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blackrain;8653816 said:2stepz_ahead;8653764 said:blackrain;8653738 said:2stepz_ahead;8653692 said:blackrain;8653684 said:2stepz_ahead;8653621 said:blackrain;8653562 said:2stepz_ahead;8653313 said:Trillaaaaaa;8653306 said:Maybe Pill Cosby will learn now to have Black people back instead of criticizing us every chance he can during interviews
That man got his wake up call lol
a terrible way of looking at this.
was he wrong tho.
if you wasnt living like that then why would it bother you?
this man put those thru college who wanted to better themselves and wants more people to better themselves. but he wrong for saying have some pride and dignity.
shit i agree to a majority of what he was saying.
maybe his timing was off with his audience but niggas didnt take shit from it. niggas rather focus on him not being perfect or him saying it to white people or anything other than taking responsibility.
Question..do you think without the rape allegations but it just coming out how Bill was cheating, taking and giving drugs and havi g out of wedlock kids....don't you think that information alone would have been enough for people to disregard the message and messenger? Its hard to tell people to keep their family lives in order when his was in disarray for so long and people would've pounced all over that level of hypocrisy from him. Its not about being perfect but if you're gonna ask people to uphold certain values to improve the community he should have been actually doing it too.
but bill takes responsibility for his kids an cheating an shit.
i think he had a daughter that went to famu. i think it was him. but he took care of her.
but anyway...
how many people you get advice from are living lives you dont know about. but that dont stop them from wanting better from you.
maybe you can look at it like...i fukked up and i am mad i fukked up and i dont want you to do the same fukk shit and get caught up like i did. i see you going that path and i want you to stop.
no one ever thought to look at it like that huh.
sometimes its that janitor who lost all his money can be the one that can help you keep all your money.
Bill wasn't coming from a position of " I made mistakes so here's how you don't repeat mine" though. His was chastising and while its not a bad thing if you're gonna chastise people then your shit better be in order too and for Cosby it wasn't. He's paying people to keep silent about kids out of wedlock and not actually raising the chils, out here taking drugs, cheating pretty much doing everything in private he's telling people publicly is leading to the downfall of the community.
If Bill was coming from the I fucked up and don't want you to repeat it then he would have had to be open about his own flaws. He wasn't. He put out an image that was a complete 180 from his personal life. When you do that and it gets exposed you're gonna suffer no matter who you are
again...
how do you know who is keeping that typ shit and worse private but out here telling folk what to do
You're not answering the question. Either answer it or simply say you don't see an issue with someone giving others standards to live up to they don't meet themselves. It may not matter to you but to others they're not about to take how to better the community advice from someone doing the some of the same shit they say is harming it
really?
so why do people listen to the aint shit dudes and they inturn create more aint shit dudes.
who are the niggas following who are going around shooting other niggas. they had to get it from someone.
but you ont see nothing wrong with someone holding someone sucessful but flawed to a high standard.
so like i said before....they want people to be perfect.
Those people listening to ain't shitted folks ain't too bright. I think people should be held to the standard they hold others to no more no less. So if you're gonna go around telling an entire community how to clean their act up meanwhile you're out here living all sorts of foul it eventually is going to make you look real bad. It ain't about wanting people to be perfect but your shortcomings can't have a direct connection to what you're telling people what not to do
but hey maybe that person knows whats right but aint strong enough to do it themselves.
does that mean their message aint right.
does that mean you cant learn from them because they like liquor, fast women, drugs or whatever.
everyone has something to hide...no one lets all themselves be know to the public.
i may not agree with you being a thief but if you go a good message that can help me....i'll listen but you just cant come to my house and cant get in my car