Friend

[Chi Snow]

No you not

Time don't make you friends, situations do

 

[R.D.]

No

Tell them you don't have it and go about your day...idk if you gotta cut him off tho, your decision

 

[huey]

You don't have the money right? Your decision has been made for you

What are the charges exactly? He had some shit in his car?

 

[Idiopathic Joker]

Would he bail you out?

 

[D. Morgan]

I don't give up on friends but I will distance myself until they get their shit together. As for the bail I would give his folks maybe $100 and tell them to come up with the rest and keep it moving.

This ain't nothing to stress over.

 

[T. Sanford]

I've been in this situation before & more than likely his fam will call for the most reliable friend. The same ones he get in trouble it with on the daily are the ones that's not there on his bond.

No you are not wrong, I might (that's a big might) do it the first time but after then don't call me anymore. If he are constantly in trouble then he better have stashed away money for his bond. Nigga going have to realize that you make money & he is not apart of the budget

 

[TayGettem]

You don't have the money right? Your decision has been made for you

What are the charges exactly? He had some shit in his car?

Idk why he ran

Would he bail you out?

He ain't gotta job so no

 

[semi-auto-mato]

First niggas kill me asking others for bail money. If u a criminal u should have bail money. I have told plenty of niggas don't call me for bail. So nope u aint wrong. If he feels some type of way say then ask him why are u mad at me? Be mad at ur girl and ur mom cuz they ain't come get ya ass either

 

[CapitalB]

sad but wit elevation comes separation..

we grown men..

we aint kids..

we have families now and futures to invest in..

not friends who aint got nothin to lose..

hang around those type u go find urself losin everything..

if a mithafucka is in quicksand u let his ass sink or get dragged in wit him..

 

[CapitalB]

u his friend..

not his parent..

that nigga playin on yo emotions..

why is his girl callin u!? she the one fuckin him..

why is his grandma callin!? she fucked to have the person who fucked to have him..

all them fucks and they aint got one to give but YOU suppose to!?

nah.. couldnt be me. lol

 

[Ajackson17]

So last night I get a call from my homies gf. She told me my homie wanted her to call me and let me know he locked up the county. Cuz he lead the cops on a chase....smh.

Then his grandma call me and said he wanted her to call me and let me know his bail $384.....I think he wanted me to come bail him out. But I didn't really have the dough...I mean I did but I got other shit going on plus he a grown ass man. U do something u gotta face what comes with it right? Plus he a constant fck up... thinkin bout cutting this nigga off cuz I've known him since 2nd grade but he always been a goof off while I'm steady trying to progress in life....am I wrong for thinking of cuttin him off and not bailing him out?....

Giving up your friends make you lower than trash and filth. NEVER GIVE UP SHOULD BE YOUR NINDO!!!!!

 

[mryounggun]

I ain't a nigga who really throws the word 'friend' around lightly. I know the difference between a friend and a nigga that I hang out with sometimes. I couldn't cut off a friend over them being exactly who they are and who they've always been. As far as the bail money, if you ain't got it...you ain't got it. Even if you DO got it and are just fed up with helping the nigga financially, nothing wrong with that.

 

[TonyDubbz]

I had to cut off my closest homie, he was a year younger than me so i kinda looked at him like a little brother. He got strung out on coke and I kept telling him to leave that shit alone.

Would take up for him and everything, his beefs became my beefs and half the time i aint even know why we had problems with certain niggas because he would lie

It got to the point were he was stealing from his own family and shit in order to help pay for his habit and thats where I drew the line. I said if this nigga will steal from his own mother, his father and his lil brother then i know its only a matter of time before he try to steal from me.

So yea some folks you gotta cut off for your own good bruh, shit sucks but its life.

 

[gdatruth2.0]

yep. Sometimes you grow apart and realize the friendship isnt worth salvaging.

 

[Will Munny]

Depends really. Sometime you learn a friend can't be trusted, so you trust them to be dishonest. At that point it becomes what you can benefit from them instead of actually being friends.

 

[Lou Cypher]

Ive been doing it a lot more often lately. Some are my best friends since i was 12 or 14. Somehow i am the only one in the circle that has been steadily employed, not homeless, and takes decent care of my living area. I dont drink anymore and im irritated as hell when im talking with drunk people. Some people are just poison. If they dont help you get to where you want to go, you have to leave them behind. It may feel fucked up, but the only thing that should matter is yourself.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

I had to cut off my closest homie, he was a year younger than me so i kinda looked at him like a little brother. He got strung out on coke and I kept telling him to leave that shit alone.

Would take up for him and everything, his beefs became my beefs and half the time i aint even know why we had problems with certain niggas because he would lie

It got to the point were he was stealing from his own family and shit in order to help pay for his habit and thats where I drew the line. I said if this nigga will steal from his own mother, his father and his lil brother then i know its only a matter of time before he try to steal from me.

So yea some folks you gotta cut off for your own good bruh, shit sucks but its life.

i had a homie like that. got strung out on coke & pills real bad. when i heard thru a mutual friend he was talkin bout stealing my flatscreens, cut that nigga off, aint seen his fiend ass in bout 2 months

i mean really. who the fuck really think they gonna get any real $ from used tvs in 2016?! fuckin crackheads

 

[KingRenaissance]

Eh

Depends on the history between y'all and what value you think y'all relationship really have

Honestly, I cut off a lot, if not all my friends from back when in high school

I'm mostly solo, when I roll

I would love to be able to trust someone and to be real tight friends with someone

But, as my history has shown and my natural state of having lack of trust in ppl, makes that very difficult to come to reality

If that person is constantly getting into trouble and keeps depending on you to bail him out

I would cut him loose

 

[KingRenaissance]

It's like this

Is he part of the solution to your life

or part of the problem?

 

[TayGettem]

I had to cut off my closest homie, he was a year younger than me so i kinda looked at him like a little brother. He got strung out on coke and I kept telling him to leave that shit alone.



Would take up for him and everything, his beefs became my beefs and half the time i aint even know why we had problems with certain niggas because he would lie

It got to the point were he was stealing from his own family and shit in order to help pay for his habit and thats where I drew the line. I said if this nigga will steal from his own mother, his father and his lil brother then i know its only a matter of time before he try to steal from me.

So yea some folks you gotta cut off for your own good bruh, shit sucks but its life.

See im in that same position I done told dis nigga he need to get a job and just chill even tried to get him on where I work at he make up excuse after excuse to why he got fired from multiple jobs smh

Seems like his only interest is hoes and drugs