How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[deadeye]

Bitches know all about real men but yet still have babies with the wrong ones

yooooo lmaaaaaaoooo!!! This is what in my world we call the kill shot....u sir have won this day

Only to those in their 20's, it is. Like physically fighting people when you no longer have a viable response. That kind of shit excites children... not grown people. I have a juice box for you too.

@ me next time, the fade still on the table.

I have no problem @ you Pico. If I was addressing you I would have @'ed you. Elzo stated in our tiresome rant that he should set up a beers and something stupid event after u suggested we physically fight. His appreciation of adults fighting is what I was referencing. Shouldn't you be trying to find out who else Yams is/was/and would be fucking?

Naa I got tired of listening to old hoes business.

Yeah you the new hoe business.....do you boo

By old I meant literally old. Like the kinda old texasboi was referring to when talkin bout your struggle ass pic.

Like I said tho. Stfu or fight me.

I'm lost.


@pico .

@scorpio4lfe

When did this beef start?

I honestly don't have a beef with Pico. She felt like she had to cape for Yams and threw shots at me so I threw back. I don't fuck with that nigga, never mentioned that nigga and don't think about that nigga but it is what it is.

@scorpio4lfe .

Who the fuck is Yams?

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

I be seeing niggas taking care of they girls kids better than they biological kids. I don't see how they do the shit.

sociologically I d rather this happens than dudes complaining bout the lack of males figures and influence in these lil dudes lives....aint e always complaining bout the plight of the fatherless?

 

[damobb2deep]

I be seeing niggas taking care of they girls kids better than they biological kids. I don't see how they do the shit.

That could be because he has a strained relationship with his child's mother.. and she playing games and using the child to get back at him... I've seen that happen alot...

 

[DarcSkies]

Wait a minute bitch this is non-skid pavement level pimpin over here so I don't let shit slip by...

U smooth just tried 2 play the victim after the exchange didn't go your way. Typical female. Attack first then play innocent.

U took shit personal & failed 2 differentiate between your status as a mother & your worth as a human being.

YOU got defensive as if your being a mother was a negative for you. Others are just saying it would be a negative for a relationship. Big difference. You are projecting.

Nobody said u weren't worth a fuck cuz u a single mother. YOU are the one who stood others said as such. But they didn't. Once again ; Projecting.

Nobody said single mothers themselves were bad. Rather that single mothers may not be the best dating choice. Your taking offense to that reveals your deep seeded insecurity.

So in all your projection u revealed that it is YOU who see motherhood as a net negative in your life. You're in this thread projecting your perceived failure in good choices on everybody else.

So since u say I'm a psychologist it seems that secretly you are really angry at these dudes for reminding u of the consequence of your bad choices (less mating options, lower self esteem.)

And let's not even dig into how the things you've said in here-to the trained eye-imply that u secretly resent you're childfor for even existing.

Life would have been so much better without her wouldn't it? SO many more options in life right? And these types of conversations are yet another reminder of that isn't it?

We'll pick up this session tomorrow Scorpio. I think we had a good talk...

 

[700]

I fuck wit hoes that got kids

But I don't take any of them serious

I don't even wanna meet they kids

 

[scorpio4lfe]

Wait a minute bitch this is non-skid pavement level pimpin over here so I don't let shit slip by...

U smooth just tried 2 play the victim after the exchange didn't go your way. Typical female. Attack first then play innocent.

U took shit personal & failed 2 differentiate between your status as a mother & your worth as a human being.

YOU got defensive as if your being a mother was a negative for you. Others are just saying it would be a negative for a relationship. Big difference. You are projecting.

Nobody said u weren't worth a fuck cuz u a single mother. YOU are the one who stood others said as such. But they didn't. Once again ; Projecting.

Nobody said single mothers themselves were bad. Rather that single mothers may not be the best dating choice. Your taking offense to that reveals your deep seeded insecurity.

So in all your projection u revealed that it is YOU who see motherhood as a net negative in your life. You're in this thread projecting your perceived failure in good choices on everybody else.

So since u say I'm a psychologist it seems that secretly you are really angry at these dudes for reminding u of the consequence of your bad choices (less mating options, lower self esteem.)

And let's not even dig into how the things you've said in here-to the trained eye-imply that u secretly resent you're childfor for even existing.

Life would have been so much better without her wouldn't it? SO many more options in life right? And these types of conversations are yet another reminder of that isn't it?

We'll pick up this session tomorrow Scorpio. I think we had a good talk...

Nigga shut up and sit in time out. Obviously u read not a damn thing I said but I'm not going to repeat myself. Go to bed, @darkskies it's cleary past your bedtime, little guy.

 

[scorpio4lfe]

Bitches know all about real men but yet still have babies with the wrong ones

yooooo lmaaaaaaoooo!!! This is what in my world we call the kill shot....u sir have won this day

Only to those in their 20's, it is. Like physically fighting people when you no longer have a viable response. That kind of shit excites children... not grown people. I have a juice box for you too.

@ me next time, the fade still on the table.

I have no problem @ you Pico. If I was addressing you I would have @'ed you. Elzo stated in our tiresome rant that he should set up a beers and something stupid event after u suggested we physically fight. His appreciation of adults fighting is what I was referencing. Shouldn't you be trying to find out who else Yams is/was/and would be fucking?

Naa I got tired of listening to old hoes business.

Yeah you the new hoe business.....do you boo

By old I meant literally old. Like the kinda old texasboi was referring to when talkin bout your struggle ass pic.

Like I said tho. Stfu or fight me.

I'm lost.


@pico .

@scorpio4lfe

When did this beef start?

I honestly don't have a beef with Pico. She felt like she had to cape for Yams and threw shots at me so I threw back. I don't fuck with that nigga, never mentioned that nigga and don't think about that nigga but it is what it is.

@scorpio4lfe .

Who the fuck is Yams?

Nobody...that's the point!

 

[jono]

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I be seeing niggas taking care of they girls kids better than they biological kids. I don't see how they do the shit.

NOW this ^ shit right here nigga...this that shit right here. Nothing irritates me more than that.

 

[prime_time_willy]

If I had children then I wouldn't object to the thought of being with a chick with a kid or kids, but since I don't I'm not fond of the idea. Problem I have is that you got a lot of great stepfathers but not a lot of great biological fathers. Dudes be better dads to other people seeds than their own.

Shit is backwards as fuck.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

Used to talk to a dude whose sister had depression really bad and her husband was deployed overseas...he took her son/his nephew one summer when the mom was going through it. Spent mad days at the park and rec center. Never watched so many episodes of teen titans in my life

Yo' comparatively speaking to other shit kids will make you watch... Teen Titans is not that bad.

Trust...i love teen titans...but having to watch like 10 episodes a day...sometimes the same episode 3/4 times in a row...cartoon network can kiss my ass

 

[MrMinimalist]

This is something no one didn't mention. Let's say if a woman is childless and her friends, cousins and other females she knows already have children around the ages of 1-5, guess what? She's going to want to create a child to so that her child can have friends and cousins around the same age so they can play with each other, etc..............

 

[DNB1]

lol @ all the niggas that wouldn't wife this because Blue Ivy ain't yours...

Thats ok tho...cause i'll be like.."i'm da papi"

 

[Chi Snow]

This is something no one didn't mention. Let's say if a woman is childless and her friends, cousins and other females she knows already have children around the ages of 1-5, guess what? She's going to want to create a child to so that her child can have friends and cousins around the same age so they can play with each other, etc..............

Yeah......that's not true at all

 

[Kat]

I fuck wit hoes that got kids

But I don't take any of them serious

I don't even wanna meet they kids

I wouldn't either if I had 7 of my own..child please.

The nerve.

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

I be seeing niggas taking care of they girls kids better than they biological kids. I don't see how they do the shit.

Now this is something to speak on.

 

[Kat]

I think it's easier for them to care for non-biological kids for a couple reasons.

1) the pressure of parenthood isn't there. In their minds, they can walk away from these kids, no strings attached. They're being praised for doing a little something for those kids, cause he doesn't HAVE to do it.

2) The bitterness/anger/resentment that can come from the mother of their bio kids isn't there. Whether the feelings of the mother are warranted or not, he's not trying to get a constant reminder of his shortcomings as a father.

Just my thoughts on it..

 

[CP203]

I think it's easier for them to care for non-biological kids for a couple reasons.

1) the pressure of parenthood isn't there. In their minds, they can walk away from these kids, no strings attached. They're being praised for doing a little something for those kids, cause he doesn't HAVE to do it.

2) The bitterness/anger/resentment that can come from the mother of their bio kids isn't there. Whether the feelings of the mother are warranted or not, he's not trying to get a constant reminder of his shortcomings as a father.

Just my thoughts on it..

quit making excuses and trying to rationalize aint shit dudes, fuck about the mother as a man step up because you played a part in creating that life, but let me guess its cool he not taking care of his own because he's taking care of his girls kids, you're the homie and all but you sound like a bird that would enable an aint shit dude

 

[Kat]

Man stfu.

 

[Chi Snow]

I think it's easier for them to care for non-biological kids for a couple reasons.

1) the pressure of parenthood isn't there. In their minds, they can walk away from these kids, no strings attached. They're being praised for doing a little something for those kids, cause he doesn't HAVE to do it.

2) The bitterness/anger/resentment that can come from the mother of their bio kids isn't there. Whether the feelings of the mother are warranted or not, he's not trying to get a constant reminder of his shortcomings as a father.

Just my thoughts on it..

You ain't get no sleep last night huh

 

[CP203]

shit is craazy