PILL_COSBY;c-9844537 said:
This brings it right back to the question I asked. Why it's cool one moment when you doing it. But then when you become a certain legal age yourself you look at it like something's wrong? Shit's been tripping me out for years.
@PILL_COSBY
Here's what it is......since they're not gonna take the bait.
Basically, those girls really believed all that
"maturity" bullshit that they used as justification to convince themselves that it was ok for them to date older men when they were still in their teens.
However, what few of them seemed to realize is that they only
"physically" matured faster than boys their own age......not mentally.
Meaning, there are more teenage girls who can pass for grown women than there are teenage boys who can pass for grown men.
Think about it.......rarely is there ever a situation in which a female thinks a teenage boy is older than he really is.
But these young birds really thought at 16 or 17 that they were on the same maturity level as a nigga in his 20's.
"Lambs to the slaughter."
So, when they finally got older and figured out those old niggas were only fucking with them because of their
"lack of maturity", they got their feelings hurt and became angry and bitter that they were dumb enough to get played like that.
It usually sinks in for them when they're in their late 20's/early 30's and notice that they're not getting the same kind of attention in the club that they used to when they were younger.
Even worse for them when they see those old niggas pass them over for chicks that are as young as they used to be when they first started messing with older dudes.
That's when they have their
"aha moment"............as Oprah would say.
A never ending cycle of bird logic and heartbreak.
