could you stay with someone if you made a sh!t load more money than them?

[LUClEN]

How strong is my irrational attachment to said person?

I wouldn't settle with someone if I eclipsed them. I'm looking for someone to shine with. But if I am able to shine because of her thats a different story

 

[AZTG]

Real talk. If she loved me when I was broke, ima love her when im rich.

But, in my reality, i dont have a girl that im building with, and im blessed to be making a lot of money and I would preffer if the girl im gonna builds with makes a lot of money too

 

[semi-auto-mato]

ok im starting to wonder if y'all serious or just joking now. the normal question for a man is could u be with a woman who made more than u? now we got dudes saying they be out if they made a significant amount more than the woman. what would u be willing to sacrifice for her to be on ur level? I ask that because my wife had a really good job that stressed her so much her hair started falling out. I watched her cry in front of the mirror and said to her we can make it. we will figure it out. the next day she quit. I told her it was gonna be alright but a brotha was scared as shit lol. we worked together and figured it out. after 8 months she found another job making way less money but she was happy there. so happy that she has been there for the last 15 years. she could leave and make more. she could make more than me but her being happy at her job is worth so much more than a pay check.

happy wife happy life.

 

[Brother_Five]

i wouldn't even want to be around ppl who think this is a reasonable inquiry.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Kinda f***'d up to just bounce after getting a raise. Lol

 

[CapitalB]

my cousin's girl did that shit to him..

They was broke together... soon as that bitch got a pay raise she started actin funny and eventually filed for divorce. Smmfh

As for me...

All my bitches make more money then me.. Im cool wit that. I live comfortably then a mu'fucka too! :joy: :joy:

 

[jetlifebih]

Marriage is a business....

So....we gonna have to renegotiate the contract of marriage if we were never married there will be stipulations until further notice

 

[Kai]

what the hell kind of question is that? so if you really love your s/o all of a sudden that would stop cuz you came into some money? that's a bunch of bullshit of the highest order. if you thinking about leaving them cuz of money, you couldn't have really loved them that much in the first place

 

[mryounggun]

All the niggas who say they would leave their s/o after getting a big pay raise like the one described in the O/P, we better not ever see you niggas on here complaining about gold diggers.

This shit here is exponentially WORSE than a gold digging broad.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Yea I would. No doubt about it.

 

[CashmoneyDux]

If she lacks ambition then yeah...

But if she lacked ambition, I wouldn't be with her in the first place

So no

 

[MsSouthern]

Wouldn't matter..if I get a raise then we got a raise

 

[Young_Chitlin]

Wouldn't matter..if I get a raise then we got a raise

 

[zzombie]

I my does not work at all and i take care of her and that's really the way is it supposed to be

 

[Max.]

Bitch im gone

 

[deadeye]

@sweetheart93

 

[Young_Chitlin]

Love makes wealth nonexistent

 

[So ILL]

Nah, we just came up together. If someone is with you when you ain't got it, then its only fair that you put them on when you get on. But ain't nothing changing, especially if I'm still going to work. We just got a little extra.

 

[blackrain]

niggaz lying like a mofo in here

of course money gone affect ur relationship

especially if someone goes from making less money to more than their S/O

I think anybody would like to believe that they would stay with their original S/O.........only that's happening is if ur lifestyle doesn't change at all

and that's highly unlikely u still gon live the same way when u got more money

As much as some of ya'll talk about not being able to trust somebody, why would you voluntarily leave someone who you already have an established foundation with to go find someone who only knows you from the time you've got some extra in your pocket?

 

[blackrain]

Then again...I do remember some niggas in here defending Ali son in that thread about him leaving his wife and kids when he got his inheritance....