If a woman [subliminally] calls a man "toxic," does the man have any shot with her?

[Blue Virgo]

Her calling you toxic doesn't have anything to do with her other actions...she still wants to be with you and is probably using that song as a way to tell you to not be that way with her anymore.

 

[Young_Chitlin]

Her calling you toxic doesn't have anything to do with her other actions...she still wants to be with you and is probably using that song as a way to tell you to not be that way with her anymore.

Thank you for your input Blue. I agree with what you said;however, I was being aggressive like what she is doing now before when we were together, and she was non-commital. Guess she could be cut some slack because we were both 17 year old kids who didn't know what it took to maintain a relationship, so that is why we were on/off. As I said, we talking for the first time in two years, so why would she be so quick to get into a relationship? I don't get it...

 

[Blue Virgo]

Well, first let me start by clarifying "she still wants to be with you"--I meant that as in be around you, spend time with you, be friendly with you.

Now, who's to say she's trying to get back into a relationship with you this fast?

Not to say it's not on her mind, but maybe she wants to take it slow and see where it leads--I don't know.

 

[Young_Chitlin]

Well, first let me start by clarifying "she still wants to be with you"--I meant that as in be around you, spend time with you, be friendly with you.

Now, who's to say she's trying to get back into a relationship with you this fast?

Not to say it's not on her mind, but maybe she wants to take it slow and see where it leads--I don't know.

Okay, that is what she basically said the other day when we talked. Alright I get it now

 

[Blue Virgo]

lol, if she said that what were you not getting?