Man parents are too soft these days.

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Don't think it's just parents, I believe it's people in general that live in this industrialized nation. Our parents and grandparents had to live in hard times. Life was not easy. Today too much comes way to easy which has made most (but not all) of us soft, including the way we raise our children. Go to some parts of the world where people still have to struggle to live and you will see a different story...
 
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what ever happen to good old fashion ass whopping parents are to soft these days

The same thing that happened to letting children work to death in mines (Industrial Revolution) or tossing babies (popular medieval sport), the more educated people are and the more advanced a civilization becomes, the more children come to be viewed as people (the same goes for women, ethnic/racial minorities, foreigners and eventually non-human animals, one day).
 
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Yea i dont get it...I dont have any kids but boy if they even attempted some of the shit i see in public
 
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man fuck that if a kid is acting out of line his ass is going to get spanked, i don't believe in hitting your kids all the time but if they deserve it then so be it.
 
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taeboo;3076323 said:
You can't pop your kids all out in the open like back in day. *shurgs*

this^^^^

and I especially see this phenomenon moreso with boys than girls

with so many black men being absent, and having their input invalidated.................we raising a generation of cotton soft lil niggaz

got a nephew, and this lil nigga is bad, I mean BAD

his moms give all kinds of excuses for his bullshit, but it basically just boils down to that he ain't being raised right

she gon tell me he got "ADD" that's why it's so hard for him to listen, she need to get him a prescription to control his issues

I told her she don't need to go to the doc for that, I can prescribe him an ol school ass whooping and watch him start acting right
 
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blakfyahking;3076478 said:
this^^^^

and I especially see this phenomenon moreso with boys than girls

with so many black men being absent, and having their input invalidated.................we raising a generation of cotton soft lil niggaz

got a nephew, and this lil nigga is bad, I mean BAD

his moms give all kinds of excuses for his bullshit, but it basically just boils down to that he ain't being raised right

she gon tell me he got "ADD" that's why it's so hard for him to listen, she need to get him a prescription to control his issues

I told her she don't need to go to the doc for that, I can prescribe him an ol school ass whooping and watch him start acting right[/QUOTE]

lmao c/s some kids just need that ass whooping.
 
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amenhotepiv;3076532 said:
ass whoopings is cool but u have to talk to these kids b4 they act bad

bruh, that shit don't work with some headstrong kids like the ones in my family

you just gotta bust that ass for them to get right

I was the same way, my moms used to burn serious calories bringing them tactics to a nigga when I was little

we didn't have all these excuses like ADD and shit back then
 
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lol @ people sayin you can't pop your kids in public

i'd back hand his chest if my kid did some shit like that, then again my child would never act that way
 
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blakfyahking;3076610 said:
bruh, that shit don't work with some headstrong kids like the ones in my family

you just gotta bust that ass for them to get right

I was the same way, my moms used to burn serious calories bringing them tactics to a nigga when I was little

we didn't have all these excuses like ADD and shit back then

Yeah.. I was a bad ass little kid then.. Mother wouldn't hesitate for a second.. Should would pop the shit out of me in front everybody. Father.. I had to run from that nigga.. Had chase me all throughout the house.. Had him doing miles and shit.. LMAO.Remember in 4 grade.. I did some shit to the teacher.. I put them bulletin nails.. You the know those nails that you clip papers to the wall? I me and another kid put them in her seat as she was talking to another teacher in the hallway. As she walk in sat back down.. We had evil grin on our faces.. Next thing you know she jump out the chair like rocket launcher.. The whole class laughing their ass off.. She look at.. She knew It was me. So after school.. I notice my mother was in the principal office with the teacher. So she came out. and something was missing on her waist.. Next thing you know.. bam.. I didn't even see the belt.. She whoop my ass in the hallway in front of everybody.. Then we got home..she fuck me up some more.. LMAO.. Can't even imagine.. Had me by my throat/collar shirt.. While the belt was hitting that ass.. My mother was oldschool by the way from south side Chicago..
 
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blakfyahking;3076478 said:
this^^^^

and I especially see this phenomenon moreso with boys than girls

with so many black men being absent, and having their input invalidated.................we raising a generation of cotton soft lil niggaz

got a nephew, and this lil nigga is bad, I mean BAD

his moms give all kinds of excuses for his bullshit, but it basically just boils down to that he ain't being raised right

she gon tell me he got "ADD" that's why it's so hard for him to listen, she need to get him a prescription to control his issues

I told her she don't need to go to the doc for that, I can prescribe him an ol school ass whooping and watch him start acting right

lmaooo@the bolded, its that your conclusion to everything......you cant just generalize this to one race of people, i see this everywhere especially those bratty ass white kids

but yea asswhoopings in public are rare as fukk these days

at the end of the day kids gonna be kid, there unpredictable creatures lol
 
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Parenting is more than just beating the shit outta your kids. Lots of niggas in the clink had parents who used to beat they ass when they fucked up. You gotta instill discipline in your child early and a certain sense of respect. As sense of not just how to act right but why you should act right.
 
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blakfyahking;3076610 said:
bruh, that shit don't work with some headstrong kids like the ones in my family

you just gotta bust that ass for them to get right

I was the same way, my moms used to burn serious calories bringing them tactics to a nigga when I was little

we didn't have all these excuses like ADD and shit back then

Yeah my son's school tried to pull that he might have ADD shit with my son. Gave him a couple good ass whoopings and they never had a problem with him again.
 
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kai_valya;3076426 said:
it's not just parents, i really believe it takes a community effort to raise well-behaved, well-adjusted kids.]/B] my baby sister is 12 years younger than me. i remember i used to take her places/babysit, and she had enough respect for me as her older sister to listen/behave. but to teach a child respect you have to live that example.

children also need to be connected with on their level. i agree with huruma, whoopings and corporal punishment are not the answer. really explaining to children why their behaviour is wrong and what you want from them i think goes a lot farther than physical punishment. children should not do things because they understand that it's wrong/inappropriate, not because they fear physical repercussions.

this quote from great expectations sums up my entire argument pretty well


"It takes a village to raise a child". I remember when I was young if I got in trouble, the neighbors would beat my ass, tell my mom, and then I get another ass beating.
 
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