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what ever happen to good old fashion ass whopping parents are to soft these days
taeboo;3076323 said:You can't pop your kids all out in the open like back in day. *shurgs*
blakfyahking;3076478 said:this^^^^
and I especially see this phenomenon moreso with boys than girls
with so many black men being absent, and having their input invalidated.................we raising a generation of cotton soft lil niggaz
got a nephew, and this lil nigga is bad, I mean BAD
his moms give all kinds of excuses for his bullshit, but it basically just boils down to that he ain't being raised right
she gon tell me he got "ADD" that's why it's so hard for him to listen, she need to get him a prescription to control his issues
I told her she don't need to go to the doc for that, I can prescribe him an ol school ass whooping and watch him start acting right[/QUOTE]
lmao c/s some kids just need that ass whooping.
amenhotepiv;3076532 said:ass whoopings is cool but u have to talk to these kids b4 they act bad
blakfyahking;3076610 said:bruh, that shit don't work with some headstrong kids like the ones in my family
you just gotta bust that ass for them to get right
I was the same way, my moms used to burn serious calories bringing them tactics to a nigga when I was little
we didn't have all these excuses like ADD and shit back then
blakfyahking;3076478 said:this^^^^
and I especially see this phenomenon moreso with boys than girls
with so many black men being absent, and having their input invalidated.................we raising a generation of cotton soft lil niggaz
got a nephew, and this lil nigga is bad, I mean BAD
his moms give all kinds of excuses for his bullshit, but it basically just boils down to that he ain't being raised right
she gon tell me he got "ADD" that's why it's so hard for him to listen, she need to get him a prescription to control his issues
I told her she don't need to go to the doc for that, I can prescribe him an ol school ass whooping and watch him start acting right
blakfyahking;3076610 said:bruh, that shit don't work with some headstrong kids like the ones in my family
you just gotta bust that ass for them to get right
I was the same way, my moms used to burn serious calories bringing them tactics to a nigga when I was little
we didn't have all these excuses like ADD and shit back then
taeboo;3076323 said:You can't pop your kids all out in the open like back in day. *shurgs*
kai_valya;3076426 said:it's not just parents, i really believe it takes a community effort to raise well-behaved, well-adjusted kids.]/B] my baby sister is 12 years younger than me. i remember i used to take her places/babysit, and she had enough respect for me as her older sister to listen/behave. but to teach a child respect you have to live that example.
children also need to be connected with on their level. i agree with huruma, whoopings and corporal punishment are not the answer. really explaining to children why their behaviour is wrong and what you want from them i think goes a lot farther than physical punishment. children should not do things because they understand that it's wrong/inappropriate, not because they fear physical repercussions.
this quote from great expectations sums up my entire argument pretty well