I.B. Blackman
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What About The Kids??...
Baby mama drama exists because niggas treat the women they had a kid with like a designated hitter. We don’t want to be with her throwback ass, but when pussy rivers run dry, men will always try to dig in the crates. Niggas are quick to go buy little man a new toy so they can have a reason to go over and see if mama’s still keeping it tight. Those dudes who exploit their baby mama’s make other men afraid to deal with women with kids. The main reason guys are weary of chicks with kids from a previous relationship has nothing to do with those little smart mouth bastards who love to pout, “You ain’t my daddy“. It’s that sneaky nigga whose nut sack they came from that guys are worried about. Dealing with a girl who has a baby daddy is like buying a house with the realtor saying, “The last owner still has keys to the house and part of the deal is that they can stop by anytime. I’m not saying they’ll steal anything or take a shit in your toilet… but they might“. I’m sure most women are strong enough to cut the father of their children off from the juice box, but I’ve talked to several women via email who had the problem of creeping with their baby daddy. One lady told me she didn’t even think the sex with her baby daddy was as good as the sex she had with her current boyfriend, but she couldn’t resist him because of their “bond”. If you don’t trust yourself around your kid’s father then don’t let his ass in the house. Just because you have kids doesn’t mean he can come over anytime he wants. This is why they have custody laws, to keep them at a distance. You come over on this day and pick him up at this time—it can’t be any simpler than that. If you want to talk about extra time, negotiate over the phone, not while he’s sliding on a condom ready to beat it up, “one last time“. Stop using these kids as an excuse to fuck your Ex. Just because he drops junior off after his football game doesn’t mean you have to reward the nigga with pussy.
It’s Not You I Want....
If we’re going to keep socializing after we break up then I’m going to try and hit that at least once a month… twice during my birthday month. Women know this, no female is that naïve to think that a guy she was fucking for three months is going to give up the kitty cold turkey and hang with her because of her amazing personality. You don’t need your Ex as your friend, you’re inviting temptation and begging to be taken advantage of. I had an Ex call me to vent about her man, it ended with me having sex with her in that man’s apartment the next day. That wasn’t cool, that was me being a fucked up human being and using her moment of weakness to bust a nut. A real friend would not have done something like that, and that’s the point, I wasn’t her real friend I was her Ex-Boyfriend— clarify people. There are good women and good men out there who can be friends with their Exes and keep it professional so to speak. Then there are assholes like me and the people I’m friends with who don’t respect your new relationship and will try to smash just for the hell of it. It’s like the movie Highlander. These immortals can live forever, yet they fight each other whenever they cross paths, cutting their rival’s heads off and taking their power so they can be the only one that lives forever. Common sense would say let’s not fight, we all win if we live life normally. Fuck that, “there can be only one“, that’s the Highlander motto. And that’s the motto of people who continue to fuck with their Ex’s after they move on. You have someone you like, you’re happy, but I’m going to temp you into fucking me one more time, not because I want to be with you again, I just want to prove that I can hit. It’s not jealousy over your new boo, it’s power tripping. Men and women both allow themselves to be manipulated into destroying their current relationships because their Ex is a Highlander. I’m not going to lie, I’ve made it a habit to smash most of my Ex-Girlfriends after they were in new relationships and now that I look back on it, I do feel bad for doing that. But it takes two people to fuck, which brings me back to the original point. You can have will power, you can have smarts, but you cannot make up for the Ex-Factor, that possibility that when you’re alone with that person who you have so much history with, there is a huge chance that you will do something to fuck up your current relationship. Do not let your past ruin your future because you are too weak to say goodbye.
http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2011/09/sex-with-your-ex.html
Baby mama drama exists because niggas treat the women they had a kid with like a designated hitter. We don’t want to be with her throwback ass, but when pussy rivers run dry, men will always try to dig in the crates. Niggas are quick to go buy little man a new toy so they can have a reason to go over and see if mama’s still keeping it tight. Those dudes who exploit their baby mama’s make other men afraid to deal with women with kids. The main reason guys are weary of chicks with kids from a previous relationship has nothing to do with those little smart mouth bastards who love to pout, “You ain’t my daddy“. It’s that sneaky nigga whose nut sack they came from that guys are worried about. Dealing with a girl who has a baby daddy is like buying a house with the realtor saying, “The last owner still has keys to the house and part of the deal is that they can stop by anytime. I’m not saying they’ll steal anything or take a shit in your toilet… but they might“. I’m sure most women are strong enough to cut the father of their children off from the juice box, but I’ve talked to several women via email who had the problem of creeping with their baby daddy. One lady told me she didn’t even think the sex with her baby daddy was as good as the sex she had with her current boyfriend, but she couldn’t resist him because of their “bond”. If you don’t trust yourself around your kid’s father then don’t let his ass in the house. Just because you have kids doesn’t mean he can come over anytime he wants. This is why they have custody laws, to keep them at a distance. You come over on this day and pick him up at this time—it can’t be any simpler than that. If you want to talk about extra time, negotiate over the phone, not while he’s sliding on a condom ready to beat it up, “one last time“. Stop using these kids as an excuse to fuck your Ex. Just because he drops junior off after his football game doesn’t mean you have to reward the nigga with pussy.
It’s Not You I Want....
If we’re going to keep socializing after we break up then I’m going to try and hit that at least once a month… twice during my birthday month. Women know this, no female is that naïve to think that a guy she was fucking for three months is going to give up the kitty cold turkey and hang with her because of her amazing personality. You don’t need your Ex as your friend, you’re inviting temptation and begging to be taken advantage of. I had an Ex call me to vent about her man, it ended with me having sex with her in that man’s apartment the next day. That wasn’t cool, that was me being a fucked up human being and using her moment of weakness to bust a nut. A real friend would not have done something like that, and that’s the point, I wasn’t her real friend I was her Ex-Boyfriend— clarify people. There are good women and good men out there who can be friends with their Exes and keep it professional so to speak. Then there are assholes like me and the people I’m friends with who don’t respect your new relationship and will try to smash just for the hell of it. It’s like the movie Highlander. These immortals can live forever, yet they fight each other whenever they cross paths, cutting their rival’s heads off and taking their power so they can be the only one that lives forever. Common sense would say let’s not fight, we all win if we live life normally. Fuck that, “there can be only one“, that’s the Highlander motto. And that’s the motto of people who continue to fuck with their Ex’s after they move on. You have someone you like, you’re happy, but I’m going to temp you into fucking me one more time, not because I want to be with you again, I just want to prove that I can hit. It’s not jealousy over your new boo, it’s power tripping. Men and women both allow themselves to be manipulated into destroying their current relationships because their Ex is a Highlander. I’m not going to lie, I’ve made it a habit to smash most of my Ex-Girlfriends after they were in new relationships and now that I look back on it, I do feel bad for doing that. But it takes two people to fuck, which brings me back to the original point. You can have will power, you can have smarts, but you cannot make up for the Ex-Factor, that possibility that when you’re alone with that person who you have so much history with, there is a huge chance that you will do something to fuck up your current relationship. Do not let your past ruin your future because you are too weak to say goodbye.
http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2011/09/sex-with-your-ex.html
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