American.Loo
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How does Mikko's sonning of dudes play into this thread?
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.................................................................................American.Loo;3754008 said:How does Mikko's sonning of dudes play into this thread?
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If you care enough about that person, you are willing to do what it takes to fix the damage that has been done. The thing about that is, they have to be open and willing to accept your love and attention. Some people like to feel like a victim, and have an excuse as to why they don't want to do something, or be something. Some folks have that barrier up, and is content with the bitterness that comes with that. You can only love and hold out hope for so long, before you realize that even though this person may have great qualities, they don't have that motivation or zest for life.
You can be with a broken person, but that person has to have it in them to want to be fixed.
You can be with a broken person, but that person has to have it in them to want to be fixed.
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ms.jones;3754016 said:If you care enough about that person, you are willing to do what it takes to fix the damage that has been done. The thing about that is, they have to be open and willing to accept your love and attention. Some people like to feel like a victim, and have an excuse as to why they don't want to do something, or be something. Some folks have that barrier up, and is content with the bitterness that comes with that. You can only love and hold out hope for so long, before you realize that even though this person may have great qualities, they don't have that motivation or zest for life.
You can be with a broken person, but that person has to have it in them to want to be fixed.
cosign this powerful thread
Ive been in relationships with women who are emotionally broken, depending on the severity determined how the relationship would work
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American.Loo;3754008 said:How does Mikko's sonning of dudes play into this thread?
forget that
did you give lil homie that co sign on the loan ?
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American.Loo;3754008 said:How does Mikko's sonning of dudes play into this thread?
because niggas was maaaaaaaaaaaad emotional in there, and she picked up on it.
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American.Loo
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rap doctor;3754042 said:forget that
did you give lil homie that co sign on the loan ?
Nah.
And he hasn't spoken to me since.
Just like before.
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Tell you wife to talk to somebody about her father for real if it still bothers her that much 15 years later. At times i start crying and shit when i start thinking about my moms who passed 18 months ago. But I can talk about it and bring it up and think of the good times.
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American.Loo;3754090 said:Nah.
And he hasn't spoken to me since.
Just like before.
lol you a cold dude
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American.Loo
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rap doctor;3754119 said:lol you a cold dude
Not at all.
I co-signed for my other brothers apartment, no questions asked.
I have another brother on my mom's side thats coming to live with me in May.
It was the principle.
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American.Loo;3754128 said:Not at all.
I co-signed for my other brothers apartment, no questions asked.
I have another brother on my mom's side thats coming to live with me in May.
It was the principle.
definitely understand that
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Go figure...
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ms.jones;3754016 said:If you care enough about that person, you are willing to do what it takes to fix the damage that has been done. The thing about that is, they have to be open and willing to accept your love and attention. Some people like to feel like a victim, and have an excuse as to why they don't want to do something, or be something. Some folks have that barrier up, and is content with the bitterness that comes with that. You can only love and hold out hope for so long, before you realize that even though this person may have great qualities, they don't have that motivation or zest for life.
You can be with a broken person, but that person has to have it in them to want to be fixed.
great post....exactly what i was thinkin.
if u love em give em ur best to help, but the bottom line is they gotta be willing to do it themselves.
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bignorm73;3754045 said:because niggas was maaaaaaaaaaaad emotional in there, and she picked up on it.
That shit was funny....damn thread exploded because of these niggas homotions.
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Was your wife molested or abused by her father norman?
I know I have man issues but I don't think they're that serious.
As for dealing with broken people, I think Ms Jones summed it up. You can have the best intentions in the world but if they're unwilling you won't be able to get in..and that can be tiring.
I know I have man issues but I don't think they're that serious.
As for dealing with broken people, I think Ms Jones summed it up. You can have the best intentions in the world but if they're unwilling you won't be able to get in..and that can be tiring.
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chicitylepio;3754825 said:I'm a need a list of sonned posters cause I laughed after OP and KIM.....................
Man it's like 9 pages of homotions. I'm bored, but not that bored.
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leftcoastkev
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Leave them along until they mature in life.
If a person is not happy with themselves then I can never be fully happy with them either.
And if I "bring them" happiness by me being me, but they are not happy to be alone with themselves, in time, I'll just get sick of their presence because in my experience they'll become needy and insecure. I don't wanna hear all of their draining a** convo about how f***d up their life is. Just like they don't wanna hear me tell them how to fix it, because a lot of time they're just too lazy or stubborn to put in the work to (or accept what they can't change, let it go, and move on). Giving advice just makes them feel even worse and takes you out of your good mood dealing with them. A lose / lose all bad all around situation.
If a person is not happy with themselves then I can never be fully happy with them either.
And if I "bring them" happiness by me being me, but they are not happy to be alone with themselves, in time, I'll just get sick of their presence because in my experience they'll become needy and insecure. I don't wanna hear all of their draining a** convo about how f***d up their life is. Just like they don't wanna hear me tell them how to fix it, because a lot of time they're just too lazy or stubborn to put in the work to (or accept what they can't change, let it go, and move on). Giving advice just makes them feel even worse and takes you out of your good mood dealing with them. A lose / lose all bad all around situation.
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kat2180;3754786 said:Was your wife molested or abused by her father norman?
I know I have man issues but I don't think they're that serious.
As for dealing with broken people, I think Ms Jones summed it up. You can have the best intentions in the world but if they're unwilling you won't be able to get in..and that can be tiring.
No, Kathryn. Not that i know of. More like she was a daddy's girl, and they were estranged when he suddenly died.
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Niggersauce
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leftcoastkev;3755802 said:Leave them along until they mature in life.
If a person is not happy with themselves then I can never be fully happy with them either.
And if I "bring them" happiness by me being me, but they are not happy to be alone with themselves, in time, I'll just get sick of their presence because in my experience they'll become needy and insecure. I don't wanna hear all of their draining a** convo about how f***d up their life is. Just like they don't wanna hear me tell them how to fix it, because a lot of time they're just too lazy or stubborn to put in the work to (or accept what they can't change, let it go, and move on). Giving advice just makes them feel even worse and takes you out of your good mood dealing with them. A lose / lose all bad all around situation.
This post describes my wife perfectly...
I know i cant live like this much longer, bout to chalk it up.....lessons learned, life goes on.
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Cabana_Da_Don
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Move on.The best thing you can do.We are not all in the same level of racionality.
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