A question about Jumpoffs

[mryounggun]

monogamy isnt natural..

for a nigga to think otherwise is some sissy shit..

Agreed. But for the sake of conversation...what does that mean, really? A lot of shit that we've deemed socially acceptable and abide by culturally isn't natural. We don't really question those things for some reason. What is it about monogamy that makes us use the 'it's not natural' defense?

i actually question EVERYTHING.. and when social constructs are set up one has to think to who's benefit and at who's expense..

thats why i find it hard to respect an argument based on "what society deems"..

if it aint natural it aint natural..

and jus cause its law dont make it right..

im not about to sit here and argue science.. if u choose to struggle on the daily wit who u naturally are and what society wants u to be nigga thats on u..

Interesting.

 

[CapitalB]

Monogamy isn't natural, STDs are natural. Condoms aren't natural. Put it all together...

sissy..

 

[GorillaWitAttitude]

I'll never cheat because I wouldn't want to be cheated on. It's called being faithful, so having a jumpoff isn't worth it.

 

[CapitalB]

I'll never cheat because I wouldn't want to be cheated on. It's called being faithful, so having a jumpoff isn't worth it.

its not natural for a woman to cheat.. its natural for her to leave yo ass..

sissy..

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Men are only as faithful as their options

I wish dudes would stop saying this....

And call it what it really is....

Lust >>>>

 

[deadeye]

I think some of you are confusing jumpoff with sidechick.

Meaning, you can have a jumpoff and not be in a relationship with anyone.

Basically, that's just someone you're smashing who you're not in a relationship with.

However, if you have a sidechick (something on the side).....then that automatically implies that you have a main chick as well.

Otherwise, there'd be no reason to refer to her as a sidepiece if you're not with anyone else.

 

[mryounggun]

I think some of you are confusing jumpoff with sidechick.

Meaning, you can have a jumpoff and not be in a relationship with anyone.

Basically, that's just someone you're smashing who you're not in a relationship with.

However, if you have a sidechick (something on the side).....then that automatically implies that you have a main chick as well.

Otherwise, there'd be no reason to refer to her as a sidepiece if you're not with anyone else.

No, we're not confusing that at all. We know the different. T/S doesn't. So we're responding in accordance with what he actually means. It's pretty clear he really means sidechick. *shrugs*

 

[deadeye]

I think some of you are confusing jumpoff with sidechick.

Meaning, you can have a jumpoff and not be in a relationship with anyone.

Basically, that's just someone you're smashing who you're not in a relationship with.

However, if you have a sidechick (something on the side).....then that automatically implies that you have a main chick as well.

Otherwise, there'd be no reason to refer to her as a sidepiece if you're not with anyone else.

No, we're not confusing that at all. We know the different. T/S doesn't. So we're responding in accordance with what he actually means. It's pretty clear he really means sidechick. *shrugs*

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Men are only as faithful as their options

I wish dudes would stop saying this....

And call it what it really is....

Lust >>>>

but is he wrong?

dudes get ass thrown at them every now and then.

when you get it thrown at you everywhere you go...you might become unfaithful until you get tired of then dont except as much ass

 

[CapitalB]

I think some of you are confusing jumpoff with sidechick.

Meaning, you can have a jumpoff and not be in a relationship with anyone.

Basically, that's just someone you're smashing who you're not in a relationship with.

However, if you have a sidechick (something on the side).....then that automatically implies that you have a main chick as well.

Otherwise, there'd be no reason to refer to her as a sidepiece if you're not with anyone else.

No, we're not confusing that at all. We know the different. T/S doesn't. So we're responding in accordance with what he actually means. It's pretty clear he really means sidechick. *shrugs*

funny.. i was jus watching this very episode last night..

Weebay that nigga..

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Men are only as faithful as their options

I wish dudes would stop saying this....

And call it what it really is....

Lust >>>>

but is he wrong?

dudes get ass thrown at them every now and then.

when you get it thrown at you everywhere you go...you might become unfaithful until you get tired of then dont except as much ass

if you are living to fulfill your own desires...then yeah.

The world is full of temptation. unless you exercise self control, you will give in to something. This case is no different. Im not saying this lightly like its very easy to do. But dont make it seem like its impossible to be faithful, you just have to want to be.

your "options" shouldn't trump your self control if you don't want them to.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

I think some of you are confusing jumpoff with sidechick.

Meaning, you can have a jumpoff and not be in a relationship with anyone.

Basically, that's just someone you're smashing who you're not in a relationship with.

However, if you have a sidechick (something on the side).....then that automatically implies that you have a main chick as well.

Otherwise, there'd be no reason to refer to her as a sidepiece if you're not with anyone else.

No, we're not confusing that at all. We know the different. T/S doesn't. So we're responding in accordance with what he actually means. It's pretty clear he really means sidechick. *shrugs*

funny.. i was jus watching this very episode last night..

Weebay that nigga..

Nigga....

So was I!

That was the season 1 finale right? Lol

 

[CapitalB]

I think some of you are confusing jumpoff with sidechick.

Meaning, you can have a jumpoff and not be in a relationship with anyone.

Basically, that's just someone you're smashing who you're not in a relationship with.

However, if you have a sidechick (something on the side).....then that automatically implies that you have a main chick as well.

Otherwise, there'd be no reason to refer to her as a sidepiece if you're not with anyone else.

No, we're not confusing that at all. We know the different. T/S doesn't. So we're responding in accordance with what he actually means. It's pretty clear he really means sidechick. *shrugs*

funny.. i was jus watching this very episode last night..

Weebay that nigga..

Nigga....

So was I!

That was the season 1 finale right? Lol

lol yehp!!!

went to one of my girl's house cause we switched cars that day.. needed her truck..

was bringing it back and she wanted Tommy's.. so i get her food.. get there and she on the third to last episode..

we watched the rest of the season and 2 from the second! hahahaha

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

I just figured it meant you're greedy for pussy.

 

[Purr]

Im okay with it.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

I think some of you are confusing jumpoff with sidechick.

Meaning, you can have a jumpoff and not be in a relationship with anyone.

Basically, that's just someone you're smashing who you're not in a relationship with.

However, if you have a sidechick (something on the side).....then that automatically implies that you have a main chick as well.

Otherwise, there'd be no reason to refer to her as a sidepiece if you're not with anyone else.

No, we're not confusing that at all. We know the different. T/S doesn't. So we're responding in accordance with what he actually means. It's pretty clear he really means sidechick. *shrugs*

funny.. i was jus watching this very episode last night..

Weebay that nigga..

Nigga....

So was I!

That was the season 1 finale right? Lol

lol yehp!!!

went to one of my girl's house cause we switched cars that day.. needed her truck..

was bringing it back and she wanted Tommy's.. so i get her food.. get there and she on the third to last episode..

we watched the rest of the season and 2 from the second! hahahaha

i put a couple friends on to this show & they got into it & started asking me questions...it's been a minute since i saw it so i didn't remember everything...i was like fuck it lemme watch this again...caught right up with they ass lol

 

[FsK]

Sometimes, I just really think that people should be openly poly. Then you could have all the thots you want without sneaking around behind your partner's back.

Well all know that's not true in reality. But yea, ideally the people who wanted to fuck other people would just be open and honest.

I know people who are openly poly.

It works out better in the long run, TBH.

Ironically this discussion came from a conversation with a poly couple or triple (iunno wtf they are).

I'm saying tho sumtimes it feels like we are making excuses for our women and/or our flawed selves.

Are we just that shit at controlling our urges?

Or do we have an over reliance on pussy to make us feel good /boost our ego/distract us?

Iunno

Sometimes, I just really think that people should be openly poly. Then you could have all the thots you want without sneaking around behind your partner's back.

Well all know that's not true in reality. But yea, ideally the people who wanted to fuck other people would just be open and honest.

I know people who are openly poly.

It works out better in the long run, TBH.

you'd have a chick who REALLY likes a dude, but the dude ain't into the poly shit, regardless of if it is the norm or not. So she'll lie to that dude and tell him he's the only one, when the rest of her dudes know what time it is.

The end result is the same.

This is exactly what prompted the original discussion.

 

[FsK]

I think some of you are confusing jumpoff with sidechick.

Meaning, you can have a jumpoff and not be in a relationship with anyone.

Basically, that's just someone you're smashing who you're not in a relationship with.

However, if you have a sidechick (something on the side).....then that automatically implies that you have a main chick as well.

Otherwise, there'd be no reason to refer to her as a sidepiece if you're not with anyone else.

No, we're not confusing that at all. We know the different. T/S doesn't. So we're responding in accordance with what he actually means. It's pretty clear he really means sidechick. *shrugs*

My bad. Im talking about having a jump off AND a wife/gf.

'Sidepiece' if u like. I ain't from your parts, I'd never say 'sidepiece' but Yh you know what I mean.

 

[soulbrother]

Simple...niggas/crackers are greedy...your girl could have the best pussy and head game on earth and if a man sees another women who look good, his curiosity is peeked..nigga wants to find out how good her pussy/head game is..

 

[blakfyahking]

weak insecure nigga thread IMO