Do you ask for your money back?

[leftcoastkev]

Off top, it sounds like you got scammed and your money is going to someone else.

If not....you're still being taken advantage of.

The first L in your situation is she don't think enough OF YOU to give it back without YOU asking....

There is only a few ways she could have rationalized keeping it when it was for a specific purpose but acting like it was a general gift...

1. "That's my man, so it shouldn't matter to him"

2. "Fuck it...if he don't say nothing I won't say nothing"

3. "I deserved it anyway"

4. "I know he got money, it shouldn't matter to him"

5. "This money in my hand is cool, they didn't have what he gave me the money for, but whatever else comes up it shouldn't matter to him either...I mean he gave it to me (as opposed to he gave it to me FOR a particular item)"

I don't know of any other way she could see it..

The next L is you contemplating asking for it back. What's the worst that could happen......an argument because you're standing on a principle?

What's the possible talking points..

1. "You're cheap...so you NEED to ask for the money back. I don't like cheap." = I don't wanna give it back

2. "Why should it matter?" = I have it in my hand and I don't wanna honor the original intent

3. "We're together, what should it matter" = mind fuck

....it all boils down to "why can't I have you do what I want and change my mind on the fly about what I wanted to do"

 

[VulcanRaven]

I would never be with a woman who think dropping that much on a purse is worth it

 

[2stepz_ahead]

shit is funny how niggaz be sharing bank accounts with their girl

I wouldn't share a bank acct with my own momma fuck dat

Only sharing with wifey...an that's only one account.

With limits

^^^still sucka shit

u can have a joint acct with wifey but u better not put 1 dollar in it unless u like being a financial cuckold

We been together like 15 yrs.

If we share 1 Acct.....that We both put money into hows that sucka shit?

 

[Bulletproof Wallets]

Lol at my girl asking for $2500 for a purse that she doesn't have $2500 to put inside.

 

[blakfyahking]

shit is funny how niggaz be sharing bank accounts with their girl

I wouldn't share a bank acct with my own momma fuck dat

Only sharing with wifey...an that's only one account.

With limits

^^^still sucka shit



u can have a joint acct with wifey but u better not put 1 dollar in it unless u like being a financial cuckold

how u figure?

how u don't figure? haha

u telling the hardworking youth it's a good idea to let a chick spend what u earned off ur labor?

unless u wholeheartedly trust ur mate, how is the relationship ever gonna work....

I don't wholeheartedly trust my own momma.......see my 1st post in this thread again

u encouraging niggaz to be food out here

 

[2stepz_ahead]

2500 on a purse?....

I’m losing out here b.....

No you not bruh.

you just get there yet.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Off top, it sounds like you got scammed and your money is going to someone else.

If not....you're still being taken advantage of.

The first L in your situation is she don't think enough OF YOU to give it back without YOU asking....

There is only a few ways she could have rationalized keeping it when it was for a specific purpose but acting like it was a general gift...

1. "That's my man, so it shouldn't matter to him"

2. "Fuck it...if he don't say nothing I won't say nothing"

3. "I deserved it anyway"

4. "I know he got money, it shouldn't matter to him"

5. "This money in my hand is cool, they didn't have what he gave me the money for, but whatever else comes up it shouldn't matter to him either...I mean he gave it to me (as opposed to he gave it to me FOR a particular item)"

I don't know of any other way she could see it..

The next L is you contemplating asking for it back. What's the worst that could happen......an argument because you're standing on a principle?

What's the possible talking points..

1. "You're cheap...so you NEED to ask for the money back. I don't like cheap." = I don't wanna give it back

2. "Why should it matter?" = I have it in my have and I don't wanna honor the original intent

3. "We're together, what should it matter" = mind fuck

....it all boils down to "why can't I have you do what I want and change my mind on the fly about what I wanted to do"

Good point.

Very solid stance

 

[ineedpussy]

she gone have to give that money back. fuck that....if she dont then were going to peoples court

 

[Lou Cypher]

Fuck yeah i do. If she spent it on something else then i challenge her to a fight

 

[2stepz_ahead]

no

But fuck sharing an account my favorite uncle got finessed like that

@CashmoneyDux share that story.....

Man so my uncle married this chick that everyone either hated from the jump or got to hate her. So they get married and shits cool for a while but then she decided to stop working. My uncle wasn't cool with it, but he allowed it bc he had enough money atm to support the lifestyle.

Soon enough he ran out of money and guess what? Divorce. Guess Who's broke in the situation?

That nigga

He need her ass beat?

 

[CapitalB]

mannnn if u go give the bitch the money.. then thats her money..

u dont ask for the money back..

if she gives it back.. cool..

if not and she spends it on some bullshit u now know the type of bitch u dealin wit..

chalk it up as a loss..

but money was gone soon as u handed it to her.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Off top, it sounds like you got scammed and your money is going to someone else.

If not....you're still being taken advantage of.

The first L in your situation is she don't think enough OF YOU to give it back without YOU asking....

There is only a few ways she could have rationalized keeping it when it was for a specific purpose but acting like it was a general gift...

1. "That's my man, so it shouldn't matter to him"

2. "Fuck it...if he don't say nothing I won't say nothing"

3. "I deserved it anyway"

4. "I know he got money, it shouldn't matter to him"

5. "This money in my hand is cool, they didn't have what he gave me the money for, but whatever else comes up it shouldn't matter to him either...I mean he gave it to me (as opposed to he gave it to me FOR a particular item)"

I don't know of any other way she could see it..

The next L is you contemplating asking for it back. What's the worst that could happen......an argument because you're standing on a principle?

What's the possible talking points..

1. "You're cheap...so you NEED to ask for the money back. I don't like cheap." = I don't wanna give it back

2. "Why should it matter?" = I have it in my hand and I don't wanna honor the original intent

3. "We're together, what should it matter" = mind fuck

....it all boils down to "why can't I have you do what I want and change my mind on the fly about what I wanted to do"

actually she bought my mans something dope as fuck i aint gonna lie so he asked if there was anything she wanted...and here we are

 

[DoubleShotHelix]

If my girl ask to borrow money for an expensive ass purse that means she ain't got enough money to put in said purse to justify her owning it.

So I'm going to look at her like she's stupid until she asks what so I can say FUCK NO

nah she just wanted him to pay for it...she s more than good financially

Sucka shit

I wish my middle class ass would spend 2500 on a purse

... Why the fuck do purses cost so much anyway?

 

[AZTG]

Its crazy how people are typing paragraphs about what type of person she is and they never seen or talked to the bitch.

I swear some of yall are worse than bitches.

Its like yo answer the question, will you ask for the money back and why or why not and keep it moving.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

If my girl ask to borrow money for an expensive ass purse that means she ain't got enough money to put in said purse to justify her owning it.

So I'm going to look at her like she's stupid until she asks what so I can say FUCK NO

nah she just wanted him to pay for it...she s more than good financially

Sucka shit

I wish my middle class ass would spend 2500 on a purse

... Why the fuck do purses cost so much anyway?

saw my mans buy his wife some rare Birkin bag...15K

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Off top, it sounds like you got scammed and your money is going to someone else.

If not....you're still being taken advantage of.

The first L in your situation is she don't think enough OF YOU to give it back without YOU asking....

There is only a few ways she could have rationalized keeping it when it was for a specific purpose but acting like it was a general gift...

1. "That's my man, so it shouldn't matter to him"

2. "Fuck it...if he don't say nothing I won't say nothing"

3. "I deserved it anyway"

4. "I know he got money, it shouldn't matter to him"

5. "This money in my hand is cool, they didn't have what he gave me the money for, but whatever else comes up it shouldn't matter to him either...I mean he gave it to me (as opposed to he gave it to me FOR a particular item)"

I don't know of any other way she could see it..

The next L is you contemplating asking for it back. What's the worst that could happen......an argument because you're standing on a principle?

What's the possible talking points..

1. "You're cheap...so you NEED to ask for the money back. I don't like cheap." = I don't wanna give it back

2. "Why should it matter?" = I have it in my hand and I don't wanna honor the original intent

3. "We're together, what should it matter" = mind fuck

....it all boils down to "why can't I have you do what I want and change my mind on the fly about what I wanted to do"

actually she bought my mans something dope as fuck i aint gonna lie so he asked if there was anything she wanted...and here we are

So exchanging services?

Did he buy himself something?

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Off top, it sounds like you got scammed and your money is going to someone else.

If not....you're still being taken advantage of.

The first L in your situation is she don't think enough OF YOU to give it back without YOU asking....

There is only a few ways she could have rationalized keeping it when it was for a specific purpose but acting like it was a general gift...

1. "That's my man, so it shouldn't matter to him"

2. "Fuck it...if he don't say nothing I won't say nothing"

3. "I deserved it anyway"

4. "I know he got money, it shouldn't matter to him"

5. "This money in my hand is cool, they didn't have what he gave me the money for, but whatever else comes up it shouldn't matter to him either...I mean he gave it to me (as opposed to he gave it to me FOR a particular item)"

I don't know of any other way she could see it..

The next L is you contemplating asking for it back. What's the worst that could happen......an argument because you're standing on a principle?

What's the possible talking points..

1. "You're cheap...so you NEED to ask for the money back. I don't like cheap." = I don't wanna give it back

2. "Why should it matter?" = I have it in my hand and I don't wanna honor the original intent

3. "We're together, what should it matter" = mind fuck

....it all boils down to "why can't I have you do what I want and change my mind on the fly about what I wanted to do"

actually she bought my mans something dope as fuck i aint gonna lie so he asked if there was anything she wanted...and here we are

So exchanging services?

Did he buy himself something?

naw she a good woman tho if she sees oor finds something she thinks he likes she cops it for him...and he returns the favor...so recently she copped him some shit she knew he wanted surprised him with it..so he was like, is there anything u d want and here we are

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Maybe we need to know what kinda salary this comes from.

I think I see this different than others.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Maybe we need to know what kinda salary this comes from.

I think I see this different than others.

thats gonna open a different convo lol whats good with them dates tho? ill pm u

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Maybe we need to know what kinda salary this comes from.

I think I see this different than others.

thats gonna open a different convo lol whats good with them dates tho? ill pm u

I think its important .

A wendys salary an $2500 is tax return money....the whole shit

A nigga making like $120k a year with low expenses...that ain't shit.

So we have different outlooks depending on income.

An I'm on my way to the States in a few for work. So ill have them soon.