Anyone ever been on a date with someone you're not interested in?

[-Vincenzo-]

How is that being a gold digger?? I mean, if a dude wants to take me out, I don't have to necessarily be interested just to go

Niggas dont take me to POPEYES for a date but yea ok

popeyes, subway, papa john's doesn't matter...you shouldn't spend your night with someone just to get a 10-20$ meal. 3 hours with a person you are not interested in for that price is not a good deal, period.

 

[MissLeading]

Sure you do... you have a hole in your heart and there's also the the whole "v" thing. I could cure one of those but in the process the other one might kill you

Maybe it's just not meant to be.

Why would any those matter on a pity date? Lol

 

[Pond Scum]

Why would any those matter on a pity date? Lol

Because unlike some selfish people I offer the option of a pity fuck at the end of my pity dates.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

Like a pity date? You know you're not interested in them romantically but you go out with them because you know they really like you and you don't want to hurt their feelings? Or maybe you just want free food?

Anyone ever been the recipient of a pity date?

How did it go?

Great example and how fake and stupid females are, you see why IC dudes shit on women. Lol.

 

[MissLeading]

Great example and how fake and stupid females are, you see why IC dudes shit on women. Lol.

How is that fake and stupid? Have you read through the thread? It wasn't only women admitting to doing it.

 

[MissLeading]

Because unlike some selfish people I offer the option of a pity fuck at the end of my pity dates.

Lol.. Yeah it wouldn't work between us. I would never subject myself to a pity fuck. It just seems awkward.

 

[blakfyahking]

this thread is some real superficial shit

ya'll justify why dudes stay hard on hoez

 

[MissLeading]

this thread is some real superficial shit

ya'll justify why dudes stay hard on hoez

How?........

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

How is that fake and stupid? Have you read through the thread? It wasn't only women admitting to doing it.

Lol. You right, I haven't read whole thread but my thing is if I'm not interested in you, I won't fuck with you at all and I don't feel sorry that I don't like you. By being with a person you don't like shows you're a user (which why people don't spend on those who they are feeling) plus gives that person the idea you are interested.

this thread is some real superficial shit

ya'll justify why dudes stay hard on hoez

My point exactly.

 

[blakfyahking]

How?........

you really need an explanation?

you really think it's cool?

 

[BelovedAfeni]

nah

why bother

and no dates in 2011

 

[MissLeading]

you really need an explanation?

you really think it's cool?

No but you're telling you've never done something you didn't want to do just to be nice to someone else?

Lol. You right, I haven't read whole thread but my thing is if I'm not interested in you, I won't fuck with you at all and I don't feel sorry that I don't like you. By being with a person you don't like shows you're a user (which why people don't spend on those who they are feeling) plus gives that person the idea you are interested.

My point exactly.

I guess but that wasn't my intention.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

No but it was just a question.

I guess but that wasn't my intentions...

What's your intentions then huh?

 

[Bwoahmizzee]

only if I gotta be there like one of my homeboys is goin out but his chick is bringin her girl or some shit like that

I'll take one for the team every once in a while

aside from that I'm not goin on a date If I don't like you like that

 

[blakfyahking]

ML you justifying why I never dated often while slaying these leeching chicks

during my days running around as a young Thundercat haha

time is money.............and you willing to let a nigga waste both on you, and you don't see a problem with it SMH

 

[MissLeading]

ML you justifying why I never dated often while slaying these leeching chicks

during my days running around as a young Thundercat haha

time is money.............and you willing to let a nigga waste both on you, and you don't see a problem with it SMH

Actually we're not wasting time nor money because we're hanging out as friends, doing something we both already wanted to do and not doing anything that requires a lot of money. I would never let a guy I wasn't interested in spend money and waste his time on me thinking I was interested. I told him from the beginning I just wanted to be friends and he still suggested hanging out.

 

[Westie]

What's your intentions then huh?

With women it's not about ill intentions, it's mainly about us being under the misguided idea that we shouldn't hurt someone's feelings who might like us. Of course, there are gold diggers, but going on a pity date is more along the lines of not wanting to feel bad for saying no.

 

[MissLeading]

What's your intentions then huh?

Since the topic related to an experience I'm currently going through I just wanted to see if others had any good outcomes from it. I'm not dating the guy, he's not spending money on me and I already told him I wasn't interested in anything more but he was being persistent and asked if I would hang out with him and I said "ok". Im not trying to use him but I don't want to not be his friend.

 

[1of1]

I wonder if this cracka missleading is hanging out with obtained a proof vid.

 

[MissLeading]

I wonder if this cracka missleading is hanging out with obtained a proof vid.

He didn't need one. You'll get your proof vid when my laptop is fixed.