See, this thread is making me confirm my thoughts on younger chicks even more. Love is subjective now. Ain't no real Romeo juliet shit going on in this day and age... natural biology trumps all. Things like conversation, chemistry, you can find it with women of ANY age, so why not younger one.
Marrying Older vs Marrying Younger Woman (Biology, Age, Sex, Drop Some Knowledge)
BOSSExcellence;6757627 said:
Tabernacle...
And im tellin yall fellas, let them broads choose.
A broad that you chasin dont respect you and will only settle for you once her options wear down.
A chick that choose you going to follow you and not give you grief. Just be sure you actually have a path worth travelling...
MoneyPowerRespect
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EmperorRises;6757720 said:
If a woman were to say that, that would be all kinds of golddiggers, hoes, used up..
ShiveDreadz;6757734 said:
You lost 'em with the underlined. Some men get this leader/follower shit confused. A real woman is not going to follow you down that rabbit hole and YOU don't know what's on the other side. With her being a real woman she will HELP you recognize that and come up with a plan b. But men want that woman to follow blindly and let the chips fall where they may.
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I'm not a man and I have a plan. Is that what you mean?
BOSSExcellence;6757627 said:
Yep...Shyt now I even feel guilty walkin by a lil young chick w/ her "boyfriend". Like bytch i SEE you lookin at me Lol A young chick know a grown ass man when she see it, while her dude still rockin white tees n J's. Its no comp. Them lil nggas lucky im a nice guy n dont take that thot. gimme yo girl lil nik
but i digress
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LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY
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YC11;6755842 said:
RELATIONSHIPS are not solely based on LOOKS. If looks and body shaoe is your unique PILLAR, you might ending up with a lot of separations imo. Women and men are not XBOX bundles. Sometimes its good to follow your instincts , to let the nature dictates your moves when it comes to relationships.
Whenver you try to make it 100 % logic, relationships end up tasteless and not sustainable in the long term. Why ? Cause elements that where making it doable may change.
Find the woman that pleases you. Do not commit the big mistake that is to find the woman that FITS THE ACTUAL BEAUTY AND BEHAVIOR STANDARDS. Inevitably, the odds are high that whenever it change you will change along. Your love and woman standards are yours, thats your liberty bruh.
Shape your own definition of happiness.
I am a visual creature, all men are. But I tend to be even more so. I am naturally a younger looking guy. Ugly fucks like Jay-Z is wifing up Beyonce, and truth be told, they look natural together, no matter what people say about his looks. Not that I am looking for someone 12 years younger. I will say it this way, of course love is not based on just looks, if it were so, all men would be wifing up older women, why is it that men go for younger and women go for older in general. We are talking generation after generation after generation from all cultures and walks of life, some greater gap than others. Check the stats.
I admit 2 year gap isn't TOO MUCH on the surface, I've seen many happily ever after's, or at least ones that lasted quiet a bit. Beckhams are doing it... so far. But seriously, looks do play part. Would you be with a woman that looks or may end up looking 10 years older than you? They say men are shallow, but women would not want to look older than their hubbies either, it's damaging to the soul.
I admit 2 year gap isn't TOO MUCH on the surface, I've seen many happily ever after's, or at least ones that lasted quiet a bit. Beckhams are doing it... so far. But seriously, looks do play part. Would you be with a woman that looks or may end up looking 10 years older than you? They say men are shallow, but women would not want to look older than their hubbies either, it's damaging to the soul.
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LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY
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KS11;6758087 said:
Bruh WHAT ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT DEEP INSIDE YOU? Stats are what they are : informations that have political and economical purpuses for the most.
Its all about you as a free individual. Thats the key to a successfull and sustainable relationship : when you follow YOUR WILL AND INSTINCTS.
What does your heart and guts tell you about it ?
My heart and guts tell me I will outgrow her, and she will age faster. I feel as though not just me, but she will be uncomfortable for this, not good for her image, nor mine.
But we are doing fine at the moment. Hence, she is right for me at the moment. But I feel like the younger will suit me better later on. Older one matches me now because of the stage of life we are both at, but couple of years from now when the younger one gets more mature, and I approach my prime, natural selection will pick her.
Btw, I am not necessarily talking about THAT specific younger girl, it could be any other younger girl.
But we are doing fine at the moment. Hence, she is right for me at the moment. But I feel like the younger will suit me better later on. Older one matches me now because of the stage of life we are both at, but couple of years from now when the younger one gets more mature, and I approach my prime, natural selection will pick her.
Btw, I am not necessarily talking about THAT specific younger girl, it could be any other younger girl.
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KS11;6758707 said:
Aging depends on your lifestyle bruh.
In our nowadays world i know some women who are 40 that look way better that some junk food eaters lol. Lifestyle determines a lot.
Dont commit that mistake bruh. We only live once.
I know aging depends.
I've grown up banging women in their early to mid to late 40's... then early to mid 30's.
They were all youthful, and in shape. Aged better than majority of the population.
This girl I have now, even though she takes care of herself, she simply looks older than me. She drinks too. Although she works out to keep in shape, and tries to eat healthy, her hands are already showing aging, I see it and I feel it when I hold her.
Now this does not mean just because I pick a 20 year old chick she will age any better, maybe she will age like fucking milk, by the time she's 30, she may be finished, it all depends on the person.
The point I am making is... why settle for less? I know and I am confident and I do things to stay active and young, besides my genetics, and she simply looks older than me already at 28, after 30, I know what will happen. I feel the age difference NOW imagine 5 years from now.
I've grown up banging women in their early to mid to late 40's... then early to mid 30's.
They were all youthful, and in shape. Aged better than majority of the population.
This girl I have now, even though she takes care of herself, she simply looks older than me. She drinks too. Although she works out to keep in shape, and tries to eat healthy, her hands are already showing aging, I see it and I feel it when I hold her.
Now this does not mean just because I pick a 20 year old chick she will age any better, maybe she will age like fucking milk, by the time she's 30, she may be finished, it all depends on the person.
The point I am making is... why settle for less? I know and I am confident and I do things to stay active and young, besides my genetics, and she simply looks older than me already at 28, after 30, I know what will happen. I feel the age difference NOW imagine 5 years from now.
Oh yeah, we do only live once. So why should I settle for less?
It works for beta dudes, and other underachievers who are not confident in themselves and their abilities to settle for much much older women or average women, I wanna work for more, my heart tells me I need to go for more.
P.S. Look at T.I. with Tiny, 5 years older. Look how they look together now, not calling T.I. a pussy or failure of course not, they have kids together different story, but look how people are clowning this guy on IC all the time. See where I'm going with this? Of course you shouldnt care what other people think but point I am making is.... look how many people on IC clown T.I. for being with Tiny.
It works for beta dudes, and other underachievers who are not confident in themselves and their abilities to settle for much much older women or average women, I wanna work for more, my heart tells me I need to go for more.
P.S. Look at T.I. with Tiny, 5 years older. Look how they look together now, not calling T.I. a pussy or failure of course not, they have kids together different story, but look how people are clowning this guy on IC all the time. See where I'm going with this? Of course you shouldnt care what other people think but point I am making is.... look how many people on IC clown T.I. for being with Tiny.
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Totally agree with that. I just felt that trying to sink a hook into a 20 year old who hasnt lived even like a normal 20 year old would be too much... women need time to grow. If it was that easy to commit, everyone would be married before 25, which is not a great idea, people do change alot from early to late 20's. I'm sure the 28 year old I am with now done wholllleeeeeeeee lotta shit before meeting me so yeah.
fuc_i_look_like
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Man I'm younger than you, and even I couldn't mess w/ a 20 y/o chick on nothing more than some physical shit. A 20 year old broad was in high school less than 2 years ago and prolly still got that annoying, immature high school mindset.
