Blog: Black men are the problem

[Dr.Chemix]

I call bullshit. Women need to start owning up to their shit a little bit more. You want the man to be father like in his handling of you but when he takes that route, yall got a million objections to it. But that's just how it is...

 

[blackrain]

I didnt read but in fairness. Most of you niggas REALLY aint shit. So Im sure its at least 35% truth in that wall of Niggress hate.

That said most human beings in general arent worth a fuck so its not necessarily race centric. The only real problem is people dont realize the person they attract says a lot about them. Easier to blame others than look internally.

If your Girlfriends are all attractive but stupid it says you're shallow.

If your boyfriends keep beating you it says you need to learn to STFU or keep your hands to yourself.

They things you go through in your relationships say a lot about YOU more than they say about the other person. And until everybody white, black or otherwise can admit that they will continue on that same bitter road. Not to say that everything is YOUR fault. But your reaction to everything because your responsibility.

I think the fact that a good number of people still don't really socialize outside their direct race/ethnic group for the most part still contributes to many of the "grass is greener on the other side" or "I bet *whatever race i'm not of men/women don't do this" thought processes by people. I say it often that one of the main reason that black men seem to go so hard on black women and not women of any other race/ethnicity is because the majority still only deal with black woman so when they complain about women as a whole, because 98.9% of their experience with women are with black women that's who they're directing it at. If they had more experiences with different women they'd see the complaints are pretty much the same across the board.

 

[Undefeatable]

I didnt read but in fairness. Most of you niggas REALLY aint shit. So Im sure its at least 35% truth in that wall of Niggress hate.

That said most human beings in general arent worth a fuck so its not necessarily race centric. The only real problem is people dont realize the person they attract says a lot about them. Easier to blame others than look internally.

If your Girlfriends are all attractive but stupid it says you're shallow.

If your boyfriends keep beating you it says you need to learn to STFU or keep your hands to yourself.

They things you go through in your relationships say a lot about YOU more than they say about the other person. And until everybody white, black or otherwise can admit that they will continue on that same bitter road. Not to say that everything is YOUR fault. But your reaction to everything because your responsibility.

I think the fact that a good number of people still don't really socialize outside their direct race/ethnic group for the most part still contributes to many of the "grass is greener on the other side" or "I bet *whatever race i'm not of men/women don't do this" thought processes by people. I say it often that one of the main reason that black men seem to go so hard on black women and not women of any other race/ethnicity is because the majority still only deal with black woman so when they complain about women as a whole, because 98.9% of their experience with women are with black women that's who they're directing it at. If they had more experiences with different women they'd see the complaints are pretty much the same across the board.

But there are real differences between black and non-black women. To mention just one, non-black women won't turn down a brother anywhere near as much for not sounding stereotypically black. Don't try to act like there aren't some cultural differences between blacks and whites.

 

[desertrain10]

Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.

yes, yes

when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege

take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women

and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together

Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.

lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion

and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own womb....

smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.

yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so fuck the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.

 

[Undefeatable]

Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.

yes, yes

when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege

take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women

and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together

Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.

lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion

and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own womb....

smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.

yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so fuck the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.

Nothing you said even challenges what I said, which is that the racism black men face is worse than the sexism and racism black women face put together.

 

[Trollio]

blah blah blah

 

[black caesar]

I cant do white men. The majority that are into black women date us because of some fucked up stereotype or fetish...not because of genuine love for our beauty or culture.

me too @ the bolded, but not for the same reason as you, for me, pink penis looks terrifying, like it's see through or some shit, very off putting just from what i've seen in porn, i can only imagine how much scarier they look irl lol

Will Munny is going to be tight at you. lol

 

[desertrain10]

Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.

yes, yes

when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege

take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women

and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together

Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.

lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion

and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own womb....

smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.

yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so fuck the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.

Nothing you said even challenges what I said, which is that the racism black men face is worse than the sexism and racism black women face put together.

again this is not a contest

lol obviously my post are going over your head so let's just agree to disagree

 

[Ajackson17]

This site proves sexism and misgony is strong in black men. And thry wonder why misandry is growing in black women.

 

[Gold_Certificate]

Didn't read but I'm sure people are donning their coonskin caps with no fucks given...

Shots fired at Dro's wife.

 

[desertrain10]

Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.

yes, yes

when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege

take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women

and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together

Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.

lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion

and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own womb....

smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.

yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so fuck the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.

These niggas ain't hearing you, tho. It's unfortunate, but it's the way it is. I gave up awhile ago.

unfortunate indeed

hopefully i've reached one person though lol...

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

 

[xxCivicxx]

Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.

yes, yes

when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege

take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women

and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together

Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.

lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion

and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own womb....

smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.

yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so fuck the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.

I think it's interesting that so many black women deem themselves smart enough to figure out what the problem is facing our people, yet they normally fail at being able to pinpoint where that problem actually arose from. Do your research and try and retain what you learn, how about trying that out? Throughout American history, any time that blacks as a people came together and gathered into an UNCONTROLLABLE economic force, we were purposefully and almost immediately torn down by outside forces. Black prosperity during the Reconstruction era was so great that labor unions and jim crow laws were created in opposition to our successes. Yes, these were BLACK MEN showing their productive strength and the country as a whole felt very threatened.

In America today black women have more rights than the straight black men. Gay black men have more rights than the straight black man. Gays have coopted the term Civil Rights completely. Under the guise of feminism, political interests have alienated black men from black women on a large scale. These days most black woman will defend feminist views much quicker than she will defend a black man. Black women were told that they didn't need a man to raise a child, and many ignorantly believed this outright lie, so the single mother household came into existence as a common American archetype.

You say half of all american women live in poverty? Boo fuckin hoo, 1/3 of all black men will end up in fucking JAIL at some point in their lives. You know what type of black man is most likely to go to jail? A black man raised in a single mother household. 70% of all delinquents were raised in single mother homes. It seems to me that even with all of the facts out in the open, people still want to find a way to blame the black man for almost ALL problems that black women, as well as the rest of america face.

A woman with poor decision-making skills allows herself to be knocked up by someone who is not gonna stay around to raise their child. The child grows up in a house where all they hear is negative things about black men. If they child is a boy, he is placed in a public school system that calls him all kinds of remedial and retard and drugs him down with ritalin and pushes him out of the education system and into the prison industrial complex usually before 11th grade. Now bankers are making money simply off of a person being in a cage. Not only that, on the other side of the coin you have a mass push towards the emasculation of the black male in the media. Young black men have no role models to look up to besides homothug rappers and drug dealers.

There has been a very large-scale orchestrated effort to make the modern black man completely forget his place in human history. Knowledge of the culture of one's people is a large part of healthy self-esteem development. Lemme stop before I really get worked up

 

[xxCivicxx]

And another sad truth is that no matter how hard black women try and distance themselves from black men, most non black men simply do not and are not gonna treat black women as their equals. You need 2 black people to create another black person. The destruction of either the black man or the black women means the destruction of the black race. How does one destroy a people without having to resort to direct genocide? Alienate the man and the woman of that race from eachother and promote emasculating homosexuality as the overall cool/trendy lifestyle and they'll destroy themselves/breed out. Some of you need to wake the fuck up *Future voice* "For real"

 

[taeboo]

What rights do black women and gay black men have that hetero black men don't??

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Black men and women just need to accept that we both got our flaws, neither is worse than the other. This bashing of the genders aint getting us anywhere. Cuz at the end of the day, we both Black.

 

[Purr]

What rights do black women and gay black men have that hetero black men don't??

?????

 

[xxCivicxx]

What rights do black women and gay black men have that hetero black men don't??

Don't act like I'm presenting you with new information, all you have to do is look around

Family court law is 100% anti-male. This is the only tool that women need to protect their rights. It's also the most powerful tool in the west when it comes to protecting women's rights. The gay rights movement has multi-million dollar lobby machine in DC, if someone or something is too anti-gay they are absolutely blacklisted across the nation and you know this. Gays are one of the only groups powerful enough to go up against the first amendment

It is also well known that black men get harsher sentences for crimes than non black men. Black women get government assistance at the drop of a hat, all they need is a child/poor income/no income

 

[sweetheart93]

Black men and women just need to accept that we both got our flaws, neither is worse than the other. This bashing of the genders aint getting us anywhere. Cuz at the end of the day, we both Black.

Good post *slow claps*

 

[taeboo]

What rights do black women and gay black men have that hetero black men don't??

Don't act like I'm presenting you with new information, all you have to do is look around

Family court law is 100% anti-male. This is the only tool that women need to protect their rights. It's also the most powerful tool in the west when it comes to protecting women's rights. The gay rights movement has multi-million dollar lobby machine in DC, if someone or something is too anti-gay they are absolutely blacklisted across the nation and you know this. Gays are one of the only groups powerful enough to go up against the first amendment

You didn't answer my question. How does family court protect women's rights?? How does the gay lobby go against the first amendment??