Westie;c-9916564 said:i ro ny;c-9916554 said:Westie;c-9916533 said:caddo man;c-9916475 said:VIBE;c-9916443 said:MsSouthern;c-9916412 said:I'm pretty sure my son is talking/dating/whatever with 3 different girls who do not know about each other and probably think they are the only one
Soooo It's really none of my business
But
I'm just having a hard time not saying anything to him
I'd sit n talk w my boy. If he's talkin, whatever. But dating, nah. Have more respect than that. Don't do ppl dirty and don't get caught up in bullshit.
First I would do what @Stew said. Let him get caught. You learn more from getting burned then anything else.
Then I would hit him with the best line since "It's me not you."
"I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend." That line is gold standard.
1. I am not lying to you.
2. I am telling you what I want.
3. If you catch feeling..........I told you from the jump.
Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge. And when they start to catch feeling. "I told you, I just want to be friends."
But this line comes with a warning.............................Don't get friend zoned. This line has to be drop when you know being friend zoned will not be the outcome.
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What is the point of this advice? If he's already got a bunch of little girlfriends it's not like he has a problem getting girls. Does running game on Young girls save you guys problems?
It's all good until some girl breaks in your house and finds another woman's bra, huh @Stew ?
Is it running game if what is said is absolutely true (as far as telling someone that you don't want to date or anything serious)?
he didn't say it as serious advice though he said it because
Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge.
if it was like always be honest about your intentions that would be different. That's not what he said.
What is not honest about what I said? What you said proves that I was forthright and the women still projected their intentions upon me.
I am not here to read your mind. I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."
Now how they take it does vary but I am covered.
If a person tells you they want to be just a friend and your definition of friendship is different. Who is at fault?
Not me I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."
What is not covered in that statement?
Are you not a grown up that cant make their own decisions at this point?
Not one girl ever asked me to elaborate. Some took it as a friend with no benefits. Most took it as a friend with benefits. All of them made a adult decision.
I am going to tell my daughter to use the same line. And when she needs to, She will use the same "I told you, I just want to be friends."