At what age should you take the chip off ur shoulder?

[unRealLady1]

what it is it's too many blind people talking about what they see. This creates anger, because blind people can't see. Therefore they can't lead the way.

you can't just say anything to anybody and expect them to just shut up because you said it. You have to watch what u say to people. Out of your mouth comes life and death, and alot of people are cursing others. When u speak things thats not true about people, thats what u are doing cursing.

if you can't see u should just listen.

 

[Knives Amilli]

Reallly man its just part of growing up to me.

Alot of anger and frustration as a kid was based out of what I felt was not being in control. Whenever I wasn't in "control" of a situation, id flip the fuck out and be all worried about stupid shit.

But as i've gotten older, shit just doesn't get to me anymore. If I know im doing my all and i've done everything within *my* power, fuck it, there's no reason to get riled up (this is a great attitude to have within my job because i'm a supervisor in a hectic ass job and its what keeps me sane most nights).

But as i've gotten older....when shit actually DOES get to me, I flip the fuck out. Mostly because shit that actually does get to me is on some disrespectful shit and that won't fly with me, at all.

 

[unRealLady1]

what creates the hood mentality. Is there are people who do not understand recognize or know where others are coming from. This create anger, because people do not know what others have to deal with in their life, but they want to put this american dream expection on them. Everyone suppose to be perfect. Alot of people do not relate to what others have to deal with. Some people ride is a lil easier, and these people like to make it difficult for people who already have it difficult.

throw my experiences I realize that it's some people who lives were so easy, they think people are faking like they have/had a tough life. They think it's a pretend act. They can't find out whats wrong with others, so they think it's low self esteem. Or they get aggroant and think they are smarter because they don't have obligations that other people have.

I was tired of being compared to girls that grew up differently than me. I was a good outcome out of bad situations. Alot of people I grew up with didnt make it this far, in their right mind. The streets turned out alot of people. I get tired of people who think I grew up like waltons, who judge me because I been thru some hood shit. They like to point the finger at me, thats why I keep talking about how I grew up.

I realize it's more ignorant people that grew up outside of the hood than in the hood. & it's a lot of people who get out of their hood situation, that judge people who were in their same shoes. Instead of thanking god they had a better opportunity, they want to look down on what someonelse is going thru.

 

[In Your Moms Room]

Never. Michael Jordan always had one, and still does. It worked out really well for him. It's great motivation. Prove people wrong type shit.

 

[G Mack]

Lol I actually have to cosign real lady on this...she dropped some gems

 

[1of1]

Real Lady walks with a boulder on her shoulder.

This thread touched a nerve. She's even shaming the aggroant people amongst us.

 

[unRealLady1]

Real Lady walks with a boulder on her shoulder.

This thread touched a nerve. She's even shaming the aggroant people amongst us.

Im actually pretty easy to get along with. It's that people have gotten me mixed up with people who come from the other side of the tracks. I have a mother and a father who can explain why Iam from the streets. Some people get upset about it. I don't understand the beef...

I'm a really nice person, but I don't let people take advantage of me. Some people think I'm so nice they are going to run over top of me, but then they realize I got another side.

 

[unRealLady1]

u know I'm the type of person if people see me chillin they think I'm going down. They really think I live to impress people. O.k they never knew a side of me..thats what they should say. Because I'm actually the same identical way I've always been.

when people start competing thats what I do lay low. I let them play their hand first. it's called tatic. see very competitive people get used up quick. I know when to chill, some people like to play themselves until they are washed up in life.

I sit back and let them be the fools, because they are going to realize it was just a moment in time. not a legacy.

 

[1of1]

Real Lady1 Sun Tzu'in the fuck outta niggas out here. I'll continue to log in to read Real Lady's posts.

Tag all your posts at the end with @mostvigorousone so I don't have to search for them.

 

[Bookworm]

real lady be dropping some gems if you don't get lost in the rambling

 

[SlickestR]

i wonder how Real Lady communicates in real life...

 

[heyslick]

IMO - Y do people who think they're so cool have to boast about it? doesn't ones actions speak louder than ones so-called words about HOW COOL they be?