I would never marry a broke man .......

[black caesar]

Nope. I don't mess with broke women. Can't argue with you there.

However, if some man were to say, they don't date fat women, you would feel a certain way about it.

Let me ask you this, if that man of means says to you that you need to lose weight to be with him, would you do it?

 

[2nd chances]

there's a difference between not getting with a guy because he's broke

and not getting with him because he doesnt have any potential........

u can have potential of possibly having something later but for now you're broke...........if a chick wont date that then she's an ass..

 

[High Revolutionary]

What constitutes broke to you?

That will determine whether your man's friend was right or not.

 

[fiat_money]

Word, fiat wouldn't fuck with fucking with a broke hoe, or even a hoe that has considerably less than him.

I approve of hoes doing the same.

 

[StoneColdMikey]

I aint saying she a gold digger, but she aint messing with no broke niggas.

 

[MsSouthern]

Someone who lives paycheck to paycheck with no ambition

Someone who job hops becasue they can't learn skills to stick something out

A grown man who works at places like McD's or Subway

Someone with no savings.. .or 401k or some kind of retirement. To me it shows no plans for the future

All of those = broke

 

[In Your Moms Room]

We got something in common, because neither would I.

 

[fiat_money]

We got something in common, because neither would I.

Yeh, but only a homo male would marry another male to begin with; broke or otherwise.

 

[Dupac]

cuz you stated something that can be viewed as materialistic as a reason not to marry...

richer or poorer doesn't apply to you, for better or worse doesn't seem to apply to your statement either...

relationships can be whatever, but when you opt to marry someone the love is supposed to be unconditional .....

so when you state a condition....by consequence you eliminated yourself from that consideration in the eyes of dude's homeboy....

i mean granted actions speak louder than words.. and many people end up doing shit they said they'd never do anyway, especially in the name of love...

but you set your self up for that one.. i can totally see where he was coming from...

 

[Iheart~Cali]

I see nothing wrong at all. Some men refuse to date fat women. Some women refuse to date broke men. Now there are some really good people out there who are fat or broke, but I can't say I blame someone for not wanting to date them. To each their own.

 

[haute]

The large numb of men with broke BMs and GFs baffles me

 

[fiat_money]

The large numb of men with broke BMs and GFs baffles me

Niggas are into that "true love" (Trademarked by The Walt Disney Company) fairy-tale shit.

 

[Dupac]

Someone who lives paycheck to paycheck with no ambition

Someone who job hops becasue they can't learn skills to stick something out

A grown man who works at places like McD's or Subway

Someone with no savings.. .or 401k or some kind of retirement. To me it shows no plans for the future

All of those = broke

i totally understand where you coming from, but you gotta understand how that sounds to someone who's looking for red flags....

life is crazy, anything can happen to anyone.....and while you're absolutely correct in associating those things with characteristics you may determine to be undesirable... that shit sounds like if for any reason shit gets rough for a guy, the woman he married is not going to be there for understanding and support....

one of a married man's #1 insecurities is his ability to provide....hence the reason why most men would view your statement as a turn off..even if he was sitting on 6-7 figures in savings....

 

[black caesar]

The large numb of men with broke BMs and GFs baffles me

NIGGAZ BE LYIN.. LONG AS SHE GOT A FAT ASS.. THEY WIFIN UP!

Maybe in the Southern states.

 

[BlackThor356]

Someone who lives paycheck to paycheck with no ambition

Someone who job hops becasue they can't learn skills to stick something out

A grown man who works at places like McD's or Subway

Someone with no savings.. .or 401k or some kind of retirement. To me it shows no plans for the future

All of those = broke

i totally understand where you coming from, but you gotta understand how that sounds to someone who's looking for red flags....

life is crazy, anything can happen to anyone.....and while you're absolutely correct in associating those things with characteristics you may determine to be undesirable... that shit sounds like if for any reason shit gets rough for a guy, the woman he married is not going to be there for understanding and support....

one of a married man's #1 insecurities is his ability to provide....hence the reason why most men would view your statement as a turn off..even if he was sitting on 6-7 figures in savings....

co sign...all of which ms southern had to know, which means at that BBQ she was....TROLLING!!! and good for you Ms. Southern, i hardly see u trolling, feels good doesnt it?

 

[Will Munny]

I would never a woman that already has a kid.

 

[LPast]

Good post Jones.

When men think about statements like that, they are considering what the woman would do if they were broke. So you look foul.

You said you wouldn't marry a broke man.... What they heard was that you would leave if he hit financial hardships.

 

[NoCompetition]

Great for you to have standards. I find women tend to have "standards" that go out the window easily and they slip up easily when choosing men. As a man my standards are more on a case by case basis, but i'll avoid or abandon ship quick if anything i deem unsuitable surfaces.

 

[MsSouthern]

@Du

I never said if things got bad I wouldn't be there for my man.......But why go into something knowing that it could be a failure?

I was being honest... why lie ???? My man had no issues with what I said. He told his friend if I was a broke chick with no goals he would have just fucked me a few times and kept it moving. So why is it an issue if a female says it?

I'm not using him for his money... I have my own career and assets... just like he does.

But together we are better #teamus

 

[ms.jones]

@Du...that's not what it sounds like at all. What she said should be taken at face value, and that is she wouldn't MARRY a broke man. What happens during the marriage is of no consequence in this matter.

Just like men say they would never marry a hoe, or they would never marry a woman that doesn't cook...they are setting the standard of what is acceptable, or a pre-requisite.