Madame_CJSkywalker;c-9917030 said:Go figure;c-9916986 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-9916978 said:Go figure;c-9916959 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-9916685 said:some argue it's a greater offense because a person is then compromising your sexuality, but i would counter why would he or she consider that to be worst than someone compromising your emotions, morals and or ethics when they purposely mislead you into engaging in sexual contact with a person under the false impression they were single
Right, so we can agree that its subjective and everyone is entitled to their opinions. Only reason this is a problem is bc some trans want ppl to respect their values/beliefs while violating others. Its not consistent.
and while non-disclosure can cause a person psychological harm, it doesn't cause any true physical harm like not disclosing you have an STD or sexual assault/rape
Very highly disagree. An std can be cured and if youre talking abouy hiv/aids, have u ever gone into threads where ppl said "i'd kill that bitch!" And defend the dirty bitch like u are doing for trans right now? Doubt it.
Also, id argue psychological harm is more difficult to deal with. Ask gay men who've been molested by adult men in their youth.
AND how many girls do u know would date/marry a man who has fucked another man trans or not? Would u yourself do so?
So if a man was tricked into it, he would probably be inclined to keep it from any girl he meets for fear of losing her. And even worse he hid it and she left him when she found out bc she figured he must be gay.
To downplay those psychological effects is ignorant af.
again i'd ultimately leave it up to the civil courts to award any damages to a person they see fit
sending someone to prison over is extreme ...
This is the equivalent of a man saying sending a rapist or pedophile to prison is overkill. To u its not bc u arent being violated, but u cant speak for the men that have actually experienced this.
unfortunately messing around with someone you wouldn’t have if you had known [insert relevant detail here] is a pretty common experience, and one most people bounce back from
Id put it on par with sexual molestation, most ppl spend their whole lives tryna bounce back from that
otherwise what makes it inherently more of a criminal offense or any more harmful physical/mental state than a person lying about being single or married
its more of a moral issue
And ppl are entitled to their morals. For a group of trans ppl to say "fuck your morals but respect our cause" is the reason we have a problem here
it's comparable to child molestation and rape??? it is subjective, but how?
I believe its a form of molestation. Some women will fucka married man. Some might even continue a relationship even after feeling betrayed. No straight man would ever knowingly fuck another man under any circumstances.
we are speaking of two adults who consented to sexual activity.... the person may not be who they say they are but that's why I argue is more comparable and should be treated no differently than when a person lies about not being married
"Consent to an extent". If a man feels sexually violated he should have a right to pursue legal action. There would be no consent if he knew beforehand that was a trans.
Also, married men have faced legal repercussion for cheating in divorce courts. So one way or another they pay for it.
but i think we can agree when an adult chooses to have a sexual relationship with another person, each “assumes the risk” that the facts might not be as they seem
Lgbtq community demands respect from ppl for their sexual identity. Again, if they are violating other ppls sexual identity its hypocrisy. U cant seem to grasp this.
and unlike with failing to disclose you have HIV, i don't believe the inherent harm (i.e. feelings of betrayal )that would have been avoided by disclosure in both instances does not qualify as the sort of harm with which the criminal law should concern itself
Your morals simply dont align with those u are speaking against so u are indifferent towards it. Same indifference lgbtq rally against when it comes to them or womens rights advocats in the 'cat calling' movement.
Or do you believe we should be allowed to press criminal charges against every person who purposely failed to disclose non-medical related information I deem important before any sexual activity
It depends. In this instance, yes. All situations arent either all-ridiculous or all-reasonable. This one is reasonable.
Regardless, that trans should be prepared for any retaliation that might come. After all, they brought that trouble on themselves. Obviously if a man kills that person it was enough for him to not care about legal repercussion. They wanna put themselves at risk its on them, but then dont cry about it, take accountability.
and why are we making this to be an issue that only effects men.. there are trans men and trans women who also don't immediately disclose their past to women they pursue
This deflection shit is getting tiring. First off, if this happens to a woman my stance applies to her as well. But thats not what we are discussing here. Women and lgbtq march all the time, but we cant even have a discussion sticking to men?
This is the same as a white person telling black lives matter that all lives matter. Lets discuss this first.
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