Did this DAD go too far?

[CeLLaR-DooR]

theres an ample evidence that shows whoopings dont work,they establish authority

so people wont do bad stuff in front of their parents,but kids do bad stuff from the perspective

that they will not get caught just like criminals. You have to psychologically instill values in her

so that she does not want twerk even if she can get away with it. This is what middleclass parents get that

parents in the hood dont. 80% of the dudes in state prison got whooped as kids didnt stop how they turned out

if she even wants to twerk in the 1st place you are doing something worng

and what of the many more who were beaten as kids but have never been to jail?

IMO. Kids will be kids. Yeah catchin' your daughter twerkin' is emotional, but its different for them than it was for us. We never had social media, which corrupts minds of all ages. We got grown hoes on Insta doin' bullshit, so it must be tough to be a lil ho' these days.

 

[Rasta.]

Too far? This is quite normal in most third world households (In the US of A) btw...

 

[FucktheIC]

You know what, maybe I'm giving your kids too much credit. I remember though, the times I actually learned my lesson was when I was sat down and my parents talked to me about why what I was doing was wrong, how it hurt others, and how it hurt them. I remember when I caught myself being a tough guy skipping school to smoke weed, and dukes sat me down, we had a legit heart to heart where she started crying and I didn't skip another day of high school for 2 and a half years.

If she'd just whooped my ass, I probably would have just be okay. These are young adults, it's more than just them being "bad." You give small children a couple taps and explain why what they're doing is wrong, because they cannot really understand much else, but you still talk to them.

I don't know about y'all, but if either of my parents beat me like that at 14/15, I wouldn't give a fuck about anything else they had to say about what I did. I did my dirt, got caught, got my ass beat, and that's all I need to know. Anything else about the situation is irrelevant, I woulda been saying "fuck you," in my mind.

Also, stop using yourself and others as proof that spanking works, because it's purely anecdotal. I'm not saying it doesn't work, but I am saying I don't think it's the most effective way to parent.

Yeah, but can say the same about talkin to your child not being effective as well. Whuppin azzz works for some kids. Sittin down and just talkin to them works for others. It depends on the the situation.

But in THIS situation, whuppin azzz is warranted. Again, no one can say the father NEVER spoke to them about this based off this clip. Nor do any of us know the full story about these 2 girls, and the relationship they have wit their parents. For all we know, these hefas are the disrespectful, hell raising type of kids. Who knows. But you can't judge how this man raises HIS daughters in his household, based off a short clip.

That's parenting people.

Yes I can, he beat them with a fucking extension cord. How is that okay?

The fuck is wrong with you people? I'm letting you know this right now, if I ever hit my child like that, I can't get mad if they swing back. They're people, bruh. Not fucking animals.

 

[Gold_Certificate]

Beatings stopped working on me by the time I was twelve or so.

I'd just stand there, not reacting to the pain at all, not attempting to defend myself, calmly saying shit to make them realize how foolish they looked.

"You're going to have to hit me hard enough to kill me if you think you can control me with violence."

or

"Avoid bruising my legs and arms, you don't want people to think you're abusing me."

Asking them shit like, "Are you finished yet?".

They'd get much angrier and hit much harder, but they still wouldn't get the response they wanted. Just a calm blank stare, peering directly into their eyes; quietly looking down upon them.

Eventually, they'd finish beating the shit out of me, and I'd just calmly go get something to drink or something, not even trying to avoid them.

I probably could've avoided a lot of pain, but fucking with their minds was worth it. Once I realized their weakness was sympathy, they couldn't win.

Shit was GOAT.

 

[R.D.]

lol now he cant use something to beat

if he had used his hands, we'd be saying he beat them lil bitches they was niggas on the street

 

[damobb2deep]

I got beat like dis as a kid... It helped...

And there you have it folks. Beating your kids with house hold items can make your children into an upright citizen like damobb.

Yea a 6 year military vet wit his own crib... Own car... No kids... 24 and willing 2 man up 2 his decisions..

 

[Rahlow]

<Old head that got his ass whooped, slapped, bombed on, etc etc.. I don't harbor any fucked up trauma behind it. Good job at curving that behavior while they are young before someone else have to when they are grown.

Probably should have used a belt but meh, they'll live (I did)

 

[damobb2deep]

I got beat like dis as a kid... It helped...

And there you have it folks. Beating your kids with house hold items can make your children into an upright citizen like damobb.

Probably the best argument against beating your kids I've ever seen.

and there are plenty of mass shootings and shyt dat is da best argument 4 getting whooped when u do somthing wrong...

Smh @ thinking if dey dad came @ them on some...

*walks in room*

Dad " what are u girls doing dancing like that 4? U kno thats not a good thing 2 do honey.. U really should be more responsible.."

The girls would be like...

" dad is rite we should not be dancing like this.. It is not rite.. Even tho (insert boys name) would like us 2 dance we should think about how this video makes us look..."

 

[Rahlow]

how can you beat somebody if you aint angry ?

yall some true psychopaths

exactly!

I guess he should have beat his kids on some sinister Joker from Batman type shit. Gigglin & grinning with all teeth showing in a jolly and upbeat mood.

 

[7figz]

Ol' "Time out Timmy" lookin' ass niggas.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

inb4 a nigga throws out some outrageous stat about 80% of prisoners receiving corporal punishment... 100% of prisoners in federal custody drink water... oh shit...

 

[damobb2deep]

You know what, maybe I'm giving your kids too much credit. I remember though, the times I actually learned my lesson was when I was sat down and my parents talked to me about why what I was doing was wrong, how it hurt others, and how it hurt them. I remember when I caught myself being a tough guy skipping school to smoke weed, and dukes sat me down, we had a legit heart to heart where she started crying and I didn't skip another day of high school for 2 and a half years.

If she'd just whooped my ass, I probably would have just be okay. These are young adults, it's more than just them being "bad." You give small children a couple taps and explain why what they're doing is wrong, because they cannot really understand much else, but you still talk to them.

I don't know about y'all, but if either of my parents beat me like that at 14/15, I wouldn't give a fuck about anything else they had to say about what I did. I did my dirt, got caught, got my ass beat, and that's all I need to know. Anything else about the situation is irrelevant, I woulda been saying "fuck you," in my mind.

Also, stop using yourself and others as proof that spanking works, because it's purely anecdotal. I'm not saying it doesn't work, but I am saying I don't think it's the most effective way to parent.

Yeah, but can say the same about talkin to your child not being effective as well. Whuppin azzz works for some kids. Sittin down and just talkin to them works for others. It depends on the the situation.

But in THIS situation, whuppin azzz is warranted. Again, no one can say the father NEVER spoke to them about this based off this clip. Nor do any of us know the full story about these 2 girls, and the relationship they have wit their parents. For all we know, these hefas are the disrespectful, hell raising type of kids. Who knows. But you can't judge how this man raises HIS daughters in his household, based off a short clip.

That's parenting people.

Yes I can, he beat them with a fucking extension cord. How is that okay?

The fuck is wrong with you people? I'm letting you know this right now, if I ever hit my child like that, I can't get mad if they swing back. They're people, bruh. Not fucking animals.

Smh u musta neva got whooped.. Cuz anybody who has got whooped and deserved it knows not 2 fight back...

 

[Meta_Conscious]

children been getting whooped for millennia... y'all wanna act like this some new wild shit... ol sheltered ass niggas...

 

[Gold_Certificate]

I got beat like dis as a kid... It helped...

And there you have it folks. Beating your kids with house hold items can make your children into an upright citizen like damobb.

Probably the best argument against beating your kids I've ever seen.

and there are plenty of mass shootings and shyt dat is da best argument 4 getting whooped when u do somthing wrong...

Smh @ thinking if dey dad came @ them on some...

*walks in room*

Dad " what are u girls doing dancing like that 4? U kno thats not a good thing 2 do honey.. U really should be more responsible.."

The girls would be like...

" dad is rite we should not be dancing like this.. It is not rite.. Even tho (insert boys name) would like us 2 dance we should think about how this video makes us look..."

You say that like beating young ladies is proven to stop them from shaking that ass on camera.

Like there's a study saying, "Hoes beaten in their youth 96% less likely to twerk that ass on youtube.".

 

[damobb2deep]

I got beat like dis as a kid... It helped...

And there you have it folks. Beating your kids with house hold items can make your children into an upright citizen like damobb.

Probably the best argument against beating your kids I've ever seen.

and there are plenty of mass shootings and shyt dat is da best argument 4 getting whooped when u do somthing wrong...

Smh @ thinking if dey dad came @ them on some...

*walks in room*

Dad " what are u girls doing dancing like that 4? U kno thats not a good thing 2 do honey.. U really should be more responsible.."

The girls would be like...

" dad is rite we should not be dancing like this.. It is not rite.. Even tho (insert boys name) would like us 2 dance we should think about how this video makes us look..."

You say that like beating young ladies is proven to stop them from shaking that ass on camera.

Like there's a study saying, "Hoes beaten in their youth 96% less likely to twerk that ass on youtube.".

u said yoself getting whooped did work 2 a extent.. And any kid that gets whooped 4 somthin like that will think twice b4 they do somthin like dat again... Will it stop them completely idk depends but I bet they will remember dat whoopin tho... Dats all dey dad can Hope 4

 

[THIRDSUPREME]

You know what, maybe I'm giving your kids too much credit. I remember though, the times I actually learned my lesson was when I was sat down and my parents talked to me about why what I was doing was wrong, how it hurt others, and how it hurt them. I remember when I caught myself being a tough guy skipping school to smoke weed, and dukes sat me down, we had a legit heart to heart where she started crying and I didn't skip another day of high school for 2 and a half years.

If she'd just whooped my ass, I probably would have just be okay. These are young adults, it's more than just them being "bad." You give small children a couple taps and explain why what they're doing is wrong, because they cannot really understand much else, but you still talk to them.

I don't know about y'all, but if either of my parents beat me like that at 14/15, I wouldn't give a fuck about anything else they had to say about what I did. I did my dirt, got caught, got my ass beat, and that's all I need to know. Anything else about the situation is irrelevant, I woulda been saying "fuck you," in my mind.

Also, stop using yourself and others as proof that spanking works, because it's purely anecdotal. I'm not saying it doesn't work, but I am saying I don't think it's the most effective way to parent.

Yeah, but can say the same about talkin to your child not being effective as well. Whuppin azzz works for some kids. Sittin down and just talkin to them works for others. It depends on the the situation.

But in THIS situation, whuppin azzz is warranted. Again, no one can say the father NEVER spoke to them about this based off this clip. Nor do any of us know the full story about these 2 girls, and the relationship they have wit their parents. For all we know, these hefas are the disrespectful, hell raising type of kids. Who knows. But you can't judge how this man raises HIS daughters in his household, based off a short clip.

That's parenting people.

Yes I can, he beat them with a fucking extension cord. How is that okay?

The fuck is wrong with you people? I'm letting you know this right now, if I ever hit my child like that, I can't get mad if they swing back. They're people, bruh. Not fucking animals.

You soft as hell. Your kids are going to run all over you.

 

[FucktheIC]

You know what, maybe I'm giving your kids too much credit. I remember though, the times I actually learned my lesson was when I was sat down and my parents talked to me about why what I was doing was wrong, how it hurt others, and how it hurt them. I remember when I caught myself being a tough guy skipping school to smoke weed, and dukes sat me down, we had a legit heart to heart where she started crying and I didn't skip another day of high school for 2 and a half years.

If she'd just whooped my ass, I probably would have just be okay. These are young adults, it's more than just them being "bad." You give small children a couple taps and explain why what they're doing is wrong, because they cannot really understand much else, but you still talk to them.

I don't know about y'all, but if either of my parents beat me like that at 14/15, I wouldn't give a fuck about anything else they had to say about what I did. I did my dirt, got caught, got my ass beat, and that's all I need to know. Anything else about the situation is irrelevant, I woulda been saying "fuck you," in my mind.

Also, stop using yourself and others as proof that spanking works, because it's purely anecdotal. I'm not saying it doesn't work, but I am saying I don't think it's the most effective way to parent.

Yeah, but can say the same about talkin to your child not being effective as well. Whuppin azzz works for some kids. Sittin down and just talkin to them works for others. It depends on the the situation.

But in THIS situation, whuppin azzz is warranted. Again, no one can say the father NEVER spoke to them about this based off this clip. Nor do any of us know the full story about these 2 girls, and the relationship they have wit their parents. For all we know, these hefas are the disrespectful, hell raising type of kids. Who knows. But you can't judge how this man raises HIS daughters in his household, based off a short clip.

That's parenting people.

Yes I can, he beat them with a fucking extension cord. How is that okay?

The fuck is wrong with you people? I'm letting you know this right now, if I ever hit my child like that, I can't get mad if they swing back. They're people, bruh. Not fucking animals.

You soft as hell. Your kids are going to run all over you.

Soft b/c I don't believe in beating human beings like fucking animals?

 

[rockets]

theres an ample evidence that shows whoopings dont work,they establish authority

so people wont do bad stuff in front of their parents,but kids do bad stuff from the perspective

that they will not get caught just like criminals. You have to psychologically instill values in her

so that she does not want twerk even if she can get away with it. This is what middleclass parents get that

parents in the hood dont. 80% of the dudes in state prison got whooped as kids didnt stop how they turned out

if she even wants to twerk in the 1st place you are doing something worng

This is the best post in this thread. Raise your kids with morals and you will have a lot less worries. Sure kids/people fuck up, but some fuck up more than others. There is something to be said about that. Sometimes IT IS just bad parenting. Smoking weed, skipping school now and then, etc etc ----normal kids bullshit. But if your kid is fucking up major, (stealing, heavy drugs, cursing out teachers, authority figure etc.) especially early in life. YOU FUCK UP, period. Kids aren't born "bad" parents make them that way because of lack of discipline, values and guidance. This father should think about why his daughter should want to gain male attention, at such a young age.

 

[damobb2deep]

You know what, maybe I'm giving your kids too much credit. I remember though, the times I actually learned my lesson was when I was sat down and my parents talked to me about why what I was doing was wrong, how it hurt others, and how it hurt them. I remember when I caught myself being a tough guy skipping school to smoke weed, and dukes sat me down, we had a legit heart to heart where she started crying and I didn't skip another day of high school for 2 and a half years.

If she'd just whooped my ass, I probably would have just be okay. These are young adults, it's more than just them being "bad." You give small children a couple taps and explain why what they're doing is wrong, because they cannot really understand much else, but you still talk to them.

I don't know about y'all, but if either of my parents beat me like that at 14/15, I wouldn't give a fuck about anything else they had to say about what I did. I did my dirt, got caught, got my ass beat, and that's all I need to know. Anything else about the situation is irrelevant, I woulda been saying "fuck you," in my mind.

Also, stop using yourself and others as proof that spanking works, because it's purely anecdotal. I'm not saying it doesn't work, but I am saying I don't think it's the most effective way to parent.

Yeah, but can say the same about talkin to your child not being effective as well. Whuppin azzz works for some kids. Sittin down and just talkin to them works for others. It depends on the the situation.

But in THIS situation, whuppin azzz is warranted. Again, no one can say the father NEVER spoke to them about this based off this clip. Nor do any of us know the full story about these 2 girls, and the relationship they have wit their parents. For all we know, these hefas are the disrespectful, hell raising type of kids. Who knows. But you can't judge how this man raises HIS daughters in his household, based off a short clip.

That's parenting people.

Yes I can, he beat them with a fucking extension cord. How is that okay?

The fuck is wrong with you people? I'm letting you know this right now, if I ever hit my child like that, I can't get mad if they swing back. They're people, bruh. Not fucking animals.

You soft as hell. Your kids are going to run all over you.

Soft b/c I don't believe in beating human beings like fucking animals?

U must get scared when u hear people scream like dat... anybody dats got whooped like dat can tell u they all screamed like dey was gettin killed when dey aint...

 

[jay83]

theres an ample evidence that shows whoopings dont work,they establish authority

so people wont do bad stuff in front of their parents,but kids do bad stuff from the perspective

that they will not get caught just like criminals. You have to psychologically instill values in her

so that she does not want twerk even if she can get away with it. This is what middleclass parents get that

parents in the hood dont. 80% of the dudes in state prison got whooped as kids didnt stop how they turned out

if she even wants to twerk in the 1st place you are doing something worng

This is the best post in this thread. Raise your kids with morals and you will have a lot less worries. Sure kids/people fuck up, but some fuck up more than others. There is something to be said about that. Sometimes IT IS just bad parenting. Smoking weed, skipping school now and then, etc etc ----normal kids bullshit. But if your kid is fucking up major, (stealing, heavy drugs, cursing out teachers, authority figure etc.) especially early in life. YOU FUCK UP, period. Kids aren't born "bad" parents make them that way because of lack of discipline, values and guidance. This father should think about why his daughter should want to gain male attention, at such a young age.

True, but little kids need that fear instilled in them first. Then later on you can dr. Phil them.

Because a child may know right from wrong and still choose to do wrong. But if they think back to that beatin they got last year it may just cause them to change their mind based on not goin through that drama again.

If a child likes you they can pick and choose when they feel like respecting you. But if they respect you first then everything will be much easier to deal with.

Now if you still beatin your kids and they are seniors in highschool then well, just take that L. Lol