Damm I'm pissed

[Conscious__Nkechi]

actions>>>>words..

and i think it's foolish to assume insecurities dn't exist and someone can just get over them....

if my woman is being insecure about pics that i claim don't mean much to me in the first place..it's nuffin for me to get rid of them...

nuffin....

Everyone's perception is different.
While it may be easy for you, the significance of photos may be greater to others. Not particularily because of the photos content but perhaps I am a person who values photos. Not for any reason that would pose as a threat but because he is the father of my child and destroying what exists (photos) is not necessary especially when we no longer exist. If you trust me, if we have built that solid foundation then let's communicate these concerns and identify why destroying them would be necessary. Let's not make it a big deal and nip it in the bud rather than dragging it out and picking a fight about something totally irrelevant when really the photos are what is bothering you and just brewing inside.
All I ask is for that communication so we can resolve this rather than it leading to an argument.

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*stands and applauds the bolded*

exactly my point.....tripping over pics from the past stored away is petty and trivial

and insecure as hell

I do understand how this can slightly make someone blood boil. You see photos of the ex, wonder if they are of any greater significance etc etc. I just personally don't have an issue with it per se as long as they aren't sex tapes which are being watched while reminiscing of the good old days he used to blow her back out.

 

[hummingbird]

actions>>>>words..

and i think it's foolish to assume insecurities dn't exist and someone can just get over them....

if my woman is being insecure about pics that i claim don't mean much to me in the first place..it's nuffin for me to get rid of them...

nuffin....

samething I was thinking. I love how people like to act as if they dont have any insecurities what so ever in life.

 

[hummingbird]

he wifed HER instead of the females in the pics :shrugs

You do realize that wasnt his choice. The ex made that choice for him lol. So you cant say he picked her over the ex because in reality he didnt.

 

[Dupac]

well maybe it's just me, and i don't realy give a shit about throwing away some pictures that could easily be destoryed in a fire or flood...

atleast not enugh to beef over it cuz my lady feels some type of way about it

 

[hummingbird]

Im going home and make my guy throw out his PS3 because he spends to mcuh time on it, Im sure he'll go for that because a couple years ago I asked him to not bring his ex-girls pictures into our home when we move in together and he oblidged me.

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

personally

i would never be insecure enough to tell my chick to throw away old pics of her and ex's

regardless im done with this corny ass thread

 

[Elle_Music]

Everyone's perception is different.

While it may be easy for you, the significance of photos may be greater to others. Not particularily because of the photos content but perhaps I am a person who values photos. Not for any reason that would pose as a threat but because he is the father of my child and destroying what exists (photos) is not necessary especially when we no longer exist. If you trust me, if we have built that solid foundation then let's communicate these concerns and identify why destroying them would be necessary. Let's not make it a big deal and nip it in the bud rather than dragging it out and picking a fight about something totally irrelevant when really the photos are what is bothering you and just brewing inside.

All I ask is for that communication so we can resolve this rather than it leading to an argument.

I do understand how this can slightly make someone blood boil. You see photos of the ex, wonder if they are of any greater significance etc etc. I just personally don't have an issue with it per se as long as they aren't sex tapes which are being watched while reminiscing of the good old days he used to blow her back out.

no real reason other than curiousity for asking...but would you feel differently if they were nude photos he was holding on to?

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

actions>>>>words..

and i think it's foolish to assume insecurities dn't exist and someone can just get over them....

if my woman is being insecure about pics that i claim don't mean much to me in the first place..it's nuffin for me to get rid of them...

nuffin....

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*stands and applauds the bolded*

exactly my point.....tripping over pics from the past stored away is petty and trivial

and insecure as hell

no real reason other than curiousity for asking...but would you feel differently if they were nude photos he was holding on to?

Nudes are somewhat different than regular photos of for example my son's father or him with our son. The nudes I don't see necessary to hold onto, I do not care for them but if they bother me I would not deem it necessary to ask for them to be destroyed. Not to say I will keep it inside but if my s/o knows that it is an issue then im sure we would discuss it and he would handle it rather needing to be directed.

 

[Elle_Music]

Nudes are somewhat different than regular photos of for example my son's father or him with our son. The nudes I don't see necessary to hold onto, I do not care for them but if they bother me I would not deem it necessary to ask for them to be destroyed. Not to say I will keep it inside but if my s/o knows that it is an issue then im sure we would discuss it and he would handle it rather needing to be directed.

Cool cool..

Would it be an issue, or would you be offended if he didn't want to rid the nudes?

How would that make you feel?

 

[Sexy26]

Yes its wrong if yall done yall done no need for ole memories real talk

 

[Sexy26]

My .nigga seen an ole pic of me talking a pic in a room who he was.mad

 

[damobb2deep]

I've been in that situation... my ex deleted pics of my 1st love in my phone... that shyt pissed me the fuck off! because for one she went through my phone and deleted the pics of someone who wasn't even in the state. ... yet the pics of my ex before her was in my phone and I had videos and more shyt and she ain't touch her pics and she stayed in the same city...

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Regular ass pics? Idc breh as long as they're put away.

Knowing you got porn pics and videos of bitches youve fucked? That's a different story cause I straight up don't wanna see that fuckin shit nor do I even wanna know they exist.

I don't live wit no nigga tho so who gives a fuck *shrug*

 

[MasterJayN100]

 

[DarcSkies]

THis is a double standard type thing for me.

I regret throwing away pix of my First GF cuz I forgot how the bitch looks. I might want to make a Dart board out of her face or something and now I cant.

But if a GF of mine had pix of her ex I wouldn't trust that bitch for shit. Double standard, of course, but I know I can trust me, I dont trust no bitch period. Let alone one that keeps mementos and shit.

 

[damobb2deep]

I've been in that situation... my ex deleted pics of my 1st love in my phone... that shyt pissed me the fuck off! because for one she went through my phone and deleted the pics of someone who wasn't even in the state. ... yet the pics of my ex before her was in my phone and I had videos and more shyt and she ain't touch her pics and she stayed in the same city...

women know what theyre doing.

they know whos a threat and whos not... she deleted the threat but kept the lightwork

imo even tho my 1 love was more cute... my ex that stayed In the same city was the bigger threat.. because I still had feelings for her at the time..

 

[jetlifebih]

Had social media not come along id say it was no problem to keep the pictures, but since the birth, I think the value of pictures has gone down so I definitely wouldn't see a point to keep pictures when you are 9/10 times friends with that person or mutual friends and can see their pictures today online

 

[gns]

I don't agree with bitching about pics to a significant other. If a bish got old pics stored away idgaf. If she's sitting alone staring at them longingly then she can get kicked in the vagina down a staircase along with the pics.

With that said, I had a small album and in the back were two pics of old bitches.

One in a boy shorts I bought her, the other bish ah buss ah skin out doggystyle pose.

Both pics given to me by the bitches and I forgot it was in the album.

My then girlfriend was looking at the album got to the pics and was like : oh wow :|

She didn't trip and I offered to get rid of the pics she said nah u cool it's an old album anyway.

Just based on that and the fact that I really didn't remember I had the pics nor cared, + i saw it as a lil disrespectful, i ripped em up right there.

Now if it was with a bitch tryna argue or tell me what I should do with MY pictures of bitches, I would've still had those pics.

 

[MrMinimalist]

So ya'll keep these pics just to jack off to or something? I don't have any pics of old hoes, I deleted them.