Staying in a relationship out of convenience &/or pity....

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Geting out of it is difficult. The worst is when children stay in the middle. I know a female coworker that hasnt let her cheating man go because of her boy. As a solution she has also taken the cheating route .
 
Then comes the case where the sensation of dominating is felt by the mate who got the decision to break up. That feeling can be so high that the odds are low they cease the relationship.

 
my homey hit me with the...'bruh, i love her....but i'm not IN love with her' the other day when we was catching up and he mentioned he don't know how much longer he willing to stick around. this the same woman he been with for the last 10 years. and i be telling him, like, come on man, don't leave her u gonna regret it if u do i think u just trippin because arguments been happening. He insist that it's just convenience right now tho...cuz he's disabled a bit from a work injury, and stays with her...but says he knows if he had the option to burn out on his own he would do so

 
REAL TALK. . THAT'S WHY KATT IS STILL WITH TARR TARR...ITS CONVINCE FOR HER AND HER CHILD..DUDE GOT A LIL MONEY. ..EVERY MONDAY, SHE BE LIKE FUK THAT NGA...THIS AND THAT....BUT SHE STAYS CAUSE HE CHOPPIN THEM BILLS DOWN
 
Rock Well;6348432 said:
my homey hit me with the...'bruh, i love her....but i'm not IN love with her' the other day when we was catching up and he mentioned he don't know how much longer he willing to stick around. this the same woman he been with for the last 10 years. and i be telling him, like, come on man, don't leave her u gonna regret it if u do i think u just trippin because arguments been happening. He insist that it's just convenience right now tho...cuz he's disabled a bit from a work injury, and stays with her...but says he knows if he had the option to burn out on his own he would do so

Sounds like my uncle. He was with his wife for 15 years and he said he wanted to leave her. He said he just wanted to be alone. Everyone kept tellin him he was gonna regret it but he left her anyways. She ended up getting married again and now he's trying to get her to leave her husband to get back with him. My dad told him to keep trying lmao.
 
Rock Well;6348535 said:
goldenja;6348383 said:
they're just disrespecting themselves

how is this so?

well, outside looking in, there's many reasons why people stay in relationships that don't make them happy. so its impossible to pinpoint all the reasons. Some make sense, some don't

I guess its a known fact you don't own any person. You have the will to come & go as you please. but to make excuses to or for others of why you stay when things aren't going well is just bad. seems like a dependent/insecure problem & you have interior motives (hope I said that right..)

In the long run, it just seems disrespectful not to you're "S/O" but yourself as well.
 
INCREDIBLE_DRO;6348603 said:
REAL TALK. . THAT'S WHY KATT IS STILL WITH TARR TARR...ITS CONVINCE FOR HER AND HER CHILD..DUDE GOT A LIL MONEY. ..EVERY MONDAY, SHE BE LIKE FUK THAT NGA...THIS AND THAT....BUT SHE STAYS CAUSE HE CHOPPIN THEM BILLS DOWN

Smh
 
I'm convinced my homies bitch is cheating. I'm trying to tell him to kick her to the curb but he won't and I can't prove what I'm saying so he just keeps acting like everything is everything. Dude could net next pussy. I dunno what it is. She ain't even dime.
 
They might be thinking a change is gon come oneday. Like maybe that pity might turn to true love n what not....

Who am I kidding. That's just dumb tho a pity relationship.
 
INCREDIBLE_DRO;6348603 said:
REAL TALK. . THAT'S WHY KATT IS STILL WITH TARR TARR...ITS CONVINCE FOR HER AND HER CHILD..DUDE GOT A LIL MONEY. ..EVERY MONDAY, SHE BE LIKE FUK THAT NGA...THIS AND THAT....BUT SHE STAYS CAUSE HE CHOPPIN THEM BILLS DOWN

He isn't the only MFer with a little money.

I stay cause I love him.
 
s.free;6348721 said:
I'm convinced my homies bitch is cheating. I'm trying to tell him to kick her to the curb but he won't and I can't prove what I'm saying so he just keeps acting like everything is everything. Dude could net next pussy. I dunno what it is. She ain't even dime.

Seems like a sucka
 
s.free;6348721 said:
I'm convinced my homies bitch is cheating. I'm trying to tell him to kick her to the curb but he won't and I can't prove what I'm saying so he just keeps acting like everything is everything. Dude could net next pussy. I dunno what it is. She ain't even dime.

You seem like a hater.
 

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