Ayo: One some grown, sh** -- How would you handle this?

[American.Loo]

I'm just saying..Loo has no real connection or relationship with this guy so I can easily see him putting the loans on the back burner should it comes down to it. What's he got to lose? A relationship with his brother?

Exactly. If he says "eff the loans" it aint like me being mad will ruin our deep, nonexistent bond.

 

[Paul Hate.]

That's the point.

I don't think he truly consider me a brother.

But now that he needs something, I'm a brother.

That's not blood, that's not loyalty, thats a means to an end.

Its whatever,idk..im a real nugga.Even if he wouldnt do it for me,i woulda signed...

 

[American.Loo]

Its whatever,idk..im a real nugga.Even if he wouldnt do it for me,i woulda signed...

Here we go.

Thank you, nigga.

 

[kat2180]

Paul sounds like a sucker with bad credit already.

 

[Paul Hate.]

well if u dont consider the dude a part of the fam like that, then fuck him...

^Thats his brother though,man.And hes a youngling..this is some fucked up shit ive been reading in this thread..

 

[Paul Hate.]

Paul sounds like a sucker with bad credit already.

Nah,just somebody thats looks out for fam regardless of whatever.You read that message?lol..

 

[kat2180]

Yes and you're not the first person to ask...I'm not getting involved with that.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

alot of yall dont understand credit if yall say credit over blood.....so if his lil brother that doesnt call or reach out just to say hi fukks up his credit...guess what...he wont feel obligated to reach out an call to say i cant pay the bill. and the person with the fukked up credit cant get a house because it kept it real with someone that dont fukk with him like that.

homie....if yall was working on a relationship then i'd say continue to feel him out....but this is coming from someone that has nothing but leeches in his family....say no

 

[Paul Hate.]

Yes and you're not the first person to ask...I'm not getting involved with that.

^lol whatever...it aint like they wouldnt do it to you..

 

[Paul Hate.]

smh i look out for fam,idk how people can think any other way.If i got it nugga and you need it..then here.

 

[Paul Hate.]

I feel that, but if u know for a fact that your blood is on Fredo Corleone status u cant take that hit...

Dont matter thats his brother..dog.T/S on that faggot "im organized" white boy shit..fuck he thinking?He needs to ante up and help the lil homie.Thats his brother.Kin for real..

 

[Plop Star]

Me and my brothas and sisters hardly ever talk on the phone........

but a couple years ago when i was hot as shit and the police kicked my door down, my brotha let me stay with him for a month

Just a couple months ago i paid my brotha rent and didnt askto be payed back

I paid for my sisters books her first semester

i dont give a damn if i aint talked to them in years.......... if they need something and i got it.........its theirs

the only way i wuldnt give em anything is if they was crackheads or something

 

[thekillingjoke]

So he never talks to you and all of a sudden he wants you to co-sign on some loans? Sounds suspect to me. Why didn't he go through his parents? Maybe they know something you don't. While I would applaud him for trying to better his life, I wouldn't do it on your expense. I had a similar situation where a sibling asked me to co-sign on a loan for a car, although she didn't even have a job or no other way to pay it except through her boyfriend. And did she pay her car note like she needed to? Fuck no, it wound up getting repossessed and screwed my credit up. So I would say no. Money and blood do not mix.

 

[Paul Hate.]

Me and my brothas and sisters hardly ever talk on the phone........

but a couple years ago when i was hot as shit and the police kicked my door down, my brotha let me stay with him for a month

Just a couple months ago i paid my brotha rent and didnt askto be payed back

I paid for my sisters books her first semester

i dont give a damn if i aint talked to them in years.......... if they need something and i got it.........its theirs

the only way i wuldnt give em anything is if they was crackheads or something

^Exactly,we real nuggas thats why..

 

[American.Loo]

smh i look out for fam,idk how people can think any other way.If i got it nugga and you need it..then here.

...and when the debt isn't repaid and your credit is ruined

at least you can always say

"I'm a real nigga"

 

[American.Loo]

LOL I don't feel compelled to make a list of things I've done for my family on here.

Obviously, I've looked out for famin the past, or he wouldnt think to approach me.

The reason for my reluctance was stated in the opening post.

 

[Paul Hate.]

...and when the debt isn't repaid and your credit is ruined

at least you can always say

"I'm a real nigga"

Blood over money,son..Hes sounds like a little nugga obviously dont nobody wanna sign for him..But idk about u i know where your mindframe is at..(bitch nugga shit).

 

[American.Loo]

Blood over money,son..Hes sounds like a little nugga obviously dont nobody wanna sign for him..But idk about u i know where your mindframe is at..(bitch nugga shit).

Thank you.

Your contribution in this thread will be considered during my decision making process.

 

[Plop Star]

LOL I don't feel compelled to make a list of things I've done for my family on here.

Obviously, I've looked out for famin the past, or he wouldnt think to approach me.

The reason for my reluctance was stated in the opening post.

those were just examples............family helps family

if he cant depend on family who else can he depend on.............and its for school, its not like he fuckin up

 

[kahhh-pri]

Mmmmm I wouldnt do it. Maybe you can help him get some scholarships or something like that.