Lurkristocrat
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Kat;8480258 said:
Do u personally know scorpio4lfe tho?
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Do u personally know scorpio4lfe tho?
MontyM.Max
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I ain't cheated since I got engaged but that probably won't last long. I'm a worse person when I'm monogamous.
Lol @ all the goats in the OP
LOL @ 'me and my wife good"
Mfers REALLY need to listen and take heed to Chris Rock more
"You cheated now you cant trust her!? Aint that some shit? You know why? You just gave her a 'get some dick free card'
If you eeeeever cheat on a woman, tell her, and think yall all good, you're an IDIOT. The seal on that relationship is broken i would never be able to trust HER if she overlooked it
LOL @ 'me and my wife good"
Mfers REALLY need to listen and take heed to Chris Rock more
"You cheated now you cant trust her!? Aint that some shit? You know why? You just gave her a 'get some dick free card'
If you eeeeever cheat on a woman, tell her, and think yall all good, you're an IDIOT. The seal on that relationship is broken i would never be able to trust HER if she overlooked it
Ghostdenithegawd
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NYETOPn;6048054 said:Damn.
Is it that difficult to notice but not touch? No reason to let an itch, which could be taken care of in different ways besides cheating, ruin a good marriage.
Some people aint shit
Some people are strong but a flurry of circumstances will water down someone's judgment severely
Like if you know your going through some ahit and your more likely to do dimb shit to make yourself happy stay home
the dukester
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@kat, @peace_79. Our biology for all intents and purposes is the motivation for almost everything we do (Food, sex, and silence.) All the other "social constructs" ie. Morals, companionship, love. Is just window dressing providing cover for our primitive urges to spread our seeds (to enhance genetic diversity.)
I agree that women can "spice up the fried chicken." Nevertheless, it's still fried chicken, and you'll eventually get tired of it. Don't blame me, it's our biological hard-wiring. A woman sees a relatively fit man in a speedo and she recoils. A man sees a woman in a thong and begins salivating at the mouth.
A man sees a baby, and says, "okay that's a baby, no big deal." A woman sees a baby and begins cooing and "ahhh, it's soooo cute." These very different visceral reactions aren't social constructs, it's biology.
@kat said as long as I can handle it going both ways. From my experience, most women aren't built for shit like that. For the most part they tend to be emotional cheaters, in contrast, men tend to cheat purely for physical satisfaction.
In sum, men look for sex and find love. Women look for love and find sex........Pick your poison. B)
I agree that women can "spice up the fried chicken." Nevertheless, it's still fried chicken, and you'll eventually get tired of it. Don't blame me, it's our biological hard-wiring. A woman sees a relatively fit man in a speedo and she recoils. A man sees a woman in a thong and begins salivating at the mouth.
A man sees a baby, and says, "okay that's a baby, no big deal." A woman sees a baby and begins cooing and "ahhh, it's soooo cute." These very different visceral reactions aren't social constructs, it's biology.
@kat said as long as I can handle it going both ways. From my experience, most women aren't built for shit like that. For the most part they tend to be emotional cheaters, in contrast, men tend to cheat purely for physical satisfaction.
In sum, men look for sex and find love. Women look for love and find sex........Pick your poison. B)
I am more than my biological impulses.
Biology/selfish primal instincts would call for me to do a hell of a lot of things that I would never do... Including Cheating on my wife.
What is our goal? To simply satisfy our base urges?
... Or to lead a fulfilling life?
If it is the latter, living within the confines of the former idealoligy will not be sufficient.
If you locked a man in a facility with their choice of unlimited food, and a brothel of women of his choosing to fuck day and night...
After 50 years do you think you would be looking at a happy, fulfilled person?
We need more than that in life ...
We owe it to ourselves to strive for more than that in life
Biology/selfish primal instincts would call for me to do a hell of a lot of things that I would never do... Including Cheating on my wife.
What is our goal? To simply satisfy our base urges?
... Or to lead a fulfilling life?
If it is the latter, living within the confines of the former idealoligy will not be sufficient.
If you locked a man in a facility with their choice of unlimited food, and a brothel of women of his choosing to fuck day and night...
After 50 years do you think you would be looking at a happy, fulfilled person?
We need more than that in life ...
We owe it to ourselves to strive for more than that in life
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Lurkristocrat
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Kat;8480278 said:No, why?
How does it sound like a crazy version of her?
Lurkristocrat ;8480460 said:Kat;8480278 said:No, why?
How does it sound like a crazy version of her?
Just details in the story that sound similar to her situation..now hush.
Not sure if I commented here or not, but my two cents in this matter....
I'm not so sure monogamy is the natural process of human beings; however, a two adult household is more suitable for raising children and makes economic responsibility and household chores easier because things are shared; therefore, Western civilization has adopted it along with being pressured by most people's religious beliefs.
I believe the concept of monogamy was brought about not only by religion, but also by a man's need to keep his carnal desires in check to keep from becoming all out hedionist.
With that being said I don't necessarily condone cheating, but then again I do not frown upon those that do it either I believe it's s natural human desire to want to fulfill sexual desires.
I love my wife, and I would not want to do anything to hurt her and that helps me keep any urges that might come about in check.
I'm not so sure monogamy is the natural process of human beings; however, a two adult household is more suitable for raising children and makes economic responsibility and household chores easier because things are shared; therefore, Western civilization has adopted it along with being pressured by most people's religious beliefs.
I believe the concept of monogamy was brought about not only by religion, but also by a man's need to keep his carnal desires in check to keep from becoming all out hedionist.
With that being said I don't necessarily condone cheating, but then again I do not frown upon those that do it either I believe it's s natural human desire to want to fulfill sexual desires.
I love my wife, and I would not want to do anything to hurt her and that helps me keep any urges that might come about in check.
mryounggun
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I don't really look at fucking the same woman as eating the same chicken everyday. There's fried chicken, baked chicken, chicken nuggets, chicken parmesan, etc. Before you get married, you gotta already know that you gotta actually consciously do things to NOT let things get stale. Especially in the bedroom. It ain't really that hard.
mryounggun;8480725 said:I don't really look at fucking the same woman as eating the same chicken everyday. There's fried chicken, baked chicken, chicken nuggets, chicken parmesan, etc. Before you get married, you gotta already know that you gotta actually consciously do things to NOT let things get stale. Especially in the bedroom. It ain't really that hard.
I agree one must get creative and be willing to try different things sexually to keep things fresh, but if you've been together 5-10 years or better there are only so many different ways you can have sex.
I think it's more important that you get with someone who you actually are feeling from a mental perspective, because sex gets old.
That's why most people (men and women) just smash and if there is no mental connection they eventually move on.
Sex is great and it's good to be skilled at it but it will take more than that and then some to hold most people's attention unless y'all are simply friends with benefits.
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LPast;8480614 said:@kat what ever happened with your relationship?
It's on hiatus.
mryounggun
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Crude_;8480775 said:mryounggun;8480725 said:I don't really look at fucking the same woman as eating the same chicken everyday. There's fried chicken, baked chicken, chicken nuggets, chicken parmesan, etc. Before you get married, you gotta already know that you gotta actually consciously do things to NOT let things get stale. Especially in the bedroom. It ain't really that hard.
I agree one must get creative and be willing to try different things sexually to keep things fresh, but if you've been together 5-10 years or better there are only so many different ways you can have sex.
I think it's more important that you get with someone who you actually are feeling from a mental perspective, because sex gets old.
That's why most people (men and women) just smash and if there is no mental connection they eventually move on.
Sex is great and it's good to be skilled at it but it will take more than that and then some to hold most people's attention unless y'all are simply friends with benefits.
That goes without saying, B.
Kat;8480842 said:LPast;8480614 said:@kat what ever happened with your relationship?
It's on hiatus.
Speak on it.
LPast;8480858 said:Kat;8480842 said:LPast;8480614 said:@kat what ever happened with your relationship?
It's on hiatus.
Speak on it.
Not much to speak on.
I moved to Cali, he's still in Houston. We may or may not get back together. Either way, I'm happier and healthier. I do miss him though.
texas409;8480106 said:Hahaha wow at that "deadeye" story. This IC shit is real
@texas409
Not my story.
I just quoted the poster who told it:
@LysolJenkins
Kat;8480258 said:Why that sound like a crazy version of scorpio4lfe? No diss.
@kat
Care to elaborate Kathryn?
What about that story made you think of @scorpio4lfe ?
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