Fellas, how would you handle this situation with your chick and facebook

[bankrupt baller]

-1 star thread

 

[King Erauno]

this is a typical scenario. She obviously lies to you in your face...u need to tell her what u read and cut her loose...for lying.

 

[King Erauno]

u dont know how many times ive heard some shit like this...girl says shes mad at her dude..so she flirts with other cats...writes letters..etc. must not be too mad to write that bubbily shit.

*gets off my soapbox*

 

[The Jackal]

Leave......

 

[ricanprince]

do you trust her in the first place? if not, you got bigger issues.

im not going through this situation, but a close friend is

 

[kevmic]

ok, lets say your chick was at your place and was using facebook and when she left she forgot to log off, so the next time you hop on the computer she see she is still logged on. You click her messages and see a pm title that catches your eye and is from a guy that you have never heard her mention before. You look at the messages, and the guy is talking about how he is thinking about her and still thinks about when they messed around a couple years prior before the 2 of you got together. Her response is she is flirtatious as well, telling him that he made an impact on her, she misses him, has been thinking about him lately, and hopes to talk to him soon on phone. The guy lives in a different state than the 2 of you. You bring it up to her and she tells you who the guy is, but tells you there are no feelings and that the 2 of you had been fighting at the time the messages were sent and that she was pissed off and drinking at the time. I would add some more but i know how the IC is about reading anything over 10 lines.

A lot of IC niggas will be like drop that bitch and keep it pushing. But I would say if there isn't anything in those messages with her saying let's meet up to fuck or some ol crazy shit like that, then take it for what it is, but keep one eye open for her. If she said she did it when she was mad at you and drunk, that's a red flag right there. Because if she can get into some Facebook exchange with some nigga she use to fuck back in the day. Who's to say what would've happened if he was living in town, and she was mad and drunk that night?? 2 Why would she even be keeping in contact with some nigga she only knew from fucking?? Especially if she's in a relationship. Just know that if you choose to stay with her, this nigga is someone you need to be on the lookout for, regardless of what shit she's talking. Because from those messages he sounds like a nigga trying to creep on the come up, he see y'all having problems, he's gonna lay in the cut to play clean up man.

 

[goat334]

A lot of IC niggas will be like drop that bitch and keep it pushing. But I would say if there isn't anything in those messages with her saying let's meet up to fuck or some ol crazy shit like that, then take it for what it is, but keep one eye open for her. If she said she did it when she was mad at you and drunk, that's a red flag right there. Because if she can get into some Facebook exchange with some nigga she use to fuck back in the day. Who's to say what would've happened if he was living in town, and she was mad and drunk that night?? 2 Why would she even be keeping in contact with some nigga she only knew from fucking?? Especially if she's in a relationship. Just know that if you choose to stay with her, this nigga is someone you need to be on the lookout for, regardless of what shit she's talking. Because from those messages he sounds like a nigga trying to creep on the come up, he see y'all having problems, he's gonna lay in the cut to play clean up man.

Her response is she is flirtatious as well, telling him that he made an impact on her, she misses him, has been thinking about him lately, and hopes to talk to him soon on phone.

This is just the beginning

 

[ricanprince]

A lot of IC niggas will be like drop that bitch and keep it pushing. But I would say if there isn't anything in those messages with her saying let's meet up to fuck or some ol crazy shit like that, then take it for what it is, but keep one eye open for her. If she said she did it when she was mad at you and drunk, that's a red flag right there. Because if she can get into some Facebook exchange with some nigga she use to fuck back in the day. Who's to say what would've happened if he was living in town, and she was mad and drunk that night?? 2 Why would she even be keeping in contact with some nigga she only knew from fucking?? Especially if she's in a relationship. Just know that if you choose to stay with her, this nigga is someone you need to be on the lookout for, regardless of what shit she's talking. Because from those messages he sounds like a nigga trying to creep on the come up, he see y'all having problems, he's gonna lay in the cut to play clean up man.

I feel you on this and thats exactly what "my friend" told his chick

 

[blackrain]

ok, lets say your chick was at your place and was using facebook and when she left she forgot to log off, so the next time you hop on the computer she see she is still logged on. You click her messages and see a pm title that catches your eye and is from a guy that you have never heard her mention before. You look at the messages, and the guy is talking about how he is thinking about her and still thinks about when they messed around a couple years prior before the 2 of you got together. Her response is she is flirtatious as well, telling him that he made an impact on her, she misses him, has been thinking about him lately, and hopes to talk to him soon on phone. The guy lives in a different state than the 2 of you. You bring it up to her and she tells you who the guy is, but tells you there are no feelings and that the 2 of you had been fighting at the time the messages were sent and that she was pissed off and drinking at the time. I would add some more but i know how the IC is about reading anything over 10 lines.

I'd tell her "If you handle our arguments or disagreements by going to flirt with other niggas then here's a perfect reason to go flirt...we're done now get out of my face/house you disrespectful, immature, untrustworthy cranker (dc slang)"...then i'd light a blunt and go on about my day

 

[inlovewithe]

personally, i dont trust people who let anger/alcohol/drugs justify their actions.

This.....................

 

[inlovewithe]

I'd tell her "If you handle our arguments or disagreements by going to flirt with other niggas then here's a perfect reason to go flirt...we're done now get out of my face/house you disrespectful, immature, untrustworthy cranker (dc slang)"...then i'd light a blunt and go on about my day

so what exactly does "cranker" mean

 

[Suck Me Beautiful]

ok, lets say your chick was at your place and was using facebook and when she left she forgot to log off, so the next time you hop on the computer she see she is still logged on. You click her messages and see a pm title that catches your eye and is from a guy that you have never heard her mention before. You look at the messages, and the guy is talking about how he is thinking about her and still thinks about when they messed around a couple years prior before the 2 of you got together. Her response is she is flirtatious as well, telling him that he made an impact on her, she misses him, has been thinking about him lately, and hopes to talk to him soon on phone. The guy lives in a different state than the 2 of you. You bring it up to her and she tells you who the guy is, but tells you there are no feelings and that the 2 of you had been fighting at the time the messages were sent and that she was pissed off and drinking at the time. I would add some more but i know how the IC is about reading anything over 10 lines.

smh at your clever attempt to rationalize your snooping....

and smh at you buying that story of hers after you found out....

she in effect hit you with the "you goin believe me...or your lying eyes?" line

 

[John_Blazini]

give her one last facial then kick her ass out .

 

[blackrain]

so what exactly does "cranker" mean

a chick whose legs spread easy...they crank open...

*edit...T/S is stupid for snooping through her shit though

 

[chi-town91]

ive been told when im drunk/high i say wateva on my mind without any regard 2 anyones feelings. so u betta keep that eagle eye on her. but who gets drunk then hops on fb

 

[Gnawledgeable]

What if they were about to make plans to meet up and fuck?

Don't trust anyone who stills communicate with any of their exs.

If your partner has facebook, ya'll should add each other because people are sneaky.

T/S, for your friend, tell him to DTB (dump the bitch).

 

[DONP$4]

Tell that bitch to ride out, everything she said in that post sound like lets fuck next. You been thinking about dude. If it was me I would ask her so when you get mad at me you send post to other dudes, ok since I would be mad at that time I would call up one of my old chics, and tell her right in front of her how my girl made me feel. I mean right in her face. And remeber you would of never knew this if she would of never left her page open. NOW DO YOU THINK SHE WOULD OF EVER TOLD YOU THE TRUTH. LMAO. Tell that bitch to ride the fuck out.

 

[afro thunder]

Do you want to marry this chick? If your answer is yes, you're a sucker. If you don't want to marry her then cut her loose already. This shouldn't even be a issue. If she's not a keeper she's a fling and should be treated as such.

 

[monolithicpaw]

Cut her loose. I've been through that situation. And afterwards he kept popping up more than I care to mention. You think its cool because he is in another state. But the beauty of the internet is that people can build their fantasy lives. romances or whatever.My ex. began to believe that shit. It took a while to extricate myself from that situation. My advice is to cut her loose. If she never comes back she wasn't yours in the first place. If she does, flip the script to some strict shit. Make like you the one thats living by the code and not her. And be nosy as a mufucka! Eventually you 2 will work it out, or you will see that the relationship isn't worth it.

 

[letstrythisagain]

u dont know how many times ive heard some shit like this...girl says shes mad at her dude..so she flirts with other cats...writes letters..etc. must not be too mad to write that bubbily shit.

*gets off my soapbox*

lmao

if it were me? i'd be PISSED. then i'd have a problem with trust