A man taking his wife last name in marriage?

[deadeye]

Well Me and my boyfriend have been discussing getting married soon. When we decide to get married, I would liked for him to take my last name instead of me having his. I know that it's very uncommon for a guy to take his wife's last name. I believe it's time for a change. One of my teachers in the past took his wife last name. I see nothing wrong with that. My boyfriend got very upset; when I told him that I'm not taking his last name. What are your beliefs on this discussion?

Assuming you're not trolling, this probably won't be something you'll have to worry about for much longer.

 

[S2J]

Sigh...

 

[SlickestR]

fuck that. Especially if the nigga doesn't take a pre up... years down the road if it doesn't work out nigga loses everything and gets an ether for having a bitches last name.

 

[SlickestR]

it's either my last name, or keep things the way they are.

 

[Boricua Ma]

It would be grounds 4 calling the wedding off.. What kind of bitch shyt is that..

 

[Dr.Chemix]

It would be grounds 4 calling the wedding off.. What kind of bitch shyt is that..

tell em...

No way no how I'm taking the wifey's last name...I might as well give the pants if that's the case

 

[dwade206]

If he takes your last name, there's a good chance your man is bisexual

 

[AZTG]

This is a different topic all together but what happened to women liking MEN? nowadays there are so many relationships in which a the guy is more feminine then the girl is. Its more of a lesbian relationship then anything else with a lot of these couples.

 

[needmorecash]

i swear..

its been all downhill for America since the day they gave bitches the right to vote...

that would of been the last convo we had.. . . if my dude would do something like that i would be calling him all type of bytches. .. out of love though

 

[blackgod813]

I would spit in ya face thats why im single

 

[LUClEN]

I'd consider it I was dumb enough to get married again

and if I was that cool with her father

blakfyah, will you marry me?

and take my last name? it means bubbles in another language lol

lol for real?

 

[Will Munny]

I know a bitch-n... I mean some dude who took his wifes last name. His future father in law didn't have any sons and didn't want his family name to die, so his wife asked him he would take her name instead. He obliged. What a faggot.

 

[BK Product]

ive only read the Op...but i would have ended the relationship had that have been me.

 

[kAjUn]

Well Me and my boyfriend have been discussing getting married soon. When we decide to get married, I would liked for him to take my last name instead of me having his. I know that it's very uncommon for a guy to take his wife's last name. I believe it's time for a change. One of my teachers in the past took his wife last name. I see nothing wrong with that. My boyfriend got very upset; when I told him that I'm not taking his last name. What are your beliefs on this discussion?

If a chick ever asked me that this would be my reaction

Be the last convo about marriage I would ever have about marriage and I'm scoping a new wife

Too many women out there that would gladly take a man last name and stick with tradition then a woman trying to fuck shit up

I know you love him but good luck to convincing him to do that

 

[Undefeatable]

We can respect each other while maintaining our own last names.

 

[bull6599]

Man, fuck that! If I'm dropping a few stacks on a ring then her last name is my last name...and muthafuck a hyphen too.

 

[leftcoastkev]

In some cultures the kids take the mom's maiden name as a middle name so the kids full name ends up in 4 pcs..



But to answer your question, no way in hell would I take a woman's last name.

That relationship must be some out of the ordinary shit. I mean, fundamentally the roles must be different from most of society. The concept of being the man in the relationship most be a complete 180 from most.

Will you provide for and protect your man? If you get pregnant can you protect him and make sure he has food and shelter? When he doesn't see the world straight will you bring him back down to earth without making him feel less than?

If so then go for it he needs to take your last name, because he'll be forever your bitch.