Lou Cypher
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Lol
My roommate found out last week that he knocked this chick up. Met her at a bar, brought her over a couple times. Shes 28, with no job. Lives off of her grandparents currently. He paid her to have an abortion but she couldnt go through with it. Now shes keeping it because her family is "prone to having miscarriages" so its like a blessing for her cuz she thought she would never have children. Stupidest shit ive ever heard.
Ill keep yall updated as the story progresses.
My roommate found out last week that he knocked this chick up. Met her at a bar, brought her over a couple times. Shes 28, with no job. Lives off of her grandparents currently. He paid her to have an abortion but she couldnt go through with it. Now shes keeping it because her family is "prone to having miscarriages" so its like a blessing for her cuz she thought she would never have children. Stupidest shit ive ever heard.
Ill keep yall updated as the story progresses.
I Self Lord & Master
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Of course it is...one of our biggest falloffs was our families. Our grandparents didnt grow up in a neighborhood full of baby daddys n mommas
Simply put, that shit doesnt work, period. We have abt 50 years of proof to testify to that
We can talk black power all day, blk ain't NEVER A GONNS BE SHIT if we dont fix our families
Simply put, that shit doesnt work, period. We have abt 50 years of proof to testify to that
We can talk black power all day, blk ain't NEVER A GONNS BE SHIT if we dont fix our families
Meta_Conscious
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its a lame. Ppl can justify anything...
I Self Lord & Master;7588119 said:
What are you talking about?
Black people have formed different family structures since slavery. Single parent households/coparenting is nothing new under the sun. My grandmother is a product of that. So is my grandfather, and they are well into their 80s.
Also, I think that having strong family bases don't have to mean a two parent household. Racism and economic discrimination will continue to exist whether people have strong Black families or nah.
mryounggun
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Co-parenting when it's done right is a beautiful thing. PLANNED co-parenting? Saying to another person 'We're not together and will not be together...but let's have a baby together!' is idiotic.
mryounggun
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Lou_Cypher;7588116 said:
We don't need updates, fam. We seen this movie before.
s_a_m_r_i_o
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mryounggun;7588140 said:
You hit it right on the head. This is what is like.
I don't really believe having children by someone you don't plan on being with is a good long term solution for the parents or the child. (my personal opinion)
It's been proven that children do better with their mother and father raising them under the same roof.
I know sometimes life happens and but having children by someone you don't plan to be with long term isn't a sound plan and is setting ones self up for headache down the line.
I'm a stop right here because this subject seems to be a sensative spot for a lot of men and women here.
It's been proven that children do better with their mother and father raising them under the same roof.
I know sometimes life happens and but having children by someone you don't plan to be with long term isn't a sound plan and is setting ones self up for headache down the line.
I'm a stop right here because this subject seems to be a sensative spot for a lot of men and women here.
I don't even believe in having sex with people you have no future with.
You can't perform the act that produces children and then be surprised when children are produced.
Again and I think this is a bigger issue, is selfishness, it doesn't matter what your intentions are or how your relationship is if you or your mate are selfish as fuck nothing you try will work.
You can't perform the act that produces children and then be surprised when children are produced.
Again and I think this is a bigger issue, is selfishness, it doesn't matter what your intentions are or how your relationship is if you or your mate are selfish as fuck nothing you try will work.
babelipsss
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Co-parenting is just a nicer way to explain a sorry single parent situation. Kids still lose out. People with money don't like to be referred to as baby mama/daddy. Halle Berry co-parents.
Lou Cypher
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AP21;7588229 said:
Dunno he was adopted.
I Self Lord & Master
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Cunt_Lyfe;7588134 said:
You can give me all tge examples u want, that shit wasn't a STANDARD in their day.
We live in a nation and world ran by families. These are ppl passing down game n bread from generation to generation, save the bastard exceptions cause i don't care to here about exceptions. These are people OF defined structure and they went out and created and maintained structure.
That strong single parent family is a contradiction within itself cause regardless how "strong" someone may be solitude is a handicap, as would raising a kid alone would be. Teams > individuals, regardless of how extraordinary an individual can potentially be.
Racism and economic discrimination will forever exist until emerge from within it. Weak family structures didnt create the maelstrom were in and it damn sure won't create a reality to where black people wont have to wry about what white daddy is willing to provide
