Blog: Black men are the problem

[fuc_i_look_like]

When I was growing up I watched my father go to work everyday and pay the bills and I assumed that is how a man is supposed to be, but when I got older I found out it was all a lie these black women didnt care I owned two homes and had a nice job it seems they would rather have a nigga who has nothing so they can complain. The reality is most black women dont even know what a man is because they were raised in a home with no man in it that is why I am trying to only date women who were raised in a two parent household but that is about as hard to find as a black woman with no kids.

good luck finding one

 

[bootsy_jenkins]

I'd bet this fat bish would say I'm "weak" and/or "boring" because I don't fit into her BET reinforced stereotype. Kind of like Skyler said, if you don't want "ain't shit niggas", you got to quit being an "ain't shit female". Wouldn't waste my time on a female like this because black men fall into 2 categories to her: dog or weak. She couldn't even appreciate a for real ass black man because she'd be too busy looking for things to put you into one of her 2 preconceived notions.

What really kills me is bishes like this will get shit on by white men and not have a problem with it. In fact they would make the same excuses for her white "God" that she trashes other black women for when they do the same thing for black men.

Real Talk. I will admit this. Some Black men are fucking up left and right. We fail to acknowledge that a lot of our problems come from us not accepting responsibility for our actions and making poor decisions. Those of us that have our shit together should really try to mentor some of these wayward young brothers. However, to say that all black men are fucked up is asinine. Like many others have said, Black women also have to admit to poor decision making by hooking up with trifling ass dudes and acting trife themselves. It is even more ridiculous to believe that a man from another race is the answer to all of their problems.

For example, My Ex had a friend that only dated white dudes. Let's call her Denise. Denise was raised by her single Mother and groomed to only date white men because Black men "weren't shit." Denise went to law school and was in a relationship with a white dude, then started fucking his best friend, (another white dude.) She ended up getting pregnant by one of them and didn't know which one. It ended up being her boyfriend who totally shitted on her because, you know she was fucking his boy.

The chick ended up leaving law school and her kid's pop is now a lawyer with aspirations of getting into politics. He doesn't pay her JACK SHIT. He is as much of a deadbeat as these hood ass niggas. In fact he told her that if she even tried to contact him he would either take the kid away from her or have her ass murked. I think about her whenever I read silly shit like what sisters on that blog wrote. They are nothing but a bunch of angry, bitter misguided fools.

 

[THIRDSUPREME]

I'd bet this fat bish would say I'm "weak" and/or "boring" because I don't fit into her BET reinforced stereotype. Kind of like Skyler said, if you don't want "ain't shit niggas", you got to quit being an "ain't shit female". Wouldn't waste my time on a female like this because black men fall into 2 categories to her: dog or weak. She couldn't even appreciate a for real ass black man because she'd be too busy looking for things to put you into one of her 2 preconceived notions.

What really kills me is bishes like this will get shit on by white men and not have a problem with it. In fact they would make the same excuses for her white "God" that she trashes other black women for when they do the same thing for black men.

Real Talk. I will admit this. Some Black men are fucking up left and right. We fail to acknowledge that a lot of our problems come from us not accepting responsibility for our actions and making poor decisions. Those of us that have our shit together should really try to mentor some of these wayward young brothers. However, to say that all black men are fucked up is asinine. Like many others have said, Black women also have to admit to poor decision making by hooking up with trifling ass dudes and acting trife themselves. It is even more ridiculous to believe that a man from another race is the answer to all of their problems.

For example, My Ex had a friend that only dated white dudes. Let's call her Denise. Denise was raised by her single Mother and groomed to only date white men because Black men "weren't shit." Denise went to law school and was in a relationship with a white dude, then started fucking his best friend, (another white dude.) She ended up getting pregnant by one of them and didn't know which one. It ended up being her boyfriend who totally shitted on her because, you know she was fucking his boy.

The chick ended up leaving law school and her kid's pop is now a lawyer with aspirations of getting into politics. He doesn't pay her JACK SHIT. He is as much of a deadbeat as these hood ass niggas. In fact he told her that if she even tried to contact him he would either take the kid away from her or have her ass murked. I think about her whenever I read silly shit like what sisters on that blog wrote. They are nothing but a bunch of angry, bitter misguided fools.

He'd have her killed? Yeah well I encourage black women to date white men. Matbe they'll find whqt they're looking for. Everybody deserves happiness.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

Don't read much eh? Cause that response was asinine as fuck...

 

[THIRDSUPREME]

Don't read much eh? Cause that response was asinine as fuck...

Who are you talking to?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

the chicks that say all black men are just looking for justification to act like fools towards them an have backup when they date outside they race.

maybe its not about expanding you options outside ya race but expanding your standards within it.

most of yall have a idea of the type of men you want but mostly its unrealistic.

an like i said in another thread...what are you bringing to the table? most of yall dont wanna be held to a standard but want to do the holding.

you chicks need to understand....finding a good guy is easy.....you just have to put out the right bait or understand who you are an what you attract or display

 

[twatgetta]

Don't worry all you black bitches that 100% believe the stupid black bitch that wrote that article, THIS one Black Man problem will be bouncing to Brazil so I will be out of your nappy hair once and for all BITCHES!

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

-Two parent household or not, people can still make fucked up choices.

-People need to evaluate themselves before they blame others.

-You can do all the good things for the wrong person.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

In the end, the people sitting around here complaining and generalizing about the other gender are the ones that will wind up lonely and miserable. Yeah, I can see problems with the way a lot of black women behave, but I didn't let that stop me from scooping up a good one when I found one.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

My thing is if people keep hurting you, just keep moving on and learn from what happened because it could be a point where the right person comes along but you don't give them a chance because of the past ones.

 

[ghostdog56]

Black women dont understand the science of breeding and choose mates like an animal does that is why they always end up with dogs

 

[The Lonious Monk]

My thing is if people keep hurting you, just keep moving on and learn from what happened because it could be a point where the right person comes along but you don't give them a chance because of the past ones.

That's the funny thing though. Black women are always talking about black men hurting them. So you would think if you look at the black dudes they have dealt with in the past, you'd see a variety of dudes which would support their opinion that black dudes are no good. More often than not though, these chicks go after the same shitty type of dude over and over again, and then when they finally get fed up, instead of changing what they look for they make the claim that all black guys are bad.

I knew this chick that had 3 bfs in her past. She claimed she was taking a break because she had been done wrong by all three and was losing faith in black males. According to her all three dudes were very different and that's why she believed she just couldn't win with black dudes. I knew all three of those dudes. They all looked different, that's true, but as far as personality and character, they were like carbon copies of each other.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

My thing is if people keep hurting you, just keep moving on and learn from what happened because it could be a point where the right person comes along but you don't give them a chance because of the past ones.

thats called accountability...

something i dont see alot in my community.

like the auhor said...black men are the problem and women have zero accountability.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

Give people a chance until they fuck up and don't be so much of an open book.

 

[Ajackson17]

I hope every coon dates a white prototype Lannister in their lives. They'll run back to black so fast they will be like Malcom X.

 

[T. Sanford]

I know this chick that I was trying to get at 2 years ago but she was acting stuck up & her conversation game was dry. So I stop messaging her. 2 years & 2 kids later, she trying to feed me messages in my inbox yet her convo game was still dry. I seen she had kids in her photos & hit the mutombo rejection (from the commercial) on her.

That Kendrick Lamar line from memories come to mind when I seen that shss "Fast forward wait is that you/ With them big old thighs after school/ And yo 3 kids and 3 daddies and same car note that’s overdue"

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I know this chick that I was trying to get at 2 years ago but she was acting stuck up & her conversation game was dry. So I stop messaging her. 2 years & 2 kids later, she trying to feed me messages in my inbox yet her convo game was still dry. I seen she had kids in her photos & hit the mutombo rejection (from the commercial) on her.

That Kendrick Lamar line from memories come to mind when I seen that shss "Fast forward wait is that you/ With them big old thighs after school/ And yo 3 kids and 3 daddies and same car note that’s overdue"

she was cute back then wasnt she... not thinking her shit stunk

 

[sweetheart93]

2 kids in 2 years. Damn.

 

[T. Sanford]

2 kids in 2 years. Damn.

They was twins I forgot to say that

 

[indyman87]

IMO I think that Black Women and Women in general are too scared to fall in love. They do not want to fall deeply in love. They marry because of convience, out of necessity, marry for money etc...

They love dating and marrying Bad boys. It's not just a Mary J Blige song. They're all about the drama.

But you never hear Black Men saying they want to marry a bad girl. On the whole we're not about all that drama.