cheating while married...let's talk.

[bigduece69]

Each have their own reasons. Whether its the thrill of being with a different woman, the marriage has gotten boring, or they just are not in love with their wife the same way they used to be. Many stay because like the old saying goes, its cheaper to keep her. Alimony, child support, and giving up the house can be a real issue for some.

My wife and I have been together for 5 years married for 4. I'd be lying if I say that I've never been tempted before, but what has deterred me is the fact that I genuinely do love my wife and she is a very good wife on top of that. Also my wife and I are willing to put in the work to keep the relationship fresh and new. I would type more but I know how niggas are with titangraphs.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

chicks cheat more...
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/07/02/cheating-wives_n_3536412.html

thing is dudes get caught more...because most do it to boost their ego about baggin new pussy an brag about it. they homies run they fukkin mouth over pillow talk an then the shit is out.

chicks cheat tell they friends...they friends then keep it to themselves as a "see the bitch aint happier than me" ego booster

 

[Purr]

Im married and ive cheated before.

Definitely not something I'm proud of but I definitely learned from it.

Every marriage is its own organism. No two marriages are alike just like no two individuals have identical relationships with God.

You gotta find what works for you and do that.

I gotta keep it 3hunned and say we STILL trying to find that formula

The biggest change after it all is accepting that neither of us is perfect and being patient enough to grow with each other for our child's sake

why did you cheat? what was the cause for you to step out? would you ever do it again?

how did your wife accept the change?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

damn yall heathens cheating on your wives

niggaz aint getting no more GOATs from me

dont judge until you are in the situation.

marriage is harder than some people think.

and sometimes you fukk up...some people fukk up in different ways.

one may cheat, the other will create debt, or cause a foreclosure,one may because an addict. all kind shit can happen.

just because you think you got it together right now....give it some time. you dont know what you might do when you at the end of your rope and runnin on reserve patiences with someone.

cheating aint the answer...but divorce may be too extreme an have too much to lose

 

[Sour-Cream]

sometimes it's trust issues. How can you trust that she's not cheating on you. You might as well cheat if you suspect something.

 

[LUClEN]

Nah b as a kid I feared death way more than divorce

 

[Rubato Garcia]

Nah b as a kid I feared death way more than divorce

I never feared my parents divorcing as a child bc I honestly never considered it as a possibility

 

[Trollio]

Hilarious

 

[haute]

people cheat because they wanted to

*shrugs*

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

I think people cheat most of the time because they feel something/things are lacking in the relationship. They already feel cheated of something, emotionally, mentally and/or physically and step out of the relationship to get it.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Im married and ive cheated before.

Definitely not something I'm proud of but I definitely learned from it.

Every marriage is its own organism. No two marriages are alike just like no two individuals have identical relationships with God.

You gotta find what works for you and do that.

I gotta keep it 3hunned and say we STILL trying to find that formula

The biggest change after it all is accepting that neither of us is perfect and being patient enough to grow with each other for our child's sake

why did you cheat? what was the cause for you to step out? would you ever do it again?

how did your wife accept the change?

We separated because my wife was wildin. We had a new born n she was going out and doing shit like she didn't have a family at home ( way more than before the kid)

Went to counseling and the therapist heard both sides n was like " ma'am Ur husband is a G. U on some bullshit. Cut it out". She kept up her shenanigans

I went out to play poker like I usually do after separating and seen a chick id seen 20-30 times before. The difference is THIS time we both were willing to really talk ( she was married too but struggling). Married chick gets my number from a mutual friend ...calls....we got real cool. Shit was just too easy to fall into.

I wouldnt do it again. If i ever found myself in that place again im just leaving my wife.

The drama that ensued was epic

C'mon brotha. You can't leave us wit a cliffhanger. Speak on it.

 

[HarlemThumzUp]

married. done it before and so has she. never divorced due to children and too much money invested between the two of us, no one wanted to split it cuz we knew we'd still owe on some other shit. Money talks.

 

[CottonCitySlim]

I think people cheat most of the time because they feel something/things are lacking in the relationship. They already feel cheated of something, emotionally, mentally and/or physically and step out of the relationship to get it.

this, women and men cheat for different reasons. a man cheating is psychical while women cheating is more emotional and its because the person she cheated with i providing something that missing in her relationship.

 

[bambu]

I think people cheat most of the time because they feel something/things are lacking in the relationship. They already feel cheated of something, emotionally, mentally and/or physically and step out of the relationship to get it.

i think cheating happens cuz of what you said, but then instead of voicing their concerns to their partner, people look outside to solve an internal issue

lack of communication has a lot to do with. people can communicate fine when everything is going well, but have no idea how to communicate when things aren't going well. so they shut down, once someone starts disconnecting from their partner is when cheating happens

Let me know if you ever have an internal issue you need to talk about..........

 

[ohhhla]

Lol

 

[bignorm]

Kai, I think he's offering you an internal solution.

Anyway, my momma used to always say "just cuz you aint the one doing wrong don't mean its your time to judge. In a relationship, both people will be the person wilding out. It just aint happen yet".

Moms and pops been married 35 years.

When she told me this quote as a teenager, I knew that at some point, she had gotten hoish lol.

My dad told me this, at about 25 - "running these streets aint as appealing as it seems"- that's when I first knew Pops might have strayed too.

I wouldn't put money on it tho.

 

[f.cashflow99]

I cheated....big regret but its usually a sign that your relationship in big trouble or you hold some really shitty values.

 

[Rasta.]

Why women cheat is plain and simple..most times, they end up marrying a nigga for the wrong reasons (Financial security and looks). There will still be the one other dude they truly loved but had nothing going for him finances wise so they'll keep him around for when the husband fucks up (which most likely happens)

Men cheat cos....

 

[ptnutz]

Im married and ive cheated before.

Definitely not something I'm proud of but I definitely learned from it.

Every marriage is its own organism. No two marriages are alike just like no two individuals have identical relationships with God.

You gotta find what works for you and do that.

I gotta keep it 3hunned and say we STILL trying to find that formula

The biggest change after it all is accepting that neither of us is perfect and being patient enough to grow with each other for our child's sake

why did you cheat? what was the cause for you to step out? would you ever do it again?

how did your wife accept the change?

We separated because my wife was wildin. We had a new born n she was going out and doing shit like she didn't have a family at home ( way more than before the kid)

Went to counseling and the therapist heard both sides n was like " ma'am Ur husband is a G. U on some bullshit. Cut it out". She kept up her shenanigans

I went out to play poker like I usually do after separating and seen a chick id seen 20-30 times before. The difference is THIS time we both were willing to really talk ( she was married too but struggling). Married chick gets my number from a mutual friend ...calls....we got real cool. Shit was just too easy to fall into.

I wouldnt do it again. If i ever found myself in that place again im just leaving my wife.

The drama that ensued was epic

 

[GettinLo]

Travel for work frequently... have had a few opportunities to cheat, never found it worth it...

To me the bigger thrill is in the KNOWING I can still bag a chick or two...