The Lonious Monk
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Kat;c-10120767 said:The Lonious Monk;c-10120743 said:Kat;c-10120511 said:What's bullshit about not being wanted to be told to smile by strange ass men? Bitch you smile! It is kinda annoying.
There is a point in what Jemele said about compliments as well. If it's an innocent compliment that you give and then go about your day, cool, thank you that was sweet. However, alot of men only give compliments as opening lines..so was the compliment genuine or is there a more selfish ulterior motive?
The latter in many cases and yet women are expected to fall over themselves with gratitude.
It's not a war in men, it's some constructive criticism. Women have had to listen to men tell them who and how to be since the beginning of time. Y'all gon survive.
Nothing is wrong with it in principle, but is a trite way of attempting a connection really worth whining about?
Not to me personally, but I'm not going to knock those that do feel it's important enough to address. Men be doing shit and then when its not received favorably the woman is labeled a bitch or stuck up. These women are just shedding some light on the situation. Is it serious enough for men to be offended by that?
Women get labelled bitch or stuck up because of HOW they respond to situations. A dude asking you to smile isn't disrespectful. It might be annoying to you, but if the dude came at you with respect, why not treat him with respect? But nah, some of ya'll will treat the dude like shit in response and then wonder why you get called a "bitch."