I'm working on not being so nice. I got a habit of wanting the best for everybody around me so I'll give or do anything for the people I love to better their situations and that line between helping and being used gets crossed far to often. I need to focus more on me and not worry about other folks.
*woman post* Is your cousins party something she can't attend? If not, then why don't you tell her ya'll can go to the dinner then to your cousins party... If she can't got to the party then tell her you'll go to dinner but u'll have to bail out on the other events because you already made plans...
I only have 2 real friends and our secret is honesty. We don't lie or sugar coat anything when we talk to each other.
Another thing that protects us from all the drama is that each of us genuinely love each other and support each other. I don't think I am better or less than either of them and...