ADHD! SHUT DA F*** UUUUUUP!!!!

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Westie;c-9916564 said:
i ro ny;c-9916554 said:
Westie;c-9916533 said:
caddo man;c-9916475 said:
VIBE;c-9916443 said:
MsSouthern;c-9916412 said:
I'm pretty sure my son is talking/dating/whatever with 3 different girls who do not know about each other and probably think they are the only one

Soooo It's really none of my business

But

I'm just having a hard time not saying anything to him

I'd sit n talk w my boy. If he's talkin, whatever. But dating, nah. Have more respect than that. Don't do ppl dirty and don't get caught up in bullshit.

First I would do what @Stew said. Let him get caught. You learn more from getting burned then anything else.

Then I would hit him with the best line since "It's me not you."

"I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend." That line is gold standard.

1. I am not lying to you.

2. I am telling you what I want.

3. If you catch feeling..........I told you from the jump.

Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge. And when they start to catch feeling. "I told you, I just want to be friends."

But this line comes with a warning.............................Don't get friend zoned. This line has to be drop when you know being friend zoned will not be the outcome.

tenor.gif

What is the point of this advice? If he's already got a bunch of little girlfriends it's not like he has a problem getting girls. Does running game on Young girls save you guys problems?

It's all good until some girl breaks in your house and finds another woman's bra, huh @Stew ?

Is it running game if what is said is absolutely true (as far as telling someone that you don't want to date or anything serious)?

he didn't say it as serious advice though he said it because

Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge.

if it was like always be honest about your intentions that would be different. That's not what he said.

What is not honest about what I said? What you said proves that I was forthright and the women still projected their intentions upon me.

I am not here to read your mind. I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."

Now how they take it does vary but I am covered.

If a person tells you they want to be just a friend and your definition of friendship is different. Who is at fault?

Not me I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."

What is not covered in that statement?

Are you not a grown up that cant make their own decisions at this point?

Not one girl ever asked me to elaborate. Some took it as a friend with no benefits. Most took it as a friend with benefits. All of them made a adult decision.

I am going to tell my daughter to use the same line. And when she needs to, She will use the same "I told you, I just want to be friends."

 
caddo man;c-9916643 said:
Westie;c-9916564 said:
i ro ny;c-9916554 said:
Westie;c-9916533 said:
caddo man;c-9916475 said:
VIBE;c-9916443 said:
MsSouthern;c-9916412 said:
I'm pretty sure my son is talking/dating/whatever with 3 different girls who do not know about each other and probably think they are the only one

Soooo It's really none of my business

But

I'm just having a hard time not saying anything to him

I'd sit n talk w my boy. If he's talkin, whatever. But dating, nah. Have more respect than that. Don't do ppl dirty and don't get caught up in bullshit.

First I would do what @Stew said. Let him get caught. You learn more from getting burned then anything else.

Then I would hit him with the best line since "It's me not you."

"I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend." That line is gold standard.

1. I am not lying to you.

2. I am telling you what I want.

3. If you catch feeling..........I told you from the jump.

Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge. And when they start to catch feeling. "I told you, I just want to be friends."

But this line comes with a warning.............................Don't get friend zoned. This line has to be drop when you know being friend zoned will not be the outcome.

tenor.gif

What is the point of this advice? If he's already got a bunch of little girlfriends it's not like he has a problem getting girls. Does running game on Young girls save you guys problems?

It's all good until some girl breaks in your house and finds another woman's bra, huh @Stew ?

Is it running game if what is said is absolutely true (as far as telling someone that you don't want to date or anything serious)?

he didn't say it as serious advice though he said it because

Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge.

if it was like always be honest about your intentions that would be different. That's not what he said.

What is not honest about what I said? What you said proves that I was forthright and the women still projected their intentions upon me.

I am not here to read your mind. I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."

Now how they take it does vary but I am covered.

If a person tells you they want to be just a friend and your definition of friendship is different. Who is at fault?

Not me I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."

What is not covered in that statement?

Are you not a grown up that cant make their own decisions at this point?

Not one girl ever asked me to elaborate. Some took it as a friend with no benefits. Most took it as a friend with benefits. All of them made a adult decision.

I am going to tell my daughter to use the same line. And when she needs to, She will use the same "I told you, I just want to be friends."

Funny thing is, all that sounds well and good..........but it's still not gonna stop women from acting out if things don't go their way.

So, you're not really "covered" at all since most women act on emotion..........not logic and reason.

Think about it, how many times have you told a chick the same thing that you posted and they still caught feelings?

Basically, regardless of what you say or do or what ground rules you try to establish............there's a reason why:

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

"Take from that what you will." - @AP21
 
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deadeye;c-9916744 said:
caddo man;c-9916643 said:
Westie;c-9916564 said:
i ro ny;c-9916554 said:
Westie;c-9916533 said:
caddo man;c-9916475 said:
VIBE;c-9916443 said:
MsSouthern;c-9916412 said:
I'm pretty sure my son is talking/dating/whatever with 3 different girls who do not know about each other and probably think they are the only one

Soooo It's really none of my business

But

I'm just having a hard time not saying anything to him

I'd sit n talk w my boy. If he's talkin, whatever. But dating, nah. Have more respect than that. Don't do ppl dirty and don't get caught up in bullshit.

First I would do what @Stew said. Let him get caught. You learn more from getting burned then anything else.

Then I would hit him with the best line since "It's me not you."

"I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend." That line is gold standard.

1. I am not lying to you.

2. I am telling you what I want.

3. If you catch feeling..........I told you from the jump.

Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge. And when they start to catch feeling. "I told you, I just want to be friends."

But this line comes with a warning.............................Don't get friend zoned. This line has to be drop when you know being friend zoned will not be the outcome.

tenor.gif

What is the point of this advice? If he's already got a bunch of little girlfriends it's not like he has a problem getting girls. Does running game on Young girls save you guys problems?

It's all good until some girl breaks in your house and finds another woman's bra, huh @Stew ?

Is it running game if what is said is absolutely true (as far as telling someone that you don't want to date or anything serious)?

he didn't say it as serious advice though he said it because

Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge.

if it was like always be honest about your intentions that would be different. That's not what he said.

What is not honest about what I said? What you said proves that I was forthright and the women still projected their intentions upon me.

I am not here to read your mind. I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."

Now how they take it does vary but I am covered.

If a person tells you they want to be just a friend and your definition of friendship is different. Who is at fault?

Not me I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."

What is not covered in that statement?

Are you not a grown up that cant make their own decisions at this point?

Not one girl ever asked me to elaborate. Some took it as a friend with no benefits. Most took it as a friend with benefits. All of them made a adult decision.

I am going to tell my daughter to use the same line. And when she needs to, She will use the same "I told you, I just want to be friends."

Funny thing is, all that sounds well and good..........but it's still not gonna stop women from acting out if things don't go their way.

So, you're not really "covered" at all since most women act on emotion..........not logic and reason.

Think about it, how many times have you told a chick the same thing that you posted and they still caught feelings?

Basically, regardless of what you say or do or what ground rules you try to establish............there's a reason why:

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

"Take from that what you will." - @AP21

Fucking with a crazy chick is a whole different story and I have alot of them.

Crazy is, what crazy does. If you are fucking with a crazy broad. Nothing you say to her matters, like you said.

But crazy women are the extreme. Like women fucking with a crazy man. The signs are there. If you go down that road. That is on you. But that goes with the original advice.

First I would do what Stew said. Let him get caught. You learn more from getting burned then anything else.

My thing is a adult single woman. If I tell you I just want to be friends but you take that in another direction. I correct you by reiterating the point. And you still go your way. Who is at fault here?

I never had a problem. I don't have one scenario where it back fired because I told them the truth from the beginning. I told my wife the same exact thing. When she wanted to take it to the next level. We discussed it.

 
caddo man;c-9916779 said:
deadeye;c-9916744 said:
caddo man;c-9916643 said:
Westie;c-9916564 said:
i ro ny;c-9916554 said:
Westie;c-9916533 said:
caddo man;c-9916475 said:
VIBE;c-9916443 said:
MsSouthern;c-9916412 said:
I'm pretty sure my son is talking/dating/whatever with 3 different girls who do not know about each other and probably think they are the only one

Soooo It's really none of my business

But

I'm just having a hard time not saying anything to him

I'd sit n talk w my boy. If he's talkin, whatever. But dating, nah. Have more respect than that. Don't do ppl dirty and don't get caught up in bullshit.

First I would do what @Stew said. Let him get caught. You learn more from getting burned then anything else.

Then I would hit him with the best line since "It's me not you."

"I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend." That line is gold standard.

1. I am not lying to you.

2. I am telling you what I want.

3. If you catch feeling..........I told you from the jump.

Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge. And when they start to catch feeling. "I told you, I just want to be friends."

But this line comes with a warning.............................Don't get friend zoned. This line has to be drop when you know being friend zoned will not be the outcome.

tenor.gif

What is the point of this advice? If he's already got a bunch of little girlfriends it's not like he has a problem getting girls. Does running game on Young girls save you guys problems?

It's all good until some girl breaks in your house and finds another woman's bra, huh @Stew ?

Is it running game if what is said is absolutely true (as far as telling someone that you don't want to date or anything serious)?

he didn't say it as serious advice though he said it because

Women cant take it. They will take it as a challenge.

if it was like always be honest about your intentions that would be different. That's not what he said.

What is not honest about what I said? What you said proves that I was forthright and the women still projected their intentions upon me.

I am not here to read your mind. I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."

Now how they take it does vary but I am covered.

If a person tells you they want to be just a friend and your definition of friendship is different. Who is at fault?

Not me I told you from the jump. "I am not seriously dating no one right now, I am just looking for a friend."

What is not covered in that statement?

Are you not a grown up that cant make their own decisions at this point?

Not one girl ever asked me to elaborate. Some took it as a friend with no benefits. Most took it as a friend with benefits. All of them made a adult decision.

I am going to tell my daughter to use the same line. And when she needs to, She will use the same "I told you, I just want to be friends."

Funny thing is, all that sounds well and good..........but it's still not gonna stop women from acting out if things don't go their way.

So, you're not really "covered" at all since most women act on emotion..........not logic and reason.

Think about it, how many times have you told a chick the same thing that you posted and they still caught feelings?

Basically, regardless of what you say or do or what ground rules you try to establish............there's a reason why:

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

"Take from that what you will." - @AP21

Fucking with a crazy chick is a whole different story and I have alot of them.

Crazy is, what crazy does. If you are fucking with a crazy broad. Nothing you say to her matters, like you said.

But crazy women are the extreme. Like women fucking with a crazy man. The signs are there. If you go down that road. That is on you. But that goes with the original advice.

First I would do what Stew said. Let him get caught. You learn more from getting burned then anything else.

My thing is a adult single woman. If I tell you I just want to be friends but you take that in another direction. I correct you by reiterating the point. And you still go your way. Who is at fault here?

I never had a problem. I don't have one scenario where it back fired because I told them the truth from the beginning. I told my wife the same exact thing. When she wanted to take it to the next level. We discussed it.

it really doesn't matter who's at fault if the result is somebody trying to stab you anyway. None of what you said saves you from drama. it's also teaching your son how to have fuck buddies. Is that the goal?
 
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T. Sanford;c-9909034 said:
Today is a trill nigga birthday. It's a holiday; Any acts of fraud or fake activities stops today. I repeat any acts of fraud or fake activities that occur worldwide shall cease today. If any party violate this sacred law, shall be in the Earth by nightfall. Make those who violate this law; your enemies. They are an abomination to the land............for I am the trill dog that those I don't respect

Happy belated fam. May your enemies on this day perish slow like Marty mcfly when he was at that dance
 
Looool. Just waisted 5 minutes of my time watching FENDI RED.

WHAT IN THE FUCK IS THIS ? Really America ?!!!

I stopped once her friend named LONDON started to yap.

 
MsSouthern;c-9916412 said:
I'm pretty sure my son is talking/dating/whatever with 3 different girls who do not know about each other and probably think they are the only one

Soooo It's really none of my business

But

I'm just having a hard time not saying anything to him

I taught my son well
 
MsSouthern;c-9916785 said:
Ummm FYI he's 19 and not mature enough to sit a woman down and say stuff like that

Just tell him to strap up because you're not ready to be a grandma yet.

Hopefully he'll think about that........and then realize he's not ready to be a father either.

Maybe that'll cause him to slow down.

Other than that, there's not really much else you can do.
 
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Westie;c-9916792 said:
it really doesn't matter who's at fault if the result is somebody trying to stab you anyway. None of what you said saves you from drama. it's also teaching your son how to have fuck buddies. Is that the goal?

No matter what you say to a crazy chick...........................She gon be crazy. You dont want to be stabbed. Dont fuck with a crazy chick. Only crazy chick stabbing people. How people have you stabbed @Westie?

And how am I teaching him to have fuck buddies, exactly? please explain.
 
MsSouthern;c-9916785 said:
Ummm FYI he's 19 and not mature enough to sit a woman down and say stuff like that

We are way past your son now.

Especially with all the crazy ass scenarios they are coming up with.

Tell the women he doesnt want to be in a relationship and remind them.
 
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