Spouse with extended unemployment or spouse that's bad with money

[yellowtapesport]

i'll take the extended unemployed bitch for 400 Alex

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

oh that is hard. Being bad with money is not always easy to modify. My parents went through it. I really cant say. Yikes.

 

[blackrain]

I couldn't deal with someone who is bad with money. Unemployment..shit life happens and sometimes getting back on your feet ain't as easy as people pretend it is. Being bad with money is usually connected to their actual personality in a sense, usually being selfish and short sighted, and that's some shit I just can't rock with

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I couldn't deal with someone who is bad with money. Unemployment..shit life happens and sometimes getting back on your feet ain't as easy as people pretend it is. Being bad with money is usually connected to their actual personality in a sense, usually being selfish and short sighted, and that's some shit I just can't rock with

do your ok with someone looking for a period of time then getting depressed and stopping all together around the year mark,?

they might even play the "stay at home parent is more valuable with no pay. so I am saving the family money by not earning a living and taking care of the house" angle

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Give me #2 and access to his bank account and we good. Long as the bills are paid idgaf what he doin with his money

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Give me #2 and access to his bank account and we good. Long as the bills are paid idgaf what he doin with his money

an why you didn't want to marry me? what cuz I have a wife?

can't let the details come between us. only thing coming between us is a condom. an even that will stop after you get your check up.

you my heart peekaboo

 

[damnkp]

I'll take the willing worker

 

[Ghost313]

Option 2. I can help her manage ber money better, her heart may be in the right place spending the money, and I can guide her mental further along. Plus she works.

 

[Cinco]

I couldn't deal with #1.

At least he able to land something even if temporary.

#2 I'd just have to boss up and have her follow my lead. I'm relatively conservative with spending and great at managing money in vs out

 

[blackrain]

I couldn't deal with someone who is bad with money. Unemployment..shit life happens and sometimes getting back on your feet ain't as easy as people pretend it is. Being bad with money is usually connected to their actual personality in a sense, usually being selfish and short sighted, and that's some shit I just can't rock with

do your ok with someone looking for a period of time then getting depressed and stopping all together around the year mark,?

they might even play the "stay at home parent is more valuable with no pay. so I am saving the family money by not earning a living and taking care of the house" angle

I'm ok with failure because that at least means you're trying. I'm never ok with no effort at all. If it's depression then we can get whatever help is needed to begin to move past it. I don't think the stay at home parent thing is a card to play. For one I actually do think it's important for a family to do that if their lifestyle affords them that option. If it doesn't then she got to do something to bring in income

 

[kzzl]

Option 2. I never expected a woman to be good with money anyway.

 

[Lefty_]

Would you rather have a ship that just sails, or a ship that sinks?

 

[Lou Cypher]

Im bad with money. Last thing i need is a relationship with someone else whos bad with money.

 

[anduin]

if shes bad with money then she can't ever live with me or have any kind of access to my financials. Unemployed is whatever because I'll have her doing jobs in the house.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Give me #2 and access to his bank account and we good. Long as the bills are paid idgaf what he doin with his money

an why you didn't want to marry me? what cuz I have a wife?

can't let the details come between us. only thing coming between us is a condom. an even that will stop after you get your check up.

you my heart peekaboo

You ain't bout it hush up

 

[twenty2]

I'd rather she bring in SOMETHING and we work from there.....than bring in nothing at all... Especially if it's gon' lead to that "I just give up" phase.

 

[Inglewood_B]

My bread super straight at the moment to where I can handle an unemployed spouse if she willing to keep the house immaculate and have dinner ready when I get home from work...

I've lived with a woman who sucked with money, occasionally not comin through with their half of the rent/bills, spending money on stupid shit, credit all fucked up, always need gas money and in general just nickel and dime-ing me because her priorities is fucked up. There is nothing more frustrating

 

[Inglewood_B]

Bitch got her hair, nails and toes done but the gas get cut off because she "forgot" to pay the bill. Now you gotta get up extra early every morning to microwave 8 bowls of water to bird bath because you damn sure ain't takin no cold shower for a week because SoCal Gas make you wait 5-7 days before they reconnect your shit... then that bitch got the nerve... the audacity... the UNMITIGATED GALL to come knock on the bathroom door beggin for $2 so she can get a coffee on her way to work...

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Bitch got her hair, nails and toes done but the gas get cut off because she "forgot" to pay the bill. Now you gotta get up extra early every morning to microwave 8 bowls of water to bird bath because you damn sure ain't takin no cold shower for a week because SoCal Gas make you wait 5-7 days before they reconnect your shit... then that bitch got the nerve... the audacity... the UNMITIGATED GALL to come knock on the bathroom door beggin for $2 so she can get a coffee on her way to work...

yoooooooo

LMAO!!!

 

[NCswag]

Of course unemployment.