Confessing:Would you Tell?

[mryounggun]

She is my friend, and a damn good friend at that.

I keep repeating this....she's done nothing in the past decade but be supportive, and kind to me. everytime I needed her she's been there for me, she would give me her last if I needed it, and I would do the same for her. She is very loyal to me and I'm in turn loyal to her, and I always will be. It's not my place to intervene in her marriage like that.
It's crazy how you all can have a friend that's been so good to you, and has always had your back, yet would still reveal some shit that would would destroy them, especially some shit that doesn't concern you. I can't even fathom doing anything to hurt her.

He's an asshole who treated her like shit, she knew her Husband would be the better Father to her Son. Like I said, it's fucked up, shady, trifling....but she made the mistake, she chose to deceive her Husband and Son, so if it comes out that's on her. but it won't be by my hands, she doesn't deserve that from me.

Maaaaaan, fuck how he treated HER. How he feel about another man taking care of his kid?

 

[JadaRoss]

true, but it wont affect or concern me.

But if this man got people thinking this is his child and all along he's raising some random guy's child on which she STILL might be seeing on the Low

::kanye Shrug::

If someone kept a secret from you would like it?

 

[Truerap]

Ok, but using your logic wouldn't me telling him just make him kill her sooner? What could I do to possibly alleviate that situation....nothing. that's between the two of them.

She's a grown woman who has to deal with the repercussions of her actions, she is well aware of that.

But won't you feel bad if she dies?

I mean if you tell him now why the kid young it might not turn out that bad.......

But if my chick told me my son of 18 years was not mine and all the money i spent on someone eles son.

Plus being in my late 30/early 40= not being able to have my own kid I might kill a bitch. But that just me.

 

[Truerap]

Absolutely, but he would still be in they're sons life. There is no doubt about that.

It funny you keep saying" They're son".

 

[Truerap]

He was in the delivery room, changed diapers, helped him take his first steps...ect. He's been there, and he's a wonderful Father. That is his Son.

NO, NO, NO that how I know you defending her I bet she saying the same thing.........

But just cuz he been doing all that don't make him blood with that man.

Thats not his son.

 

[mryounggun]

He doesn't give a shit about that kid, he has several children all by different Women. When she let him know she was pregnant the asshole said "that's between you and your husband, fuck you telling me for?"

The few times he saw his Son is when she pushed for it and brought him around. He never asked or expressed any desire to see the kid, even to this day.

Yeah, that shit worked out for the best then.

 

[JadaRoss]

He was in the delivery room, changed diapers, helped him take his first steps...ect. He's been there, and he's a wonderful Father. That is his Son.

Ya'll got the shallow version of this, .it goes much deeper. So it would be hard for you guys to really understand.

i could be wrong,but Mikko are you speaking in third person(yourself)

cause it sounds like it. but i could be wrong

 

[Truerap]

Yes, I chose to reveal this on the IC, a website that my Husband has full knowledge of and can read at any time. Makes sense.

If your Husband see this he might tell his friend you know.

 

[Truerap]

Yeah, decided early into this to let him know.

What he say?

 

[R.D.]

This shit made me really appreciate my mother.

Good Night

 

[Valentinez A. Kaiser]

He doesn't give a shit about that kid, he has several children all by different Women. When she let him know she was pregnant the asshole said "that's between you and your husband, fuck you telling me for?"

The few times he saw his Son is when she pushed for it and brought him around. He never asked or expressed any desire to see the kid, even to this day.

@ underlined: It's funny how these no good niggas always manage to carry forward their genes into the next generation multiple times with multiple women....whilst the dependable guy is left to take of these bastard kids with his resources. Nice guys finish last!

@bolded: This implies that the infidelity occured during the course of your friend's marriage, no?

lol @ the cluster bombs kimmi was dropping in some of those posts towards jackthemack....had me rolling lol

This shit made me really appreciate my mother.

Good Night

lol

 

[goat334]

Do not get into other people's business, especially their relationship. Some of y'all are really trolling hard.

 

[nex gin]

Why would someone tell their friend's significant other that said friend is cheating!?!?!?!

This is a dumb question and a dumber thread.

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[Louis Cipher]

Who the hell would do that?

My loyalty is always to my friend. I have a close friend who is married to a really great guy but their son isn't his, and he has no clue

wow stuff like this...........smh......this would drive a man to murder....

the lies that women tell...smh...

 

[goat334]

They ain't trollin darlin, they're dead serious. This shit hit a little to close to home for a lot of these dudes.

You're probably right, LOL@their asses scheduling appointments for paternity test as we type.

 

[nex gin]

Am I the only one who do the same exact thing that Kimi's doing? Loyalty to my friend and keep my mouth shut.

Yeah...as fucked up as it is I have to agree. Aside from the fact that it is a friend.....it's also none of her business nor her place to expose anything. The man has taken care of the child for this long. To bring it up now will do nothing more than create more problems than it will solve. Unfortunately, that's the type of stuff that happens when you wife women of questionable morals.

 

[mindright]

on the real...

keepin that secret is triflin..

I had to break the news to one of my boys that the kid he was being a father too wasn't his..

it was tough, but dude was living a lie and he had to know that his chick was a trifelife ho

smh.... loyalty is one thing, being down right triflin and keepin that secret is another..

that man needs to know that child is not his and he's been lied to all this time...he does deserve the truth

 

[sniff-n-wesum]

He doesn't give a shit about that kid, he has several children all by different Women. When she let him know she was pregnant the asshole said "that's between you and your husband, fuck you telling me for?"

The few times he saw his Son is when she pushed for it and brought him around. He never asked or expressed any desire to see the kid, even to this day.

is this nigga a dead beat? how you gon let a good dude raise this bitch ass nigga's kid???

 

[lighthearted25]

I have a cousin who sucked another guy and she is married and I will never tell her husband. But the child thing is crazy. I'm just trying to imagine my closest friend doing that and would I tell? I don't know that's a tough one, mainly because a child's life is involved. Do you know how angry and confused that kid will be when he finds out. I honestly didn't even think women really did this outside of them hoodrats on Maury lol. I couldn't even function under the guilt myself. All I can say is poor kid, that sucks for him.

 

[lighthearted25]

You would seriously rat your best friend out like that? That stuff is between her and her Husband, you have no right or obligation to right that wrong. It's not your place to interfere in someone elses marriage like that.

Not to mention the pain, and betrayal she would feel knowing her best friend snitched to her Husband, and fucked up her life when she's done nothing but be a good ass friend who has always been there for you.

I don't know. for me I think the child is a little more important than everything else. Atleast talk to your girl on some real shit, sit her down and tell her you are tired of being a party to her lies. Make her think you are gonna tell and that might force her to go ahead and confess. It takes a real friend to call someone out on their bullshit.