At what age should you take the chip off ur shoulder?

[randomStalker2]

as i grew older, i found better ways to exact my revenge

GIFSoup

 

[SlickestR]

i think that if you have a lot of anger as an adult stemming from childhood, you haven't resolved what or who is making you angry. It's best that you need to resolve whatever that's making you angry, because issues tend to manifest into bigger issues when they're not dealt with, especially when it deals with things that happened in childhood.

it's best to tackle whatever that's making you angry, so you can ultimately lift that resentment/anger of your shoulders, so to speak. Some of those type of niggas end up fucking up their life through drugs, prison, suicide or having a mental breakdown when they don't resolve those issues of anger.

i don't think it's immaturity, unless if you refuse to handle the situation properly. forgiving yourself and others will make yourself free of that anger as well, as starting to let the issues go.

 

[FroHawke]

I think it depends if you're the kind of cat who lets things get to you and stick or you're just the kind of go-with-it kind of personality.

In any case, I've found that getting older does lessen a bit of the edge, because really, it's to your detriment if you're still angry or indignant to others who may not deserve it at that moment.

I think having a chip on your shoulder in the sense of using it as motivation to succeed in life is a good thing, however.

Interesting topic starter mate.

 

[leftcoastkev]

At age 17, I just stopped giving a fuck in general. I only look at today and toward tomorrow. Whatever happened yesterday goes under fuck it status. Already happened. Time moves forward, make the best of it starting from right now, no matter what happened, why look behind? Doesn't matter as long as you learned lessons or dismissed it.

 

[Will Munny]

Whenever feel like you wanna stop actin emotional and bitchmade.

 

[jay83]

The problem with grudges is that it constantly eats your soul. You cant really focus, and the person you holding it against may not even be thinking about you at all. So thats alot of energy being spent on someone or things that really arent even thinking about you. I cant see myself getting sick because of my resentment towards somebody who did me wrong. even if they deserve the hate, holding grudges will make you bitter, and enjoy life a little less. Either confront whatever is bothering you or just let it go. but make a decision.

 

[Rozetta5tone]

Will Munny summed it up..

only bitches deal with emotions..

 

[J. Will]

At age 17, I just stopped giving a fuck in general. I only look at today and toward tomorrow. Whatever happened yesterday goes under fuck it status. Already happened. Time moves forward, make the best of it starting from right now, no matter what happened, why look behind? Doesn't matter as long as you learned lessons or dismissed it.

This...but I was bout 15

 

[Bully_Pulpit]

so where does this anger stem from?

 

[fiat_money]

Real niggas never have chips on their shoulders in the first place.

 

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

Real niggas never have chips on their shoulders in the first place.

real niggas?

 

[haute]

Once you start paying your own bills, you shouldn't even dedicate the time to scapegoat someone

You should be dedicating time to

1. Fucking bitches

2. Getting money

 

[HafBayked]

had to goat haute.....

im a work in progress.....i've come to the conclusion that every time I get mad, i lose in some way......i still have my days but i just control it better

 

[fiat_money]

Real niggas never have chips on their shoulders in the first place.

real niggas?

Real niggas.

 

[Rozetta5tone]

Lmao @ fiat with the Toby drop

 

[The Prodigalson]

Once you start paying your own bills, you shouldn't even dedicate the time to scapegoat someone

You should be dedicating time to

1. Fucking bitches

2. Getting money

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[Allah_U_Akbar]

Real niggas never have chips on their shoulders in the first place.

Real niggas never have chips on their shoulders in the first place.

real niggas?

Real niggas never have chips on their shoulders in the first place.

real niggas?

Real niggas.

 

[its....JOHN B]

Depending on your problems it will only get worse as you get older, money plays a roll in my problems as it does most problems, somedays I feel like i'm not making enough and somedays I count my blessings, and if you have a job that you dont want to be at and your not making the money you want to be making, thats when your well on your way to anger management

 

[unRealLady1]

some of ya'll just had better lives than you thought. You don't understand why some people are angry. The only thing most ppl are angry about is someone that look better or has more. u assume thats what everyone is angry about. most ppl never had real problems in this country...thats why there are some thats misunderstood.

keep calling a female a whore that is not a whore can make a woman very angry. u can't make anyone a whore. A whore is something some women choose to be. It's a choice ppl make..everyone do not make the same choice.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

I'm not even sure that many of y'all even know what y'all are talking about...

what motivates u shouldn't matter as much as the fact that you're motivated...

real niggas use "the chip on their shoulder" to motivate them to achieve greatness...