Anyone ever been on a date with someone you're not interested in?

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6ft5;3470983 said:
i got asked to go on a double date in the past i really didn't enjoy myself call me shallow but if i'm not attracted to you i'm not interested in conversing with you in a date setting.....

My boys realized i'm not a good wingman cus i'm not trying to take one for the team.

i betyou was lookin at her ass just like how you lookin at in yo avi.. The whole dam time! Didnt even blink.hahah
 
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mindstarter;3471488 said:
i just had to mention that i did end up being stalked by one dude. This guy kept asking me out and finally i went out with him. He spent a lot of money, and even refused when i offered to go dutch. The third time we went out, at the end of the date we were sitting in my car & dude tried to kiss me and i wasnt having it..he tried to force himself on me, good thing we were in public or else he probably would've tried to rape me. I yelled at him to get out and he started to apologize and gave me money, i refused the money but he left it on my car seat. After that he kept calling me and following me around school..and i ended up transfering to another college partly because of him.

how much money?
 
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PUPU_IZ_DRO;3471529 said:
i betyou was lookin at her ass just like how you lookin at in yo avi.. The whole dam time! Didnt even blink.hahah

LMAO!! I was thought the same thing.
 
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PUPU_IZ_DRO;3471529 said:
i betyou was lookin at her ass just like how you lookin at in yo avi.. The whole dam time! Didnt even blink.hahah

I'm not interested in entertaining no one who I have no interest in and then having to pick up the tab makes it even worse
 
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PUPU_IZ_DRO;3471537 said:
how much money?

I think it was like $60.....I was like why are u giving me money?? He kept shoving it in my hand and I kept giving it bad to me.....it was just a weird situation.....
 
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yeah got scammed into a double date. wasn't feelin the chick at all, and i couldnt fake like i was having a good time. i ended up breaking off for a little while and getting someone elses number then came back to the date. :/
 
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Mindstarter;3471573 said:
I think it was like $60.....I was like why are u giving me money?? He kept shoving it in my hand and I kept giving it bad to me.....it was just a weird situation.....

I meant "giving it back to him"
 
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i never go on dates with a chick til i know its mutual interest....keeps me from gettin played and having to choke a female
 
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but t/s i know plenty of women that will go out with a man just for a free meal.

i'm sure a chick has gotten a free meal out of me before, with no interest of sex or dating.

but it doesnt last long with me, after date 2 i'll kinda of figure out what your angle is.
 
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So basically you're wasting his time.

Don't no nigga wanna be on a pity date. wtf.... unless you plan on giving pity head, then shyt....
 
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6ft5;3471550 said:
I'm not interested in entertaining no one who I have no interest in and then having to pick up the tab makes it even worse

This.

Playing with peoples heads and emotions is not healthy.
 
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Further proves women allow emotions to trump logic, even when it comes to the most basic shyt. She cares about his "feelings" moreso than the time wasted (your time and his). Unless you plan on eventually giving up the snatch, you gon have to break it to him sooner or later. Better sooner before he realize you just been leading him on
 
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American.Loo;3471468 said:
miss leading no man wants a pity date.

some men will take pity sex though.

offer him some pity head, and let the chips fall where they may

Lol. Uh no.

king hassan;3471378 said:
Hell no, why would you go out on a date with a pitiful muthafucka???

He's no pitiful. He's just persistent.

mostvigorousone;3471493 said:
Mis(s)leading people =/= nice. Mis(s)leading people is convenient. Sooner or later you're going to let that person down. A let down now is worth more than a let down later b/c you can invest it @ the current rate and grow. A let down later = wasted time, effort, and money.

I already told him it's better to be friends but some men really thinks that's an open door for more. It makes it hard to let them down without much damage.
 
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Yea I've done this before. I knew she really really liked me and I just figured cuz I don't like her doesn't mean I can't enjoy myself you know? It wasn't bad at all.
 
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American.Loo;3471656 said:
but t/s i know plenty of women that will go out with a man just for a free meal.

i'm sure a chick has gotten a free meal out of me before, with no interest of sex or dating.

but it doesnt last long with me, after date 2 i'll kinda of figure out what your angle is.

Perfect;3471764 said:
Further proves women allow emotions to trump logic, even when it comes to the most basic shyt. She cares about his "feelings" moreso than the time wasted (your time and his). Unless you plan on eventually giving up the snatch, you gon have to break it to him sooner or later. Better sooner before he realize you just been leading him on

I haven't been leading him on. It's not like I'm using him for a free meal. I told him how I felt in the nicest way possible.
 
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MissLeading;3471786 said:
I already told him it's better to be friends but some men really thinks that's an open door for more. It makes it hard to let them down without much damage.

True story, family told me about this girl who was recently in that exact situation. Guy likes girl, girl just wanted to be friends but this guy didn't handle it that well so he murders her and soon after commits suicide himself. I'm just saying. Mind you they were teens but that is besides the point.
 
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MissLeading;3471819 said:
I haven't been leading him on. It's not like I'm using him for a free meal. I told him how I felt in the nicest way possible.

Well as long as yall stress that you 2 are just kickin it, then I guess he just wants to be your friend. Or he has secret motives... Either way, as long as you make it CLEAR, then the blood isn't on your hands.
 
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Conscious__Nkechi;3471830 said:
True story, family told me about this girl who was recently in that exact situation. Guy likes girl, girl just wanted to be friends but this guy didn't handle it that well so he murders her and soon after commits suicide himself. I'm just saying. Mind you they were teens but that is besides the point.

So I shouldn't even be friends with him? He's not a stranger to my family. He's friends with my brother and my sister.
 
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