Being with broken people

[DarcSkies]

How does Mikko's sonning of dudes play into this thread?

He was inadvertently simping Let that man work.

Anyway, a person's negative experiences can actually be part of what makes them what/who they are and without those experiences you may not even like them anymore because their personality would be different.

I was with a girl that was molested and she was a FREAK x 12. HOWEVER, there were other things that I didnt like about her that may or may not have been attributed to her bad experience.

Bottomline is everybody is emotionally "injured" in some way or another. And if you arent well..live longer. U will be. It makes some people better, some people stronger, some people weaker, some people bitter. But avoiding the "injured" is futile. Nobody goes to the grave unscathed. Nobody. May as well go on ahead and hit dat bruh. The next bitch gone be crazy as hell too.

 

[bignorm73]

He was inadvertently simping Let that man work.

Anyway, a person's negative experiences can actually be part of what makes them what/who they are and without those experiences you may not even like them anymore because their personality would be different.

I was with a girl that was molested and she was a FREAK x 12. HOWEVER, there were other things that I didnt like about her that may or may not have been attributed to her bad experience.

Bottomline is everybody is emotionally "injured" in some way or another. And if you arent well..live longer. U will be. It makes some people better, some people stronger, some people weaker, some people bitter. But avoiding the "injured" is futile. Nobody goes to the grave unscathed. Nobody. May as well go on ahead and hit dat bruh. The next bitch gone be crazy as hell too.

Nah. my simping is usually vertant. lol. I handle that via pm.

 

[mryounggun]

Takes a different kind of nigga to deal with the shit that emotionally broken women bring to the table. I did that shit before. I'll definitely do my best to never get involved with a woman like that again.

 

[Coby Vibes]

broken people are like vampires, they will drain you emotionally. direct them to get counseling. you will spend the entire relationship counseling them and not having a relationship. they need to fix themselves up before they get involved.

emotionally high maintenance are the worst people to be involved with. the relationship is guaranteed to fail

 

[mryounggun]

Nah.

And he hasn't spoken to me since.

Just like before.

Exactly why you were right not to co-sign his shit. See how a nigga treat you when you can't do shit for them, then you see what's real.

 

[CashMeOutKing]

Just pay yo CP and Get weekend visits for your kid and move on..

Niggahs stressin slowly killin them selves over a few hundo to a triffin bitch!

 

[Madbeats]

Depends on who is broken. If someone close to me needs help, I try to help no doubt.

 

[bignorm73]

broken people are like vampires, they will drain you emotionally. direct them to get counseling. you will spend the entire relationship counseling them and not having a relationship. they need to fix themselves up before they get involved.

emotionally high maintenance are the worst people to be involved with. the relationship is guaranteed to fail

That's real as hell.

 

[Kairo]

Just about every woman i've been serious with has been broken. That probably says something about me, but on topic, I look at it 2 different ways:

1) If they've opened up enough to you and let you get close enough to really care for them then there is hope for it working out. There's going to be walls yall hit tho, especially when it comes to mistakes you might make that remind you of "that/those person(s)". If you've discovered enough about that person that you can still accept them and find them to be compatible, try and make it work.

2) If they use their past experiences as a shield and never let it down but show "glimpses" of being a good person, you have to play it by ear. The females i've know that do this use their past not just as a shield, but as a weapon. If they haven't come to terms with their past and are atleast working to forge ahead, you really think they can start something new with you? A lot of folks just bring their past up as leverage and you shouldn't waste your time. Relationships are a game to them and if they've seen the worst and adapted to it, they are gonna play the "game" with skill while your just trying to be in their life.