Felt like I was misled. We acted like a couple but she's not looking for a relationship right now?

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Max-b;4328573 said:
Wtf @ hb9&fwb lol gtfo

HB9=Hotbody 9 (9 on a scale of one to ten.)

FWB=Friends with benefits.

From reading that, it seems this guy is learning the Mystery Method. All of what he's stating is in a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss which was about this nerd that ended up becoming one of the best players. Good read.
 
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Your first mistake was doing couple activies without establishing what you both wanted.

Basically she's not into you like that. You are a fill-in until she finds what she really wants. Either cut her off completely or keep the relationship to strictly fucking.
 
First off what the fuck is BH9 and AFC?

Secondly Nigga you only 22, pull you damn panties up and have some fun with the hoe.

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^^ This nigga would be very disappointed in you.
 
She wants to keep you on the line in case shit doesn't work out with her abusive ex (whom is still in her life). The whole "its not you, its me" line is a cop out excuse, due to her inability to let him go, and move on completely with her life. You were just a fantasy for her...she knows that you are a good guy, and you mean well by her, however, she is still stuck on the nigga that whoops her ass, because he's got her mind.

Kick that chick square in her ass, and let the next chick in. She's no good for you.
 
ms.jones;4328606 said:
She wants to keep you on the line in case shit doesn't work out with her abusive ex (whom is still in her life). The whole "its not you, its me" line is a cop out excuse, due to her inability to let him go, and move on completely with her life. You were just a fantasy for her...she knows that you are a good guy, and you mean well by her, however, she is still stuck on the nigga that whoops her ass, because he's got her mind.

Kick that chick square in her ass, and let the next chick in. She's no good for you.

Words of wisdom ms Jones.
 
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@black caesar

I'm not really learning about it. HB9 is from pua but it's just something I used as a abbreviation. I did the same with "FWB" because I didn't feel like typing it out. Alright though, in the beginning...we established that we were friends with benefits until she broke down crying one night. That night, she said that all we do is have sex and she see's me in more ways than just sex. She basically got emotional first (which is why I stop doing friends with benefits) After that night, she initiated actions of a girlfriend so I assumed we were dating.
 
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John_Blazini;4328619 said:

You wrong for that homie. LOL What's good my dude?

T/S your main mistake is that you got too much into her. Because of this, more than likely you missed some subtle clues that would have told you where her mind state was. From what I read, she's not used to be treated the way you treated her. Now with this situation, what you need to do is start dating other women ASAP. As a matter of fact charge her to the game, or just keep her as a fuck buddy and nothing else. All the hanging out, opening doors and all the square shit needs to stop.

She's not the one for you. Remember sometimes the best way to see a person is to not look at them. The next woman or women you start dealing with, you need to have a roster of potentials. You were a chili pimp, which means you only had one girl, which is just as bad as having none. The reason being is because if she leaves you, you have no one.
 
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Soho Fresco said:
Here goes, I ended up talking to a co worker back in November of 2011. Side note: I ended up getting another job so we were no longer coworkers.

Her lunch habits probably changed after you found another job.

Lunch tends to be the beginning or downfall of many relationships.

 
I need an @msjones app for my phone. I just describe the jumbled mess of a situation I'm dealing with because of some chick and she clears it all up and makes sense out of it.
 
Cutty5000;4328638 said:
Soho Fresco said:
Here goes, I ended up talking to a co worker back in November of 2011. Side note: I ended up getting another job so we were no longer coworkers.

Her lunch habits probably changed after you found another job.

Lunch tends to be the beginning or downfall of many relationships.

That's another mistake. You're not supposed to be messing with your co-workers. He should had messed with her after he quit, not while he was working there.
 
Soho Fresco;4328618 said:
@black caesar

I'm not really learning about it. HB9 is from pua but it's just something I used as a abbreviation. I did the same with "FWB" because I didn't feel like typing it out. Alright though, in the beginning...we established that we were friends with benefits until she broke down crying one night. That night, she said that all we do is have sex and she see's me in more ways than just sex. She basically got emotional first (which is why I stop doing friends with benefits) After that night, she initiated actions of a girlfriend so I assumed we were dating.

.....so, you gave her the good dick that night, huh?

Bruh, see this female for what she is. She's a needy, messy, little girl that hasn't a clue as to what she really wants. Tell her to holla at you when she gets her life together. She will either fall in line, or give you lip about how her life is "great". Let her be, broseph.
 
ms.jones;4328606 said:
She wants to keep you on the line in case shit doesn't work out with her abusive ex (whom is still in her life). The whole "its not you, its me" line is a cop out excuse, due to her inability to let him go, and move on completely with her life. You were just a fantasy for her...she knows that you are a good guy, and you mean well by her, however, she is still stuck on the nigga that whoops her ass, because he's got her mind.

Kick that chick square in her ass, and let the next chick in. She's no good for you.

damn best advice comes from a female..go figure

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ms.jones;4328606 said:
She wants to keep you on the line in case shit doesn't work out with her abusive ex (whom is still in her life). The whole "its not you, its me" line is a cop out excuse, due to her inability to let him go, and move on completely with her life. You were just a fantasy for her...she knows that you are a good guy, and you mean well by her, however, she is still stuck on the nigga that whoops her ass, because he's got her mind.

Kick that chick square in her ass, and let the next chick in. She's no good for you.

Thanks for the words of wisdom Ms. Jones.

That's what I was trying to say, she was giving me mixed signals. If you're telling me you want more than sex with me, i'd assume you mean dating. Before that night, I had no problem smashing and sending her on her way.
 
Soho Fresco;4328660 said:
ms.jones;4328606 said:
She wants to keep you on the line in case shit doesn't work out with her abusive ex (whom is still in her life). The whole "its not you, its me" line is a cop out excuse, due to her inability to let him go, and move on completely with her life. You were just a fantasy for her...she knows that you are a good guy, and you mean well by her, however, she is still stuck on the nigga that whoops her ass, because he's got her mind.

Kick that chick square in her ass, and let the next chick in. She's no good for you.

Thanks for the words of wisdom Ms. Jones.

That's what I was trying to say, she was giving me mixed signals. If you're telling me you want more than sex with me, i'd assume you mean dating. Before that night, I had no problem smashing and sending her on her way.

Charge her to the game, and build a roster.
 

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