wedding invites?

[playmaker88]

Family first..

Imo i cant see myself inviting anyone to a wedding other than family that i dont fuck with on a regular or are old .."real friends"

skim it

 

[7figz]

I thought a wedding was for the benefit of the couple ?

As in the more people come, the better... (more gifts, etc...)

In that case, invite'em all and let'em not RSVP.

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Then again, WTF I know, I ain't married.

 

[Dupac]

Family first..

Imo i cant see myself inviting anyone to a wedding other than family that i dont fuck with on a regular or are old .."real friends"

skim it

the whole thing is, should i send invites based on who i think would come?

cuz like there's a few people it would be pretty insulting to not send them an invite... but at the same time....i wouldn't be suprised at all if they didn't come... it-'s one of those things i'm not sure on the right action i guess..

 

[playmaker88]

the whole thing is, should i send invites based on who i think would come?

cuz like there's a few people it would be pretty insulting to not send them an invite... but at the same time....i wouldn't be suprised at all if they didn't come... it-'s one of those things i'm not sure on the right action i guess..

Its an INVITATION

besides you know half them mofos are showing up for the food and the bar its gonna be you wifey.. and your fam in the church lol... at the reception its gonna be "Cousin P"

Gotta think of budget considerations fuck feelings

 

[King Erauno]

just make sure u dont have open bar, unless u bawlin

 

[Nthngis4vr]

the whole thing is, should i send invites based on who i think would come?

cuz like there's a few people it would be pretty insulting to not send them an invite... but at the same time....i wouldn't be suprised at all if they didn't come... it-'s one of those things i'm not sure on the right action i guess..

I'd still send an invitation to certain family and close friends. But if you don't want/can't afford to, they'll get over it.

 

[dalyricalbandit]

just make sure u dont have open bar, unless u bawlin

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[Dupac]

i think made the mistake of prematurely telling too many ppl i needed their addresses..

i got overly excited...

 

[usmarin3]

Save yourself the money, have a intimate wedding and use the money towards a down payment of a house. Niggas worry too much about impressing people and shit.

 

[playmaker88]

Save yourself the money, have a intimate wedding and use the money towards a down payment of a house. Niggas worry too much about impressing people and shit.

what i would do.. wedding is just the party.. the Marriage is what you should invest in

 

[blackrain]

300 people? that's alot of people...hell even 150 is alot of damn people IMO...I'm not that close with nor do I want that many people at my wedding...that's when you're just doing shit for show

 

[Dupac]

good advice...real talk....

we'll see....

 

[J-GUTTA]

From what I've seen even when people RSVP some still don't show up and if your paying by plate that can add up yo. Save the money on the reception and put it towards the Honeymoon and potential new crib. Also tell them damn people the wedding starts at least an hour before hand people all late and shit to my brothers wedding walking in during the vows and when they were walking down the isle was madd wack of them.

 

[kevmic]

okay...hoping this thread doesn't get greatly derailed (which i know is expecting a lot)

i'm curious of a realistic number of people that might rsvp to my wedding....

after great cconsolidation, i'm still at like 150 guests, and my lady is up there around 200.....

i know damn well 350 people ain't coming... maybe 300 and that's being optimistic.....

but that leads me to an interesting dilemma.....

should skim my list even more...or just let people count themselves out by not rsvp-ing.....

thoughts??

Depending on the cost and venue. I had just 100 people at my wedding. Mainly because the location and cost of food and an open bar was high as shit. But keep your list limited to folks you would really want to see there, and folks you know will be there. Because just because you invite like 350 people. You might only get half of them to actually RSVP, then you'll be out on some money. But 300 is a solid number, and if they don't rsvp then they just missed out. Because if you don't stick to that then it will be unwanted stress added to an already stressful day.