The Psychology of Skinny: After losing/gaining weight

[jay83]

This is basically a thread for people who used to be fat/skinny.

1. Did you go from fat to skinny, or skinny to fat.

2. How did it happen?

3. How did your change in body type affect your mentality.

4. How did your change in body type affect the way you are perceived.

For me: I recently lost about 40 pounds. I've been chubby/fat all my life and I achieved the weight loss through a rigorous work out and smaller food portions. The weight loss definitely changed my mentality, whereas I used to be very depressed a lot and would be less confident about girls, now I'm a lot happier and I think I'm the shit. Ironically, when I was fat I used to hate other fat people and blame them for being lazy/greedy, but now that I'm leaner I find myself feeling sorry for the overweight and I always speak up when I hear someone making fun of fat people. In terms of how I'm perceived, It's ridiculous how shallow girls can be. Nothing in my personality changed, but girls who used to turn me down constantly are now all up on me. I realized that girls are just as shallow as men about physical appearance, but hey, who am I to turn them down cuz I'm offended? Add on

lol. Thats no different than a fat chick who loses 40 pounds and complains that she gets asked out on dates all the time. But "when I was fat, no dudes were checking for me." What did you think was gonna happen?

Healthcare aint cheap. lol

 

[DarcSkies777]

We're all shallow bruh. Dont act like when you was a fat ass youw as knocking down every single chick that you could because you WANTED to.

If you was a rich, fit, attractive black male you telling me you'd have stayed fuckin the same chicks you was fucking when you was a fat nigga?

We're all shallow, every single one of us. No need in acting like we're not.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Yeah, I get what y'all are saying, but I always hear chicks complaining about how shallow men are, my point is they are just as shallow

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

I went from skinny to not skinny. and i wanna be skinny again.

 

[J-GUTTA]

I went from Chubby/Fat to just fat 12 months ago. So I got so sick of the way I felt healthwise, I would feel tired walking up 3 flights of stairs. So I started going to the gym 5 days minimum stopped eating fastfood. 1 year later -61lbs. I feel real good about it too B. Madd people that haven't seen me are all surprised. I never had a problem pulling women when I was on the fat side B but losing all this weight most def gets attention.

 

[Based GAWD]

I rock skinnies

[video=youtube;BgYdFMoBtB4]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgYdFMoBtB4[/video]

 

[DarcSkies777]

I went from skinny to not skinny. and i wanna be skinny again.

Whats the matter mary janeeeee, been a harrrrd dayyy?

As you place the dont disturb signnnn...on the doooor.

 

[texas409]

my weight fluctuates i think i got a thyroid problem

 

[Bwoahmizzee]

I've never been fat but I was chubby until the age of 13 or 14

hit a growth spurt and I was skinny all off a sudden

nowadays I can gain/lose whenever I want to

 

[Prim-O Cla$$ic]

This is basically a thread for people who used to be fat/skinny.

1. Did you go from fat to skinny, or skinny to fat.

2. How did it happen?

3. How did your change in body type affect your mentality.

4. How did your change in body type affect the way you are perceived.

For me: I recently lost about 40 pounds. I've been chubby/fat all my life and I achieved the weight loss through a rigorous work out and smaller food portions. The weight loss definitely changed my mentality, whereas I used to be very depressed a lot and would be less confident about girls, now I'm a lot happier and I think I'm the shit. Ironically, when I was fat I used to hate other fat people and blame them for being lazy/greedy, but now that I'm leaner I find myself feeling sorry for the overweight and I always speak up when I hear someone making fun of fat people. In terms of how I'm perceived, It's ridiculous how shallow girls can be. Nothing in my personality changed, but girls who used to turn me down constantly are now all up on me. I realized that girls are just as shallow as men about physical appearance, but hey, who am I to turn them down cuz I'm offended? Add on

I lost 52 pounds: 207 to 155

I ain't change mentally or nothing like that....chicks was still feeling my style an' wanted to touch my penis....I mean, I was still handsome, just thinner.

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

Whats the matter mary janeeeee, been a harrrrd dayyy?

As you place the dont disturb signnnn...on the doooor.

lmao u are so dumb

 

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[J-GUTTA]

I lost 52 pounds: 207 to 155

I ain't change mentally or nothing like that....chicks was still feeling my style an' wanted to touch my penis....I mean, I was still handsome, just thinner.

*daps*

249 to 188

 

[Dupac]

I lost 52 pounds: 207 to 155

I ain't change mentally or nothing like that....chicks was still feeling my style an' wanted to touch my penis....I mean, I was still handsome, just thinner.

...............................

 

[Prim-O Cla$$ic]

*daps*

249 to 188

*daps*

Good job J, that's phenominal.

That's take focus an' LOTS of willpower to do that.

 

[Prim-O Cla$$ic]

Does anorexic looking to a healthy skinny count?

You still got them thighs an' that booty......chea!!!!!!!

 

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[Prim-O Cla$$ic]

lol. I'm losing weight again though

Yo, you gotta stop.....you must keep ya booty an ' thighs......if you lose em', it's like Superman losing his cape or if Batman would stop being white.

It's that serious Ling.

 

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[QB - 4th Edition]

gaining and loosing weight makes ppl feel better about themselves????