Anonymity got me being real outchea: I think I'm falling for my best friend...again.

[Idi Amin Dada]

is this male emotion I sense??

tell her how yo fat ass feels ...problem solved nigga

My fat ass? Really? I've never come at you sideways, and the time you choose to you pick some shit that ain't even relevant no more. C'mon, son.

 

[Copper]

lol...look dude either tell her about how u feel or let that shit go...b/c if u dont tell her and u keep feeling sensitive/emotional towards her she gonna get the wrong idea and move on with somebody else I have a feeling u gon be crushed and make a thread about that....

 

[Gooner]

if shes white jus fuck once and stay friends...if shes black save her

 

[G Mack]

22 unanswered.....falcons lawse

 

[thekillingjoke]

We spent all day together yesterday in DC(not out of the ordinary). We were at Taste of DC, and I don't know mane. Just...something. We were there all day and then we made our way to Bethesda for a housewarming party and she met my friends from college. Shit was fun niggas was chillin' and vibin'. People kept asking us all night if we were dating(not out of the ordinary). And we have a mutual best friend who she's known since Pre-K and who I've known as long as I've known her and she was like "treat her right, and you have my permission to marry her." And I was like "Huh? haha, nah." But since the seed got planted I've been thinking about it.

I can't though. We're friends and I care about her more than any chick outside of kin. Cuz if it ended, I'd never talk to her again. So I'd lose a girl and a best friend, and I don't want that mane.

as far as the "again" part. I had a huge crush on her when i first met her in high school but it was unrequited. She pretty much ignored me for like 6 months and then we started being friends again.

I have a similiar situation. I got a female best friend like that, I knew her ever since high school, when she moved from another town. I had a crush on her, but she brushed it off. We stayed in touch over the years, she even stayed at my moms crib while I was away in the Army. She got mad close to my family, she even considers my moms to be her mother. She's the only female that has a matching tattoo with me. Years later, she came out to visit me, one thing lead to another and we wound up having sex. At first I was thinking maybe it would work out, but she had second thoughts about it, so we let it ride. Fast forward years later and we're at a party, both drunk, and next thing I know, we going at it again. The morning after was weird, we talked about it and she felt that although she loved me and considered me to be one of the greatest guys ever, she valued our friendship more than anything and she didn't wanna risk it entering into a relationship. I understood her position (though I didn't necessarily agree) and I backed off. We're still friends strangely and to the outside looking in, someone would be like "Damn, ya'll SHOULD be together". I don't know, maybe it's just one of those things where if circimstances were different, it would be me and her. But I'm just saying, you not the only one.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

You a grown man dog. That best friend shit don't work in the long run unless yall grew up in the sandbox together

thread should've been closed after this

 

[nex gin]

Go for it bruh or regret it years down the road when you see here boo'd and babied up w/ the next man.

 

[wiseoneseekstruth]

We did. We've known each other since freshman year of high school.

Freshman year of high school is NOT, I repeat NOT, growing up in the sandbox.

Skeet her and still just be friends if possible. If not, let her know how you feel. You a grown man, she will either say she feels mutual or tell you to cut that shit out and chill.

Don't know if you don't ask, not like the world will end if you just ask a question.

 

[makaveli03]

so we still becoming best friends with women that are attractive to us in 2011?....My dude, just tell her how you feel, because you either gonna raise your blood pressure, and fuck around and die because you kept that shit in, for a girl you DIDNT FUCK....or you are gonna become a woman in her eyes.....thats how they view a guy thats so close to them ,that wont make a move....A woman with a dick and a beard.....so this is your choice.

 

[Hypernova]

It's difficult avoiding all sexual contact with an attractive girl who you are comfortable with. It's just natural

 

[BelovedAfeni]

no such animal as female friends

 

[BelovedAfeni]

I have a similiar situation. I got a female best friend like that, I knew her ever since high school, when she moved from another town. I had a crush on her, but she brushed it off. We stayed in touch over the years, she even stayed at my moms crib while I was away in the Army. She got mad close to my family, she even considers my moms to be her mother. She's the only female that has a matching tattoo with me. Years later, she came out to visit me, one thing lead to another and we wound up having sex. At first I was thinking maybe it would work out, but she had second thoughts about it, so we let it ride. Fast forward years later and we're at a party, both drunk, and next thing I know, we going at it again. The morning after was weird, we talked about it and she felt that although she loved me and considered me to be one of the greatest guys ever, she valued our friendship more than anything and she didn't wanna risk it entering into a relationship. I understood her position (though I didn't necessarily agree) and I backed off. We're still friends strangely and to the outside looking in, someone would be like "Damn, ya'll SHOULD be together". I don't know, maybe it's just one of those things where if circimstances were different, it would be me and her. But I'm just saying, you not the only one.

never felt these feelings soooo....

 

[King Erauno]

PICS or gtfohwtbs

but real talk..ive got 3 great great great female friends and they all call me their best friend. I've fucked 2 of them. the third one i had/have no interest in sleeping with.

we're all friends tho lol