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Should We Continue to Paint this Picture of Marriage to the Next Gen?
So lets just have a generation of bastards. I am no a true advocate of marriage because it is a choice an individual should make on his own. But if you want to spend your life with a woman and you want her to have your kids. Marriage! If for Insurance purposing only! LOL!
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I don't think that Marriage is the problem. It's everything leading up to it that adds to the problem, and makes it difficult for marriages to last amongst our generation. No one is saving it for marriage anymore, women are popping out 3-4 kids and then expect the next man to do the right thing and marry her ass eventhough none of the kids are his. Men who don't even have any investments or own anything yet wanna fuck everything moving, and isn't prepared to provide for the woman or child. Not to mention a generation of people who grew up in broken homes meaning minus a father or mother, so really wouldn't even know the first thing about marriage or how to maintain one because the never had a model to follow.
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kevmic;2024959 said:I don't think that Marriage is the problem. It's everything leading up to it that adds to the problem, and makes it difficult for marriages to last amongst our generation. No one is saving it for marriage anymore, women are popping out 3-4 kids and then expect the next man to do the right thing and marry her ass eventhough none of the kids are his. Men who don't even have any investments or own anything yet wanna fuck everything moving, and isn't prepared to provide for the woman or child. Not to mention a generation of people who grew up in broken homes meaning minus a father or mother, so really wouldn't even know the first thing about marriage or how to maintain one because the never had a model to follow.
100% co-sign
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jusdre313;2024851 said:i agree man. we need to be the generation that points out marragie aint easy.. but most importantly its not fucking mandatory nor some shit you should strive for like its a life goal (directed more towards chicks) ......
You know that the majority of females will not be part of this movement, nor will judges, divorce lawyers, and government. They all stand to lose too much.
kevmic;2024959 said:I don't think that Marriage is the problem. It's everything leading up to it that adds to the problem, and makes it difficult for marriages to last amongst our generation. No one is saving it for marriage anymore, women are popping out 3-4 kids and then expect the next man to do the right thing and marry her ass eventhough none of the kids are his. Men who don't even have any investments or own anything yet wanna fuck everything moving, and isn't prepared to provide for the woman or child. Not to mention a generation of people who grew up in broken homes meaning minus a father or mother, so really wouldn't even know the first thing about marriage or how to maintain one because the never had a model to follow.
What about the fact that divorces are so one-sided ?
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jusdre313;2024851 said:i agree man. we need to be the generation that points out marragie aint easy.. but most importantly its not fucking mandatory nor some shit you should strive for like its a life goal (directed more towards chicks) ......
i've never heard any married person say that marriage is easy...who told you that shit?
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7fIG;2025868 said:You know that the majority of females will not be part of this movement, nor will judges, divorce lawyers, and government. They all stand to lose too much.
What about the fact that divorces are so one-sided ?
Cosign this man
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The_Introvert
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I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with the institution of marriage. Its more an issue of the gradual moral deterioration of Western societies.
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Shizlansky
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Not a big fan of marrige and not against it, but kids that usually grow up with parents that are married is more productive in society..
And we need more productive ppl in this world
And we need more productive ppl in this world
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I'm divorced so I know a lil sumthin sumthin on marriage.................
IMHO this is where the problem lies.....in this modern day society I see there are 2 distinguished types of marriage which are:
Real Marriage
a.Genuine,authentic, and sincere love for each other
b. Possessing the loyalty, strength, understanding, and perseverance of withstanding both the good and bad times
c. Absolutely no barriers/ obstacles in effectively communicating with one another
d. NO HANGUPS/DRAMA WITH INTIMACY/SEX
Trendy Marriage
a. Influence from Reality TV that chronicles the subject of marriage (Real Housewives, Basketball Wives, etc.)
b. this competition or relay race regarding certain women that are hellbent on getting married FIRST
c. the irrationale of wanting to get married ONLY because one's (applies to male/female) friends are all married
d. Getting married ONLY because of monetary/superficial gain
I'm sure I've missed some more examples but this is all for now
IMHO this is where the problem lies.....in this modern day society I see there are 2 distinguished types of marriage which are:
Real Marriage
a.Genuine,authentic, and sincere love for each other
b. Possessing the loyalty, strength, understanding, and perseverance of withstanding both the good and bad times
c. Absolutely no barriers/ obstacles in effectively communicating with one another
d. NO HANGUPS/DRAMA WITH INTIMACY/SEX
Trendy Marriage
a. Influence from Reality TV that chronicles the subject of marriage (Real Housewives, Basketball Wives, etc.)
b. this competition or relay race regarding certain women that are hellbent on getting married FIRST
c. the irrationale of wanting to get married ONLY because one's (applies to male/female) friends are all married
d. Getting married ONLY because of monetary/superficial gain
I'm sure I've missed some more examples but this is all for now
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kevmic;2024959 said:I don't think that Marriage is the problem. It's everything leading up to it that adds to the problem, and makes it difficult for marriages to last amongst our generation. No one is saving it for marriage anymore, women are popping out 3-4 kids and then expect the next man to do the right thing and marry her ass eventhough none of the kids are his. Men who don't even have any investments or own anything yet wanna fuck everything moving, and isn't prepared to provide for the woman or child. Not to mention a generation of people who grew up in broken homes meaning minus a father or mother, so really wouldn't even know the first thing about marriage or how to maintain one because the never had a model to follow.
oldhead77;2030032 said:I'm divorced so I know a lil sumthin sumthin on marriage.................
IMHO this is where the problem lies.....in this modern day society I see there are 2 distinguished types of marriage which are:
Real Marriage
a.Genuine,authentic, and sincere love for each other
b. Possessing the loyalty, strength, understanding, and perseverance of withstanding both the good and bad times
c. Absolutely no barriers/ obstacles in effectively communicating with one another
d. NO HANGUPS/DRAMA WITH INTIMACY/SEX
Trendy Marriage
a. Influence from Reality TV that chronicles the subject of marriage (Real Housewives, Basketball Wives, etc.)
b. this competition or relay race regarding certain women that are hellbent on getting married FIRST
c. the irrationale of wanting to get married ONLY because one's (applies to male/female) friends are all married
d. Getting married ONLY because of monetary/superficial gain
I'm sure I've missed some more examples but this is all for now
And lets add how every male/female has the dream life of graduating at 21/22...getting married at 25....having kids at 28....and coasting through life by 30. Its a set up for failure.....
Oh and the belief that there is somebody out there for everybody. I'm sorry but nobody "deserves" to be married.
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newOldSchool
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Its like anything else... It's for some people and not for others... The reason so many fail is simple... too many people not cut out for marriage/or each other are being convinced that they should be married.
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Swiffness!
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I feel torn about this.
On the one hand, there are obviously lots of couples getting married that REALLY FUCKING SHOULDN'T.
On the other, less Marriage means less Fathers and more Baby Daddys.
On the one hand, there are obviously lots of couples getting married that REALLY FUCKING SHOULDN'T.
On the other, less Marriage means less Fathers and more Baby Daddys.
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The_Introvert;2028656 said:I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with the institution of marriage. Its more an issue of the gradual moral deterioration of Western societies.
* Round of applause * Some one please listen to this man! That's the problems folks. Decadent, fat, lazy selfishness is a celebrated attribute Euro/Western culture. That's the problem.
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Swiffness!;2031630 said:I feel torn about this.
On the one hand, there are obviously lots of couples getting married that REALLY FUCKING SHOULDN'T.
On the other, less Marriage means less Fathers and more Baby Daddys.
So what? Baby Daddy is just slang for an unmarried man who is the father of a child.
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CrownChakra
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Only if they paint the picture of divorce 60% of the time
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kevmic;2024959 said:I don't think that Marriage is the problem. It's everything leading up to it that adds to the problem, and makes it difficult for marriages to last amongst our generation. No one is saving it for marriage anymore, women are popping out 3-4 kids and then expect the next man to do the right thing and marry her ass eventhough none of the kids are his. Men who don't even have any investments or own anything yet wanna fuck everything moving, and isn't prepared to provide for the woman or child. Not to mention a generation of people who grew up in broken homes meaning minus a father or mother, so really wouldn't even know the first thing about marriage or how to maintain one because the never had a model to follow.
/ thread pls
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Shuffington
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Whats the alternative ?
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