Are y'all comfortable with your significant other going to the club and dancing with strangers?

[blackrain]

Shit just went over my head, @2stepz_ahead. Break that shit down for me again. Cuz from where I'm sitting, shit still just sounds like niggas not trusting their woman.

yea....its still the same thing but i think the ease of pull would be more hurtful than just the pull.

thats probably why they dont trust her in the first place because of possibly how easy it was for them to pull her

I get it. But this ain't that. Meaning them other niggas ain't ME. If you got you a real one - and it ain't difficult to tell if you got a real one or not - she got eyes and ears for YOU and them other niggas get that cold shoulder. I dunno, man. Shit just seems like 1+1=2 to me. Niggas is making it more complicated than it gotta be.

Because playing games is how some people think a relationship is supposed to be so the concept of a functional relationship where you don't got to worry about your lady being snatched because a nigga gave her 11 nuggets in her 10 piece is confusing. It's an ego thing for the dude and makes them question themselves. Makes them think they ain't shit because the woman they was with ain't shit

 

[blackrain]

smh...y'all niggas must have made some real questionable choices when it comes to dating. you should be comfortable and be able to trust your partner to not disrespect in public or in private.

lmao

she wanna go to club? bye have fun and don't wake me when u get home im tired.

Funny thing is, that's just the type of environment that's conducive for a woman to run wild behind her man's back.

Don't know whether it's reverse psychology or some kind of social conditioning, but it seems like niggas have been brainwashed into believing that there's something wrong with them if they're not cool with giving their girl free reign to do whatever.

Guess it depends on the type of woman you're with, but some of them might be testing you just to see how much they can get away with......and whether or not you're dumb enough to believe everything she's telling you.

Now, I'm far from a player......but I've been in situations in which I've been with women who were currently in relationships. (I only found out after the fact)

If you've ever been alone with a woman and seen her lie to her man over the phone just as easy as she can breathe..........and act like she's not doing anything wrong..........it'll change your whole perspective.

And I'm not even talking about anything over-the-top like you see in some staged videos where the chick is giving head to one dude and talking to her man on the phone at the same time.

Just casual, but not quite innocent, situations where she's blatantly lying to her man while she's spending time with me.

Seeing something like that will make you wonder whether your own girl is telling you the truth..........or playing you like the other girls you've been with while they were on the phone lying to their dudes.

Main reason why I'll never buy into that "insecure" or "you don't trust your girl enough" bullshit.

All you're doing is setting yourself up to get played.

I don't think anyone is saying to never put anything past anyone...but if you constantly worrying about what someone could do you gonna be worried your whole life.

 

[Peace_79]

Nah I don't agree with this 'type of woman' stuff. There's no type of woman who doesn't cheat, same with men.

Bruh

Ol girl............you know the one I'm talking about...........would be locked in the basement.

Lol. Nah - that's no way for a woman to live her life.

Don't matter if it's in the club or the grocery store, a bad one is gonna have cats checking for her.

Instead of spending so much effort establishing control over an invariable number of situations that your woman may find herself; why not spend that effort establishing trust... with your woman ...

Rendering the situation inconsequential.