Ghost313;9349086 said:
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Copper;9348852 said:
Nb4 this thread is deemed sexist bc you guys are judging her based on her own words.
Nah, having standards is coo. But you gotta fall somewhere in that ballpark yourself.
Shorty don't.
Those aren't standards though. What fool ass bitches with lists like hers don't realize is that is a major reason they get with fucked up men.
Not anywhere on that list was high character, loyalty, morals, etc. They never look for it and then when they fucked over first thing asking about is all the shit they never listed in what they want from a man.
People these days want the person of their dreams to come to them without doing anything on their end.
Sometimes the person of your drrams is in your life, they just need your help to hit their pinnacle. People dont want to build with anyone, they only want the finished product.
There may be a dude in this girl life who is broke, or fat or 5'10 and has all of the other qualities, but is eliminated due to failing to meet 1 requirement. Yet that same Guy lose weight or get his money up, he's the shit now.
There's a thread about being able to stay with a person who makes significantly less than you. People often eliminate broke people off GP, and dont build with that person, in short people are fickle as hell.
So u want her to date a broke nigga???
She can't even ask for a nigga with a job???
His own car and crib... why dont she deserve a tall nigga? Tall niggas aren't rare, the bitch aint mexican.
The average negroe in the u.s is some big muthafuckas...
My brother, not everyone has their shit together on the same accord as you and I, but that should not disqualify them from happiness, maybe the dude is in college on his way up, just need someone to hold him down till he make it.
My broad was broke as shit 2 years ago, couldn't afford to keep her lights on, but I stuck with her, helped her along, now she's making over 70k. She was everything I wantes in a woman, but was broke as fuck, but I chose to build with her.
In short, not everyone has their shit together in life, and it says more when you can love a person while trying to reach their pinnacle versus loving the finished product.
Then he needs to get his shit together... PERIOD. im in college right now, wrkin stacking my paper... im not tripping. Why? i understand, how the game goes.
As far as the shit she's asking for , it's basic stuff. own place, a decent job, and a car.... like dude, what's the fuss about?
I understand things happen in life, ups and downs, ppl go through things.
But Guess what?
Nobody has to settle, and hold anybody down. If a man dont fit a woman's program, then she's not obligated to hold him down. That's life.
2. A broke woman, and a broke man are two separate entities ... in our society, despite all the equality talk, and the feminist bull. a man is still seen as the provider, and leader in a relationship.
the stigma of a woman who aint got no job, car, crib is less than a man, who's in the exact same situation .
Ain't no man being saved by a balla. Everyday a bitch is being saved, yah dig.
