Abuse or Nah?? Man Beats his kid's ass

[T. Sanford]

I'm never whooping my daughter with a belt. I'ma fuck around and never whoop her ass at all. Fathers don't need to do that with little girls. Simply raising my voice and grabbing her by the arm a certain way has always done the trick with my nieces, cousins, sisters and all.

Even little boys, i'm not pullin out no belt. I'm goin in your chest, ain't no need for all that other shit. We walk side by side, and if you get out of line we go toe to toe.

That belt shit cool, but i'd rather snatch my youngin by the collar and take him in the basement and talk to him like a man.

And as far as my little girl(s). They spoiled as fuck, all it takes is my look, and my tone to change.

I used to do my nephew like that when he was in his bad spells.

 

[$ineedmoney$]

https://youtu.be/-toPV54OyO8

...That nikka had an assembly line goin'...

 

[LUClEN]

I never got a whoopin that chill. Ever. Nigga I was getting fucked up... bleeding and all that shit from a belt. I think it’s completely retarded to record this shit though.

You were abused.

No. I was black in the 80s early 90s... and that shit kept me out a gang and Prison which is a rarity for niggas my age from Chicago. I thank God I was “abused”.

You don't know that for sure, you're just connecting correlation with causation. How do you know you would not have avoided the street life anyways?

 

[unspoken_respect]

God damn nigga. I thought he was gonna start telling them their names was Toby.

If they were taking care of business early on then this wouldn't be necessary. You can't play catch-up when it comes to being a parent.

Call Denzel. This nigga.....father missed the message!

 

[Max.]

I got whoopings well into my teenage years, and we were not allowed to curse in my parents home. It did nothing. I was already nearly grown by then. Teens should not be punished as children.

Talking to teenagers on a grown level would be more effective than cause I said so now come catch this belt.

That's just going to breed resentment and rebellion.

No shit....lmao

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

If they were boys would it make it different. .. abuse ? no a lil ova aggressive? yes

This.

I'm all for whoopin dat azzz when they get outta line...but that was a bit much.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

I never got a whoopin that chill. Ever. Nigga I was getting fucked up... bleeding and all that shit from a belt. I think it’s completely retarded to record this shit though.

You were abused.

No. I was black in the 80s early 90s... and that shit kept me out a gang and Prison which is a rarity for niggas my age from Chicago. I thank God I was “abused”.

My husband and his older brother grew up in Chicago in the 70s and 80s in the same household with the same parents and the same forms of discipline. The older went on to become a career criminal, spending most of his life in prison. My husband went on to serve in two branches of the military and then turned it into a well paying IT career.

Beating your children does not keep them out of prison, it does not ensure that they will live a successful life.

You attribute your lack of prison time to the beatings you received, but I see you avoiding prison time despite being beat by those who are supposed to nurture, love and TEACH you.

They loved, nurtured, taught, and whooped my ass all at the same time. I never resented them for that because I understood why I was getting my ass whooped and that that was the consequence. I had to respect it, it taught me that there are consequences to my actions. Everyone may not need a whoopin, but I did, and I came out better for it. Everything doesn’t warrant a whoopin, and you have a lot of clowns that beat their kids for no reason which confuses the child. Me, I was stealing, grabbing asses, fighting, ditching classes when I was like 10. Pops whooped my ass twice and I never stole again. That shit worked.

This.

The dumb shyt I did when I was younger...yeah I deserved those azzz whoppins. As i got older, my dad never had to worry about me actin up in school, or illegally runnin the streets.

Each child is different tho.

 

[ineedpussy]

i aint gone lie. my pops and moms was different in punishment. my moms would punish me and my bros by reading books cause she knew we hated that. my pops would give us a choice....his hand or the switch and i would always pick the switch cause this nigga had slave hand. but i say that to say this........i feared my father like a mutha but i didnt respect him. yeah he kept me in line but i would look for other niggaZ to look up to because i didnt like his methods. thats why if im ever fortunate to have kids (which probably wont happen) ill only whoop them for certain shit because at the end of the day fear aint shit but respect goes a long way.

 

[tompetrez3]

Those are soft ass love taps. Yall ever had a group ass whooping with yall siblings where yall crying in unison and hiding behind each other to avoid the belt lol? You ever had the sound and tears whooped out of you? Yall ever got whooped by a neighbor? thats back when parents actually loved their kids and gave a damn

 

[dalyricalbandit]

i aint gone lie. my pops and moms was different in punishment. my moms would punish me and my bros by reading books cause she knew we hated that. my pops would give us a choice....his hand or the switch and i would always pick the switch cause this nigga had slave hand. but i say that to say this........i feared my father like a mutha but i didnt respect him. yeah he kept me in line but i would look for other niggaZ to look up to because i didnt like his methods. thats why if im ever fortunate to have kids (which probably wont happen) ill only whoop them for certain shit because at the end of the day fear aint shit but respect goes a long way.

Got damn at the ether towards your pops

 

[dalyricalbandit]

Those are soft ass love taps. Yall ever had a group ass whooping with yall siblings where yall crying in unison and hiding behind each other to avoid the belt lol? You ever had the sound and tears whooped out of you? Yall ever got whooped by a neighbor? thats back when parents actually loved their kids and gave a damn

That when u know it was taken up a notch when the sound goes lmao

 

[7figz]

It starts at home.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i aint gone lie. my pops and moms was different in punishment. my moms would punish me and my bros by reading books cause she knew we hated that. my pops would give us a choice....his hand or the switch and i would always pick the switch cause this nigga had slave hand. but i say that to say this........i feared my father like a mutha but i didnt respect him. yeah he kept me in line but i would look for other niggaZ to look up to because i didnt like his methods. thats why if im ever fortunate to have kids (which probably wont happen) ill only whoop them for certain shit because at the end of the day fear aint shit but respect goes a long way.

smdh....do you even understand what your dad could have had to deal with? do you know how his day could have went?

you are assuming his day was peaches and cream an he came home just to whop you.

dont be so judgemental on your dad unless you walked in his shoes.

 

[TonyDubbz]

I hate these dumbass parents who put shit like this on the internet. I mean what's the point? They just lookin for some attention and in the end it ain't gone be the kind of attention they wanted. Niggas ain't learned shit from all these other folks that got hemmed up for posting this same shit?

And as far as beating her goes, at the end of the day it's his child, we all came up differently. Some fathers aint believe in whipping their daughters while some did. This nigga probably had parents/guardians who didnt discriminate when it came to ass whoopins therefore he probably following in their steps as a parent.

 

[TonyDubbz]

How does a man hit his girl like that? Like how?

The same way he probably hits their mother

im curious why a man beating his kids got to do with hitting a woman?

its his job to discipline as he sees fit to keep them right. how does the transfer to a woman ?

so I guess he steals an kicjs puppies too

smh.

speak on it?

a woman nurtures a man disciplines.

I just feel once a child reaches a certain age, beating them like that is counterproductive and builds resentment. You should've already instilled a sense of respect and healthy dose of fear in your child where your words are enough. Any other punishments should come in the form of restrictions.

Grown ass man beating teenage girls with a belt. Smh. Over cursing? Fuck outta here.

We won't even go into it being recorded for the Gram.

Agreed like a mofo

To me it has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with age. The, girls seemed to old for this type of correction. Especially over cuss words.

I do agree wit u and @kat on this cause once a child reaches a certain age an ass whooping no longer works especially with a boy. He just gone look at that shit as something to make him stronger in the end. You gotta instill that discipline in them when they young.

 

[blackrain]

i aint gone lie. my pops and moms was different in punishment. my moms would punish me and my bros by reading books cause she knew we hated that. my pops would give us a choice....his hand or the switch and i would always pick the switch cause this nigga had slave hand. but i say that to say this........i feared my father like a mutha but i didnt respect him. yeah he kept me in line but i would look for other niggaZ to look up to because i didnt like his methods. thats why if im ever fortunate to have kids (which probably wont happen) ill only whoop them for certain shit because at the end of the day fear aint shit but respect goes a long way.

smdh....do you even understand what your dad could have had to deal with? do you know how his day could have went?

you are assuming his day was peaches and cream an he came home just to whop you.

dont be so judgemental on your dad unless you walked in his shoes.

Using your logic then its still a shitty job for a parent to take their bad day out on their child under the guise of discipline.

 

[ReppinTime]

He whooping them little girls out of falling for bullshit from a nigga like trillfate or reppin

hate and slander..weird

you way more like sleep than me eat a dick

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i aint gone lie. my pops and moms was different in punishment. my moms would punish me and my bros by reading books cause she knew we hated that. my pops would give us a choice....his hand or the switch and i would always pick the switch cause this nigga had slave hand. but i say that to say this........i feared my father like a mutha but i didnt respect him. yeah he kept me in line but i would look for other niggaZ to look up to because i didnt like his methods. thats why if im ever fortunate to have kids (which probably wont happen) ill only whoop them for certain shit because at the end of the day fear aint shit but respect goes a long way.

smdh....do you even understand what your dad could have had to deal with? do you know how his day could have went?

you are assuming his day was peaches and cream an he came home just to whop you.

dont be so judgemental on your dad unless you walked in his shoes.

Using your logic then its still a shitty job for a parent to take their bad day out on their child under the guise of discipline.

not saying he took it out on his child but i am saying he may not have had patience and all he wanted was something to go right in his day....niggas do be getting out ya last nerve then be like " what, all i said was"

 

[rickmogul]

Spankings equal Thank You's later in life. Getting that enthusiasm curved via a belt etc. Is a GOD send. Thankful for mine. Mama told me: Parents who don't beat they kids ass will have their kids grow up and beat their parents asses! Seen it with my own eyes. Even getting checked for ya mouth as a youngsta will quell bucking up in the future unrighteously.

 

[brown321]

He beating they ass for having a potty mouth, while cussing at them. Good shit dad.