UPDATE:
So i dug out some more things from her past and got her to admit to me that she's been lying about how many guys she's done sexual things with. She said that she has gotten fingered by 4 diff guys, eaten out by 2 of them and jerked off 3 of them. She had slept together with yet another...
UPDATE:
I took her virginity yesterday and we've met for a couple of times ever since, i've done many things with her that other guys couldn't do. It turned out she has been fingered before as well, so much for the picture that i had of her being completely untouched.
Now we're on the verge of...
It's her way of bein when you see her and complete ignorance of things about sex. I always thought that was an indicator of lack of experience.
Probably some of the best stuff posted on this thread. Very wise said, i feel so ashamed that i still let her get the best of me this way.
Update:
I tried the aggressive approach today. It went to shit. I kind of threatened that i was gonna leave if we didn't take it to the next level. She got mad and said that she isn't looking for sex in a relationship with a guy she has only spoken to for 2 months. I asked her how come she used...
Exactly. I'm thinking about making a complete change in personality to become a scumbag if she lets me hit since i've hopefully gained enough of her trust as a "nice" guy now. Thanks for being the only one with serious answers.
Considering i've been talking to her for 2 months i thought i might as well try to get her to go down and hit it since i've already wasted so much time on her. A true relationship is more or less out of question. What would you say?
I've known about this stuff for years, but love can be pretty damn blinding sometimes. As for the setup, should i start ignoring her more and more for the weekend or should i go for the "serious relationship type guy" until she visits because she mentioned that she could only lose her virginity...
Thank you. I thought about gettin her drunk if she visits over the weekend, and if she doesnt let me hit then im calling it quits. Is one try enough or is it worth giving it another shot?
Can you at least help me decide whether i should keep going on with her because she seems pretty good otherwise and pursue a relationship or just try to at least hit it before we call it quits? Because i really need some ideas of how i can get her to loosen up.
I actually knew of all the red flags, it's just that pussy is blinding sometimes. I'm 20 now lol.
I'm pretty sure she ain't fucking because we talk too much to each other unfortunately. I even need to find a way to cut contact with her but still get to hit it this weekend.
It's not like it's the worst thing ever, or that bad, it wasn't just what i expected of her and feel like she is a big ass hypocrite for acting so hard to get and talking about how careful she is when she's not even too different from others.
She said however that she can consider losing her...