So one of my sexbuddies wants me to father figure to her daughter

[dalyricalbandit]

Dont do it she tryna trap u in my dude

 

[dreadlock rasta]

Damn homie, dont let the jump control u

 

[mr. mista xxlusive]

so whats da deal with the daughter?

 

[Nut Did N' Cider]

Fuck that lil nigga. I'm sure you ain't have a father either and u made it this far. Leave him be and he will grow up to use women for they sugawalls jus like the rest of us

 

[politicalthug202]

so whats da deal with the daughter?

my bad I meant her son.

 

[politicalthug202]

Fuck that lil nigga. I'm sure you ain't have a father either and u made it this far. Leave him be and he will grow up to use women for they sugawalls jus like the rest of us

actually me and my dad cool, but he didnt teach how to fight tho.

I grew up right next to a martial arts teacher.

 

[Pura~Diabla]

Only 3 months and she not only wants to introduce you to her spawn but wants you to be a fixture in his life? Bitch is insane. You better run!

 

[mryounggun]

Son, that's 100% YOUR fault, I hate to say. What you thought was gon' happen?

 

[kat2180]

so I met this chick at the gym like 3 months ago we been fucking

on and off for a minute, she mentiomn during some pillow talk

that her 8 yr old son been getting beat up in school,now usually

one of my rules is that I never meet or chill with a chicks kids, not me thinking

its not a big deal. I say I will teach the lil dude how to throw hands because I train

in Muay thai kick boxing and jujitsu so like twice a week for the last few weeks

I been taking him to the gym to train with me, everything seemed cool.

then during some pillow talk last night,she say that she glad

Im being a father figure to her son and she invites to go

to some amusement park with her and her family, MY EYES LID

UP THIS BITCH TRYING TO TURN ME INTO A DADDY,AND HAVE A FAMILY.

and shit, this chick is not even girlfreind material though to this point

she been cool. so Im ready to cut off all ties with this bitch and her son.

but I do want to finish training lil man,because he is getting bullied and has

really low self esteem,and he is getting better in his training and gaining confidence

and self esteem,I could just train for another week or so,then ask my buddy

who runs a mix martial arts school to train him for free as a favor.

what should I do in this situation,in any other instant,I would been cut out

but now I want to make sure the dude dont get bullied for life.

You need to keep it real. Why wouldn't she think you're down? Your actions are saying you're down.

Give her a card for Big Brothers of America on your way out.

 

[black caesar]

Man tell her ass you're not a rent-a-dad and to take care of her own baby. She's using use so she won't have to pay someone to teach him. Charge her to the game...

 

[politicalthug202]

You need to keep it real. Why wouldn't she think you're down? Your actions are saying you're down.

Give her a card for Big Brothers of America on your way out.

like me and her never went on a date or anything just to a dinner party together

the rest has just been all fucking,plus she one of them girls always saying she dont need

a man, she independent and she doing her right now it seem like a perfect fit.

plus freinds are always asking me to train with them or advice on that shit

so i really didnt think me eaching the kid how to box would lead to me being super step dad

 

[playmaker88]

I didnt read the OP but... really.. REALLY.. thats just all sorts of fucked up

 

[DarcSkies]

U know what you must do

Now have the courage to do it

Thats all imma say bruh.

 

[kevmic]

so I met this chick at the gym like 3 months ago we been fucking

on and off for a minute, she mentiomn during some pillow talk

that her 8 yr old son been getting beat up in school,now usually

one of my rules is that I never meet or chill with a chicks kids, not me thinking

its not a big deal. I say I will teach the lil dude how to throw hands because I train

in Muay thai kick boxing and jujitsu so like twice a week for the last few weeks

I been taking him to the gym to train with me, everything seemed cool.

then during some pillow talk last night,she say that she glad

Im being a father figure to her son and she invites to go

to some amusement park with her and her family, MY EYES LID

UP THIS BITCH TRYING TO TURN ME INTO A DADDY,AND HAVE A FAMILY.

and shit, this chick is not even girlfreind material though to this point

she been cool. so Im ready to cut off all ties with this bitch and her son.

but I do want to finish training lil man,because he is getting bullied and has

really low self esteem,and he is getting better in his training and gaining confidence

and self esteem,I could just train for another week or so,then ask my buddy

who runs a mix martial arts school to train him for free as a favor.

what should I do in this situation,in any other instant,I would been cut out

but now I want to make sure the dude dont get bullied for life.

I get why you're not trying to get caught up or trapped by this woman. But you said yourself she seems cool and you don't have a problem with lil man. I think if you just sit her down and let her know that she is moving too fast and need to pump her brakes on the whole "Daddy" move she's trying to make on the sly. But it's obvious that lil man has no real male figure in his life, and needs one. So you don't have to be the boy's daddy, but our men do need to step up when we can. Hell they punk ass daddies ain't doing it so who will??

 

[politicalthug202]

I get why you're not trying to get caught up or trapped by this woman. But you said yourself she seems cool and you don't have a problem with lil man. I think if you just sit her down and let her know that she is moving too fast and need to pump her brakes on the whole "Daddy" move she's trying to make on the sly. But it's obvious that lil man has no real male figure in his life, and needs one. So you don't have to be the boy's daddy, but our men do need to step up when we can. Hell they punk ass daddies ain't doing it so who will??

naw im a role model to kids that I know,but i keep it strict distance from chicks that im fucking.

I broke it off with ol girl in a teext today,and told her im going to train her son on the basics then

get him to a gym for free with one of my freinds. she was all aplogetic and whiny,and didnt mean for me to take it the wrong way.

 

[Idiopathic Joker]

you need to scott peterson that bitch before she go too far

 

[El oh El]

naw im a role model to kids that I know,but i keep it strict distance from chicks that im fucking.

I broke it off with ol girl in a teext today,and told her im going to train her son on the basics then

get him to a gym for free with one of my freinds. she was all aplogetic and whiny,and didnt mean for me to take it the wrong way.

You were doing too much bruh. I mean, if she was just a sex buddy, why talk on the phone? Why even meet the lil man?

Man, you like this girl. Keep training her kid! Hell, give her a lil child support money! The way it sounds, you are on the way..

 

[S2J]

but I do want to finish training lil man

Most important words in this thread.

She got yo ass. That shyt wasnt happenstance ngga lol she gamed ya ass. Aint even no bully lmao

Now what you shooooould have done is taken cue from Rodney in Baby Boy or Cam on Purple Haze

"oh what you built you a fort, lil man...."

[Cam'ron:] Hey Yo Shorty Wuts Going On Wuts Popin'

[Girl:] oh shit wuts up killa wuts going on

[Cam'ron:] Hey Yo I'm trying to go out of town U tryin' to go wit me

[Girl:] how long U goin' 4

[Cam'ron:] look man that shit dont mader wut U gonna do comin' or not

[Girl:] well I got my kids killa wuts up wut about my kids

[Cam'ron:] Man fuck ur kids man U comin' or not

Girl:] Yea I'm comin'

[Cam'ron:] K get in bitch

[Girl:] Yeah they grandma can watch them

 

[UPTOWN]

yo dont listen to these fuckin airheads in here. if you teach muy thai training etc, unless its specifically for adults, you are gonna meet a ton of kids. i coach youth sports and the moms ask me out on dates etc yadaa yaa just like this situation. most dont want you to be the kids dad like you moving in and buying him xbox, putting him on your benefits plan at work and all that. this is just a simple case of mixed signals. she wants to holla at you on that level but at the same time she is starting to realize that no matter how hard she tries, she cant teach lil dude how to be a man because she is not one. dont feel special, because she would ask this of any upstanding man. you dont have to be the lil dudes dad, she just wants you to give him a lil game thats all. which you should, cause its no sweat off your brow.
as far as her moving up from jump off status you have to let her know where you stand

 

[UPTOWN]

oh yeah, all the cats talking bout she trying to trap you dont know shit. you're smashing right?? so if she wanted to trap you why wouldnt she just use the oldest trick in the book?? getting pregnant LOL

ive had plenty of situations where moms tried to holla, once i told them where i stand, its not like they took their kid off the team LOL. niggas is childish as fuck (not saying you are) if she was trying to trap you, you wouldnt have made this thread. women dont try to trap men emotionally with their kids. there is a new breed out there.