Asking for a friend

[JoshuaMoshua]

Lol I know who this about..

Really my nigga? You gonna pull this after you been begging to know when ic doomsday was coming......

 

[Dupac]

 

[Beta]

Lol I know who this about..

Really my nigga? You gonna pull this after you been begging to know when ic doomsday was coming......

Lol well only out of respect. I feel like it's not my place to do that

#maturebeta

 

[SolemnSauce]

Du-guys don't make this weird

iC

 

[SolemnSauce]

Ima ask a mod to lock this and not let this go down.

Respectfully

 

[Dupac]

Hey guys,

What would you do if a friend of yours hit you up about an internet stalker who wouldn't leave her alone??

How would you guys handle that??

Asking for a friend btw

Lol

First, let's determine whether or not actual......."stalking"..........is taking place.

In order to determine that, we need to find out what this............"friend's"............"alleged stalker"................is actually doing.

Basically, just because this friend is annoyed ..........it doesn't mean that they're being "stalked."

So please, give us more details so that we can determine whether or not these are legitimate concerns.

Very valid points.....

In a total hypothetical...

What would constitute "stalking"??

Like if the chick is bothered.....tells dude multiple times to cease communication....yet he still dropping paragraph after paragraph explaining himself and professing his love....

What would that be considered...?

It depends on the type of communication.

Meaning, is it taking place in public in full view of the board............or is it taking place in private in the form of pm's, dm's, text messages, voicemail, etc?

If it's simply a message board thing, then.....like @AZTG said........they just need to block the person and keep it moving.

However, if the person is making direct contact.........unless they're threatening to harm them in any way..........I'm not sure if that constitutes stalking.

At least in terms of dm's, pm's, texts, etc.

Now, if this person is making direct physical contact by showing up at their workplace or place of residence..........then they may have legal grounds to file a restraining order or some other legal action.

Were these 2 people ever in any kind of a relationship?

Naw just a simp situation that got way too deep. Chick tried to explain to dude they not really friends and to leave her alone.

But the dude can't handle the rejection.

He keeps trying to figure out where he went wrong and profess his love towards her..yet she just wants him to leave her alone....

I mean...If I had to make up something....This would be a close enough scenario. .

My advice would be to block dude on all media and keep the screenshots on deck just in case he persists....

I would even suggest sending those screenshots to several folk just in case....

I mean....If this was a real life situation.

I appreciate your feed back...This has been most helpful

If these two people are on the IC, I think I know who you're talking about.

Not gonna put him on blast, but it seems as if this individual has a pattern.

I have no idea of what which you speak...

Care to enlighten us ?????

Nah, I did that before.........and hilarity ensued.

Plus, I'm cool with this individual now.........and he seems like a good dude, so I'm gonna leave it alone.

I will say this though.

If it was a simping situation, and the young lady in question was benefiting financially from this simping.........then it's not right to cry foul just because things aren't going your way and the situation became inconvenient.

I honestly saw this shit coming when it first manifested and couldn't understand how this young lady would entertain this gentleman considering his history.

However, as time went on.........it seemed to be a genuine friendship so I thought I may have been wrong about the situation.

Not my business either way, so.........if she doesn't have a problem with it.......who am I to judge.

But again, you can't just be cool with someone........cut them off out of the blue.......and then not expect that person to question what happened.

Unless he did something that crossed the line, it's not cool to treat people like that.

All extremely valid points that I also would point out if asked about certain situation.

However my advice tends to be a bit more abrasive, considering the history of assumed individual.

Like the way your described it almost made it sound habitual....Like a sickness.....

But that's just speculation.....

This is amazing insight though.....any further you'd like to add.

Call me crazy, but I feel like you dropping some gems.to those in need of it

 

[Dupac]

Does this friend realize Du isn't a mod anymore?

Considering I'm now free to start shit whenever I please, with absolutely no representation of or protected interest of the board/site in consideration what so ever

 

[Beta]

Yep...deadeye dropping gems alright...

 

[deadeye]

Hey guys,

What would you do if a friend of yours hit you up about an internet stalker who wouldn't leave her alone??

How would you guys handle that??

Asking for a friend btw

Lol

First, let's determine whether or not actual......."stalking"..........is taking place.

In order to determine that, we need to find out what this............"friend's"............"alleged stalker"................is actually doing.

Basically, just because this friend is annoyed ..........it doesn't mean that they're being "stalked."

So please, give us more details so that we can determine whether or not these are legitimate concerns.

Very valid points.....

In a total hypothetical...

What would constitute "stalking"??

Like if the chick is bothered.....tells dude multiple times to cease communication....yet he still dropping paragraph after paragraph explaining himself and professing his love....

What would that be considered...?

It depends on the type of communication.

Meaning, is it taking place in public in full view of the board............or is it taking place in private in the form of pm's, dm's, text messages, voicemail, etc?

If it's simply a message board thing, then.....like @AZTG said........they just need to block the person and keep it moving.

However, if the person is making direct contact.........unless they're threatening to harm them in any way..........I'm not sure if that constitutes stalking.

At least in terms of dm's, pm's, texts, etc.

Now, if this person is making direct physical contact by showing up at their workplace or place of residence..........then they may have legal grounds to file a restraining order or some other legal action.

Were these 2 people ever in any kind of a relationship?

Naw just a simp situation that got way too deep. Chick tried to explain to dude they not really friends and to leave her alone.

But the dude can't handle the rejection.

He keeps trying to figure out where he went wrong and profess his love towards her..yet she just wants him to leave her alone....

I mean...If I had to make up something....This would be a close enough scenario. .

My advice would be to block dude on all media and keep the screenshots on deck just in case he persists....

I would even suggest sending those screenshots to several folk just in case....

I mean....If this was a real life situation.

I appreciate your feed back...This has been most helpful

If these two people are on the IC, I think I know who you're talking about.

Not gonna put him on blast, but it seems as if this individual has a pattern.

I have no idea of what which you speak...

Care to enlighten us ?????

Nah, I did that before.........and hilarity ensued.

Plus, I'm cool with this individual now.........and he seems like a good dude, so I'm gonna leave it alone.

I will say this though.

If it was a simping situation, and the young lady in question was benefiting financially from this simping.........then it's not right to cry foul just because things aren't going your way and the situation became inconvenient.

I honestly saw this shit coming when it first manifested and couldn't understand how this young lady would entertain this gentleman considering his history.

However, as time went on.........it seemed to be a genuine friendship so I thought I may have been wrong about the situation.

Not my business either way, so.........if she doesn't have a problem with it.......who am I to judge.

But again, you can't just be cool with someone........cut them off out of the blue.......and then not expect that person to question what happened.

Unless he did something that crossed the line, it's not cool to treat people like that.

All extremely valid points that I also would point out if asked about certain situation.

However my advice tends to be a bit more abrasive, considering the history of assumed individual.

Like the way your described it almost made it sound habitual....Like a sickness.....

But that's just speculation.....

This is amazing insight though.....any further you'd like to add.

Call me crazy, but I feel like you dropping some gems.to those in need of it

Don't really have too much more to say about it.

Other than, I wouldn't necessarily say dude has a sickness...........just that, knowing how he is, she should've never allowed it to get that far to begin with.

That is, assuming she really knew the full extent of his history.

There's definitely something missing from the story though.

And, from my experience, some women do have a tendency to leave out certain details that may paint them in a bad light.

Something triggered this.

Something was said or done that led to an argument and/or a turning point that there's no coming back from.

IDK, maybe her man found out about this "friendship" and it jeopardized her real-life situation with him.

Only thing I have left now are a few obligatory references to The Wire:

 

[Idiopathic Joker]

Does this friend realize Du isn't a mod anymore?

Considering I'm now free to start shit whenever I please, with absolutely no representation of or protected interest of the board/site in consideration what so ever

I see ya

 

[Dupac]

Yea,,I think regardless of how we got here,

We here....

The thing that would make the most sense in a situation like this would be for dude to fall back.....

 

[deadeye]

Yea,,I think regardless of how we got here,

We here....

The thing that would make the most sense in a situation like this would be for dude to fall back.....

Related video:

 

[Beta]

Yea,,I think regardless of how we got here,

We here....

The thing that would make the most sense in a situation like this would be for dude to fall back.....

Well I hope your friend isn't too upset over things. Maybe she just was so nice over time that it actually came back to bite her a bit. Which she shouldn't feel TOO guilty about. And the guy maybe just got TOO comfortable. Tell your friend to take it easy, hopefully the guy takes the hint and leaves her alone

 

[Dupac]

Yea, if there was only a place she could go online,, where guys like that aren't welcome under any circumstances...

I mean you guys are cool...

But a guy like that.....I'd be willing to bet he'd get skull crushed at the door....

 

[PureYang]

Sounds like Khaleesi still on ur ass yo

Thank God for Irma

LMAO... real talk when I had seen the news about Irma hitting MIA it had a nigga lookin like

 

[Idiopathic Joker]

So... no names?

 

[iron man1]

Yea, if there was only a place she could go online,, where guys like that aren't welcome under any circumstances...

I mean you guys are cool...

But a guy like that.....I'd be willing to bet he'd get skull crushed at the door....

 

[Dupac]

So... no names?

Mods shouldn't be instigating

 

[Idiopathic Joker]

So... no names?

Mods shouldn't be instigating

I'm a mod for the people, you fucking know that

 

[Max.]

Uh oh...