I remember when Not Afraid hit the radio most EM fans were strongly disappointed felt he had gone too mainstream. They were willing to let Relapse go (started losing fans then IMHO) and give him another chance.
Felt it was too pop and out of place
it's either or or it depends:
I've run across good looking women who are smart however their personality killed it for them
Good looking/ugly looking females BOTH can be put on pedestals
If you're hip enough to observe the subtitlies and whatnot you can easily notice